Website:
myspaceGender:
FemaleLocation:
PennsylvaniaAge:
14AIM:
alhxxMember Since:
March 9, 2008Answers:
26Last Update:
April 19, 2009Visitors:
1734about
I'm fourteen years old, but i'm very mature for my age. I'm friendly, and I'm always giving advice away. I have no problem helping anyone, feel free to message me, or add me on my myspace! myspace.com/alex_hereinyourarms, just put "advicenators" in the note ! (:
advice
I know of websites that tell you how much sexual content, obscene language, violence, etc... is in a particular movie, but are there any websites that can tell you of any animal cruelty? I stopped going to see movies in the theater or renting them before someone has seen it first to warn me, because it bothers me so much to see animals get hurt. I'd love to be able to check out movies beforehand.
i'm sure that on some websites they'll put whether or not the movie has animal cruelty on it or not. you'll probably just need to read the movie description. :) good luck
Okay, so I am 15, and I just put my first tampon in, but it isn't in all the way. It took me awhile to get it in and to find the right hole, haha. I walk funny with it in and I feel like I am peeing, but I'm not.
I need advice! How do I put it in correctly so that it goes in all the way? What is this peeing sensation that I am having? and are there smaller tampons? Should I have started this when I was in 7th grade?
There are directions that come in the box. You need to put the applicator in till the grip part (where your finger and thumb pinch to hold it) is touching the opening of your vagina. then you push the insert thing haha. if its in right, you shouldn't be able to feel it.
- alex;
hiiiiii :)
i'll give anyone who answers a 5, because this is long! thanks!
18/f. i have a best friend who is turning 17 in about 3 months and his girlfriend is already 17. im in college (freshman) but i commute, so i still live at home and he is a junior in high school. i know some of you may think, wow age difference? guys dont mature as fast as girls? yes. but my best friend is totally different. he gets me. we've been friends for about three and a half years now. he's been going out with his girlfriend for about two and a half. before he was going out with his girlfriend we use to hang out pretty much everyday. we both kind of liked each other but neither of us told one another. lets just say we were physicallly attracted to each other but we were also very comfortable with each other. we've never kissed or done anything physical. anyways when he started going out with his girlfriend, i was jealous i'll admit it and i STILL AM. she is known to be the "hottest" girl in school and she is an athletic girl and is good at what she does. she plays fastpitch tennis and hockey for school, and well he is the starting quarterback for his school, he is pretty much the star athlete for all the sports he plays at school (hockey baseball and football) i guess all the colleges are looking to recruit him and well all the girls think he is hot too. they go to the same school. well after about a year of them going out or even a couple months, things between us were different. i don't get to see him anymore, maybe once in about two or three months, he doesn't text me anymore and i feel like we're not even "best friends" anymore because he is ALWAYS with his girlfriend, any chance he gets. sometimes i'll have an excuse to text him like last weekend i met one of his friends at a party, and i was like i met your friend jake tonight! and he was like jake who? and i was like..i forget his last name but he use to play football with you and then he never said anything back. im really sick of texting him first and always getting disappointed because i feel like he doesnt even want to talk to me. him and his girlfriend are first loves, they even lost their virginity to each other and after being together for two and a half years and they rarely ever fight, of course they have good memories. i want him to be happy, but right now IM NOT HAPPY. i dont want to sound selfish but i'll always like him more than a friend but i realize we can never be more. im a jealous person, and of course im always jealous of his girlfriend. i've tried talking to him about it, and even one night about a month ago we were together with some friends and he started talking to me and was like, "what happened to us, why aren't we close anymore?" and i was just like well, alot happened i guess. and he was like you know you can tell me anything, we're best friends and i was like we WERE best friends... and he was like what do you mean! and i was just like i dont know..things between us will never be the same. and i think he felt bad and he says things will change, but it never does. i dont want him out of my life but im so miserable right now, have been for two and a half years without him. him and his girlfriend dont hang out with anyone but each other. he even said they want to go to the same college, but he can pretty much go to any college he wants to play hockey, and i think she might get a scholarship to play too. what if they do end up going to the same college? it just hurts knowing that his heart belongs to someone else, and how we're not close anymore and i dont think ever will be. it seems like he will only ask to hang out with me when his girlfriend has to do something or is out of town, which to me doesnt sound fair but of course i'll hangout with him any chance i get, because i really do miss him. my family is in love with him. he is talkitive to them well he is a very outgoing guy, and is so nice. i stay busy but i always think about what he is doing, every time i get a text i hope it's him (but it never is) i dont want to move on from him, i dont want him out of my life. i want my best friend back...
