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Question Posted Sunday March 9 2008, 2:35 pm

15/f and the guy is 15 as well.

so basically, i'm going to leave out the fine details. i danced with the guy i like, a lot. the last slowdance. we talked a little and he was very sweet and cute. my best friend holly claims he was smiling the whole time he danced with me, which i assume is a good sign. after we pulled away, the lights came on and i said 'thankyou' and he smiled and was looking in my eyes (not so sure if this was intentional) and i got nervous, said goodbye, and turned away. i talked to him a lot online the next day, a very big conversation that was about nothing and full of flirting. the thing is, i don't know what to do next. i liked this same guy last year, and he liked me, and he asked me out. i said yes but then dumped him the next day because i was very nervous and scared and didn't know what to do, and i blew it.

now i have no idea what to do, and i'm INCREDIBLY shy. there's no way to tell if he likes me or not, and im pretty sure his friends dont like me very much as he is 'popular' and i'm 'not so popular'.

help is much appreciated,
thank you for reading this long story in advance!


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for3v3r_his answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 2:18 pm:
Tell him you had a wonderful time and you have feelings for him again. Let him know you ended it before because you were really shy but you want to try it again. Popularity shouldn't matter and it didn't matter to him when he wanted to be with you the first time. Don't worry about what others will think. You don't want to live not knowing what could have happened so I say go for it. Good Luck.

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M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Monday March 10 2008, 1:53 pm:
thats so cute! :D you should tell him you really enjoy being with him, and tell him you're sorry you ruined it last year and that you really regret it. then if you need to [incase he doesnt take the hint] tell him you'd love another chance.

try not to be so shy, take a chance. even though it might be hard now, it'll be great whenever you get what you want.

good luck :D

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alhxx answered Sunday March 9 2008, 8:01 pm:
ask him out definatly! if he says no just be like, "okay it's cool (: we can still be friends."

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