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Is he playing me or what?


Question Posted Wednesday July 16 2008, 1:40 am

okay, i had this ex named bradin about a yr ago and we both liked each other but i dumped him for another guy that i went out with. now im startin to like bradin again because we've been talking again. he says he likes me too but has a girlfriend or "has a girl in mind".. he always flirts with me, saying he wishes it was me and everything just doing normal flirting stuff but wont break up with her because he says hes been waiting for her for a long time. whenever i ask him if i have a chance or whatever he says maybe and then when i ask him if theres any point to liking him he says yes but he doesnt know what. i know he has been waiting for this girl but she says that they arent going out but they both like each other. i really want to go out with him but i dont know what i should do or say to him or act around him or even if i should stop liking him. i dont want to stop liking him. he really does act like he likes me and everything but doesnt want to cheat on his "girlfriend"
what should i do!


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Jehmehh answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 11:51 am:
I think you should move on. For the simple fact that if he has the chance to be with someone he really likes, he should take that chance. Remember, you ended it with him for someone else, so he deserves to be with someone he really likes now.

Plus, you never know if he really likes you or if he's just getting revenge. Has he made any mention of how he felt when you dumped him? Because it could be a factor.

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alhxx answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 9:48 am:
tell him that you don't deserve to be waited for, your better than that. he shouldn't flirt with you, and then have a "girlfriend", he's playing you, or leading you on.

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TheKindlyOne answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 5:46 am:
Seriously, I think you're getting into something you're going to regret.

Just get out now, and don't look back, because this is one of those topics where a smarmy maybe shouldn't be used if you're serious.

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