i dont know what to do!
The way your putting it, he seems really happy with his girlfriend, especially of 2 years. I know it kills you to see him with her, believe me I have been though it. You just need to talk to him about how you feel, just be like "Hey we don't talk as much anymore, I thought we were best friends?" It will most likely pick up a conversation. Also, try to patch things up with him, if the conversation gets somewhere, be like "I need to tell you something" and tell him exactly how you feel. I know guys aren't always understanding, so don't get upset if he doesn't really give you the reply your looking for.
Don't waste your time on a boy, trust me I wasted 2 months on a boy, and passed up an amazing one! That amazing one forgave me, and we have been together for a month now! Try dating other people, I mean your in college right? There's plenty of cute guys there.
best of luck!
- Alex;
okay, i had this ex named bradin about a yr ago and we both liked each other but i dumped him for another guy that i went out with. now im startin to like bradin again because we've been talking again. he says he likes me too but has a girlfriend or "has a girl in mind".. he always flirts with me, saying he wishes it was me and everything just doing normal flirting stuff but wont break up with her because he says hes been waiting for her for a long time. whenever i ask him if i have a chance or whatever he says maybe and then when i ask him if theres any point to liking him he says yes but he doesnt know what. i know he has been waiting for this girl but she says that they arent going out but they both like each other. i really want to go out with him but i dont know what i should do or say to him or act around him or even if i should stop liking him. i dont want to stop liking him. he really does act like he likes me and everything but doesnt want to cheat on his "girlfriend"
what should i do!
tell him that you don't deserve to be waited for, your better than that. he shouldn't flirt with you, and then have a "girlfriend", he's playing you, or leading you on.
i know i just ask this question but i reallly dont know what to do.
i love my boyfriend and he loves me.
but he tells his best friends that are girls that he loves them and that their cute and he calls them baby.
it seriously kills me seeing that and ever since i saw that, its all i think about.
im scared that he is doing something behind my back and i dont know about it.
but last time i confonted him on it, he got mad and said that he says he loves them as in a friend way and he calls all his bestfriends baby, and that the only reason he says their cute is to make them feel good about themselves. which i think is a pretty lame excuse but whatever.
but the day that heppened i know he felt bad because he cried that whole night and i felt bad yelling at him and stuff. and like he gets emotional when it comes to our relationship
recently his aunt kicked him out of her house so hes living with his friend. we didnt talk at all yesterdya and i was realllly sad. and today we talked but only online. its hard to talk to him cause his phone is turned off and its broke. and i was soo used to talking to him on the phone every night. ( bytheway we live in different states) and that makes my trust issues 343928x harder. ive barely talked to him lately and its making me reallly sad.i wanna talk to him about sutff. but he will just deny it and then start getting sad and then it will make me feel bad. im the type of person who blames all the fights on myslef even though its my boyfriend who caused it.
i need helpppp. thanks
he's proboly crying like that to make you feel bad, and if you haevent talked to him a lot lately, that just gives him more time to cheat on you. i honusly think he is cheating on you with his friend girls, and the only guys that call their friend girls cute., and arent attracted to them are gay. hope this helped!
xo kara and alexx
where can i get the cheapest cds?
you can download music for free on limewire, or frost wire. and burn them on a cd?
