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what do i do?
Okay, so i am in a bit of a situation. There is a guy that i am dating and its been like a month and a half and he is so prude. He hugged me like 5 times and held my hand twice. And i like never make the first move...i dont know why i just dont. And i am torn do i break up with him or do i just keep the relationship going? But he is like a really nice guy and everything, its just i dont know. Help me?!?!?
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alright, well, if I were you, i'd talk to him first. Maybe the problem is that he's a nice guy. Usually nice guys are shy. I dated a really nice guy and he wouldn't even hug me or hold my hand at first because he was so shy and, like you, I don't make the first move. So, after hoping he would get comfortable enough and waiting forever, I just hugged him and it went from there. Give him a few hints and push him in the right direction. I don't think being shy is any reason to get rid of him. Talk to him. Hope I helped.
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I agree with the answer below- you really should talk to him about it, or give him some hints that you would like to take things a little further. Maybe a peck on the cheek, or even on the lips- just see how he reacts..even if you don't usually make the first move, it wouldn't hurt to try in this case (guys love it).
Also, the fact that he hasn't tried anything is not a good reason to end the relationship. If you like him and find him to be a nice guy, then it's worth waiting for him to become more comfortable. He might just be unsure of what you are expecting, or might be a bit shy..especially since you guys haven't been dating for long. Try giving him a couple of hints, or even ask him if he wants to start taking things a little further, as in starting to make out. Afterwards, it's up to the two of you to decide how you want things to progress.
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if i were you i would first talk to him about it, maybe he's like unsure if you want it to go farther or not. if after you have the talk and he still doesn't want to take it farther then maybe break up with him since apparetly you want a relationship that goes farther then hugging 5 times and holding hands 2 times. And i mean you don't want to pressure the guy so yeah i would just talk to him and figure out his opinions on the situation.
hope i helped; katie.
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