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is he cheating with his ex?
ive been dating my guy for 6 months and his ex has been in the way so i told him to tell her to knock it off. so yesterday he tells me they went to dinner so they can come to a conclusion. earier today he sent me a message saying that he wanted to talk to me. and when i tried to get in contact with him. he wouldnt answer my texts. and when i called it went straight to voice mail. is he cheating on me with his ex? do you think he's losing his love for me? or am i just being paranoid?
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Hey,
I actually had this same problem. You defiantly don't need to to "assume" he is cheating on you.
Theres most likely a reason he couldn't get in contact with you, if he sent you a message saying he wanted to talk to you then I'm sure he does, he just hasn't had the time or simply just cant [phone died, it broke, etc] Give him time to explain..
but for the time being, i would sorta just leave it alone, don't make an effort to get in contact with him, wait and see if he gets up with you, give him about three days to at least "try" to get up with you if he doesn't there's defiantly no need to stick around with him leave him a message telling him how you feel and if he still doesn't move onnnn.
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Well first of all try not to come to any conclusions until you get some answers out of him. Yeah he shouldn't rreally be hanging with his ex, but if he's sincere to you, seeing her once and a while isn't so bad. But ask yourself this..Did he tell you he was going out to dinner with her before he actually did so? If not..then you definetly should start questionning his feelings for him, because if he's sneeking around, he's soooo not worth it!
Hope things work out for you and I hope I could help=D
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well it all depends on how much love you guys have for each other. i mean if it;s a relationship where you only see each other once a week, he could potentially be cheating on you. But if you have a strong, see each other everyday or every other day relationship, you might just be paranoid.
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At least give him a chance to talk to you about this and explain why he was unable to call or text you back.
Then trust your gut. There is really no compelling reason to believe that if he cheated on her, and is trying so desperately to remain friendly with her, that he wont cheat on you, and try the same stunts to keep you as a friend to his sorry ass as well.
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Well the first thing i can tell you is don't jump to any conclusions. thats not to say he isn't my advice is to sit him down and tell him how you feel without being accusing. don't back him in a corner just talk to him
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