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is she worth keeping as a friend
At school there's these rumours going around about one of my friends, and someone decided to ask her about them. For some reason she goes and blames me for spreading stuff about her (which i havnt btw) and comes up to me after school shouting and swearing! i tried to explain that i hadnt dun anything but she wouldnt listen, and now shes started bitching about me to everyone i know! Also, i bought her a bday present before we argued and i havnt given it to her yet. I dont know whether to give it to her or not!! i really hate the way shes being so petty and immature, but should i try 2 make things up with her (everytime i try to speak to her she yells at me) or just leave it?
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hey! I think you should still give her the presant! Also, mabe someone told her that you started it. you need to talk to her, if she doesnt listen you could send her an e-mail or be like "Please just listen to me .." try to make her. *~Good luck~* Xo Michelle
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Well if you honestly didnt talk about your friend, then yeah you should try and make her understand that you werent the one who said stuff about her. But your right about how she is bein immature she should just realize that whatever the rumors were it prolly wasnt true and she should just get over it. And stop blaming you, your friend just doesnt understand that you didnt say anything, and she dont wanna listen to you because she knows more than likely you really havent sed anything, she is she just being mean and tryin to find someone to blame it on. I think you should write her a note or something since you seem to not be able to talk to her in person (because she yells at you everytime your in person around her) And if she wont listen when you do get a chance to explain to her, or she gives you more crap. Than just stop being her friend because evidentally she dont care enough about you to trust what you say.. Goodluck
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Before you consider dumping her as a friend, first try and get her to calm down a little. It's only a rumor. Rumor's tend to die down after awhile when REAL facts get spread instead of that hype garbage. Once you've done that (if you can! o.O;) Just ask her a few questions, liek where and who she heard the rumors from.. Get the point through to her : You didn't spread any rumors about her to anyone. And go ahead and give her to present ;3 After she's calmed and you've explained all that to her she should feel better.. <3 EJ
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call her up and talk to hr. maybe if shes acting that way she just needs a friend to talk to. it sux thinking a friend maybe turned on you. just talk to her and if it doesnt work out then jusst let it roll off your shoulder. dont sweat it
~natt~
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I don't think she's worth being friends with. It's just grating on your emotional health and it's not good for you. Just tell her you can't be friends with her if she doesn't trust you, because apparently she doesn't.
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