I cannot get my music from lime wire into my itunes library what am i doing wrong?
you have to go to limewire, and save your songs as a playlist. then go to itunes->file->add file to library. this should work, if it doesn't message me.
okay so i'm fourteen and my boyfriend broke up with me about June 29th. We were in a really tight relationship, i could tell him anything, but all we really did was kiss, we never made out or anything. when he broke up with me i got really sick, didnt eat, and everytime i stood up i was dizzy. i have kinda moved on, i started dating this kid on the 8th, but we broke up on the 19th, due to we thought we were rushing things. now my exboyfriend (greg) is acting like a huge ass, like he was when he broke up with me. he told me to fuck off and stuff when i just texted him hey. he texted me last night saying "hey just so you know i got a new girlfriend" and i think it's my friend rachel! rachel is not really a good friend, because she tried breaking me and greg up before, and i almost punched her in her face. she knows what i went through with him, and what happened in the break up and everything! im not sure there going out or not, but he's #1 on her myspace, and she's #1 on his. i don't know what to do bc i kinda still like greg, but i need to get over him. he even asked for the hoodie back he gave me, that i used to sleep with every night. please help me i don't know what to do. im thinking maybe that im being jealous, because i did have a new boyfriend before rachel, but i think its wrong for him to date my friend.
sorry i meant to say we broke up on the 12th!
my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please email me at gen3eclipsegt@aim.com thank you
maybe you should tell her how you feel, that your bothered by what she's done. be truthfull with her, she'll understand.
Alright, well on Saturday me and my friends are going into the city to flirt with boys ;) Don't worry, we know what we're doing, we'll make sure they're not with a girl/are single before we hook in.
Anyway, I have nothing to wear. All my clothes are sort of "punk" and I'm slightly getting over that phase.
So on Wednesday me and my friend decided to go to thrift stores and buy some cheap clothes.
I know some/most clothes you find in there are DISGUSTING!! However you can occasionally find something good. Or you can mix and match to find something good.
So my question is, what sort of things should I look for? I'm looking for a sort of "cute" dress sense, although it can be slightly "alternative/indie" I'm not against dressing like that, I'm just really over band shirts, tartan and ripped jeans.
you should try out some skinny jeans and flats. it's sort of indie/scene, but it looks good on anyone, and looks really cute :D
Everything is going pefect with me and my bf
we love eachother, cant stand to be appart...
the usual
but we have nothing to talk about other then how much we love eachother
i know that sounds bad, but we can go on and on just about hoe much were in love
haha
but i need something to talk about with him other then that you know?
any ideas?
Talk about what you guys have in common, and talk about stuff that he likes. (:
I have an ex-freind named...well lets call her julie. In elementary school, my best friend deena and i were friends with this girl named julie. Nice girl, was always herself, and we hung out alot out of school. But when we reached high school, me and my best friend went to different ones, and were still best friends. Julie and i went to the same high school, and for the first few months she ingored me, pushed me in the hallway, made fun of me in gym, lied about things. she thought everyone loved her and that she was on top of the world. As time progressed people began to see what she was really like, and started to reject her, now nobody in school likes her, and if they do, they pretend to becuase i was walking behind her "best friend" Rachel to class once. She was talking bad about julie!
This only proves my theory.
For the past few days julie has been talking to me, and i have to tell you, im shocked she came back to a 'loser like me'. Should i take her back in my circle of friends, or tell her she doesnt deserve it from the way she trated me.
well it's not good to hold grudges, but she seems like a bitch. I wouldn't take her back.
NOW:
Oh and just friday I found out that someone had written on a desk that says that I heart him..or the other way around and my korean friends keep asking if it was me. It wasn't me, but then one of my friends told me that it was prolly a bunch of korean guys..
And suu I went to church that day and came across sumone that goes to my High school and I asked her if she knew who wrote it, and she told me that everyone says it was me.
(Its not a rumor over the whole school, but a rumor over the whole korean community of the school, and I'm not korean, but all my friends are.)
Background:
There is this guy I thought was cute and He found out, but people told him that I liked him. I just thought he was cute! My friend told me that he likes sumone else. We talk very seldomly, but I see that he is always looking at me, and You know when someone is looking at you...and I'm a very paranoid person and I don't get why he looks at me. Hes the only person that calls me by my Korean name too. I really don't know.
