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I love you
Okkay, Me and my boyfriend started dating like a week ago.
I think I already love him but im scared to tell him. Im scared because I think its too early to say it. Should I wait for him to say it or what?
Thanks.
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Hey,
I've always lived by the quote "don't hold back to tell someone you love them, because tomorrow isn't promised to anyone" but in this case.. you should probably wait.. you don't want to fall for a guy to quickly no matter how bad you want too, I've learned that the hard way :|
but when he says it don't hold back, just go ahead and say it. what do you have to lose? right?
hope i helped.
summer ;]
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Just wait. There's no rush to tell someone you love them. It should come when it's ready and you're certain what you are feeling is love and not just a strong bond/likeness.
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Waiting is good. Think about it this way, if you wait, you have chances to absolutely make sure. Also, don't "wait for him to say it first", but it's a good idea to give some time- he might not come to terms with feelings as quickly, and you don't want to pressure him so quickly to feel like he HAS to make a decision about loving you RIGHT NOW. Yeah, sure as women we all like to hear it first, but trust me, any woman that tells you "oh, when he said I Love You, I thought about it and agreed" Almost every woman knows before her boyfriend. Why? Women are more in tune with feelings than guys. So wait, not because he might not love you, but because most guys just need a lot more time than women to come up with the right answers to things!
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well when you say i love you that means your tellin somebody you love them wheather he says it bck or not u need to tell him bc you may be waitin on him and he may be waitin on u to n dont worry about fallin in love to fast if he loves you then he will except it
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I would wait. As hard as it is to believe, even though you may love him now, love grows. So in a few months you might look back and think how you are feeling now was almost trivial compared to how comfortable and how close you feel to him then. Last year I was contemplating the same thing you are now, saying that I wanted to tell him. I mean at the very start, even two months in, we were nowhere near as comfortable with eachother as we were a month or so later. And while I was trying to figure out when to say it, he said it. Now its a year in and I remember how last summer, I missed him so much when he was on holiday in France! But now, if he went away again, I'd miss him so much more :). Love grows, and it takes time before you say it. It's got to be special, and it will be comfortable when you say it. If you said it now, would you go home embarassed if it went wrong? Don't rush things my dear, let it all go accordingly and it will work out fine :)
I wish you the best of luck. :)
(Dont necessarily wait for him to say it, just wait in, maybe a few months, before you do. 'I love you' is a big obligation and commitment and scares lots of people. But when you feel you're both comfortable with each other and you think he does, say it. Or if he gets there before you... whos complaining :D?!)
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wait fur sure b.c that could scare him off and he mite not think that you mean it and totally ruins that relationship even two weeks in it just doesnt mean the same ik your young but maybe your not feeling love you should deffinaltly wait a couple of months because you cant youse those three words like they are nothing and use them on every guy you think you love really think about it.
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I think you're right about waiting till you can identify as to what you're feeling for this guy. A week is a little early to tell him how you feel for him, and even worse because you're not sure! Let him find out how he feels and how you feel for him, truely.
Love can take time to develop, only until you can tell in your heart that you love him should you tell him. It's nerve racking, not only because you're telling him what you feel for him, but because you don't know what his reaction is and how he will take it.
It's best to wait for him to tell him how he feels for you because you'll know by then how you truely feel about him, and he feels about you and then there will be nothing to worry about as to how he will react. Leave the professing of feelings till later on in the realtionship and see you've got to see how that goes first!
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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