My korean name is my nickname....
just tell them it wasn't you, and if they don't believe you, their not your true friends.
cute spring outfits?
links would be great.
you should explain what style you dress it/
Does anyone know WHY the episode "I'm Watching You" from Keeping up with the Kardashians, is not available on itunes (it's the only episode that isn't available) also its the only episode that isn't ever aired on television anymore...can anyone tell me why???
Thanks so much!!
hmm i didn't see that episode, maybe they reviewed it and didn't want it/
Hey, well i'm 15/f. I just got my hair cut. It pretty much sits on my shoulders. But I have absolutly nothing cute to do with it. Everytime I try curling my hair, it never stays. No matter how much hairspray I put on it, it doesn't stay. About the only thing cute that I know how to do with it is scrunch it, or put it in a little pony tail. What else can I do though? Another problem I have with it is that since it does sit on my shoulders, it flips out at the ends which really bothers me, since I'm like a super profectionest. Also, my part. I like my part to not look straight, but not really messy. I just like to peice it out where different peices cross over. But I ALWAYS get frustrated and really mad because it never looks how I want it to look. Once again, I'm a HUGE profectionest(sp?). AND, my bangs. They never lay how I want them to. I can only put certain bangs on one side because of the "way they grow" as my mom says... I really want my bangs to look like this:
http://www.daemonstv.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/ot5_haley_3_089ra-7aac6252-t3.thumbnail.jpg
btw, that's about the length of my hair too. So can someone please help? Like can someone tell me some styles, and tips about everything I'm having problems with? Websites would also be super helpful. Thanks so much!!
you should put your bangs to the side with a clip or a bobbi pin., that would be cute.
15/f and the guy is 15 as well.
so basically, i'm going to leave out the fine details. i danced with the guy i like, a lot. the last slowdance. we talked a little and he was very sweet and cute. my best friend holly claims he was smiling the whole time he danced with me, which i assume is a good sign. after we pulled away, the lights came on and i said 'thankyou' and he smiled and was looking in my eyes (not so sure if this was intentional) and i got nervous, said goodbye, and turned away. i talked to him a lot online the next day, a very big conversation that was about nothing and full of flirting. the thing is, i don't know what to do next. i liked this same guy last year, and he liked me, and he asked me out. i said yes but then dumped him the next day because i was very nervous and scared and didn't know what to do, and i blew it.
now i have no idea what to do, and i'm INCREDIBLY shy. there's no way to tell if he likes me or not, and im pretty sure his friends dont like me very much as he is 'popular' and i'm 'not so popular'.
help is much appreciated,
thank you for reading this long story in advance!
ask him out definatly! if he says no just be like, "okay it's cool (: we can still be friends."
So this whole week for school we get to have differnt things to dress up as on of them is rockstar day and i dont know what to wear. any ideas? like clothes, makeup, and jewelry.
For rockstar day you should wear like black shirts, if you have a band shirt it would look cool. if you have skinny jeans and flats it would look awesome too!, also, a lot of eye liner, and maybe a very cool hairstyle that involves a lot of hair spray. big earings too.
16/f
My nose gets extremely oily at school. Its really embaressing. Ive tried to go to the bathroom and use oil absorbing sheets in between classes, but I can't do that without being tardy for classes. What can I do to keep me oil free throughout the school day?
Scrub your face with alcohol pads, fill up your sink with very hot water, and put your face over it, because usually steam obsorbs into your pours and doesn't make your face oily at all.
hey i was wondering if anyone knew of something to put on my face to make it less pale.i have coverup but it doesn't really seem to lessen my paleness. i don't really want it to look like a fake tan or whatever, i just want something that will make my face not so pale. so does anyone know anything that works really good? thankss.
Covergirl AquaSmooth foundation which if you have dry skin and zits, it hydrates but doesn't make it oily. Also, it adds a tan effect but doesn't make you look fake or anything.