i know i just ask this question but i reallly dont know what to do.
i love my boyfriend and he loves me.
but he tells his best friends that are girls that he loves them and that their cute and he calls them baby.
it seriously kills me seeing that and ever since i saw that, its all i think about.
im scared that he is doing something behind my back and i dont know about it.
but last time i confonted him on it, he got mad and said that he says he loves them as in a friend way and he calls all his bestfriends baby, and that the only reason he says their cute is to make them feel good about themselves. which i think is a pretty lame excuse but whatever.
but the day that heppened i know he felt bad because he cried that whole night and i felt bad yelling at him and stuff. and like he gets emotional when it comes to our relationship
recently his aunt kicked him out of her house so hes living with his friend. we didnt talk at all yesterdya and i was realllly sad. and today we talked but only online. its hard to talk to him cause his phone is turned off and its broke. and i was soo used to talking to him on the phone every night. ( bytheway we live in different states) and that makes my trust issues 343928x harder. ive barely talked to him lately and its making me reallly sad.i wanna talk to him about sutff. but he will just deny it and then start getting sad and then it will make me feel bad. im the type of person who blames all the fights on myslef even though its my boyfriend who caused it.
i need helpppp. thanks<3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Briea6624 answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 12:01 am: Well truthfully....I think you can do better....the only reason why a man would act like that is because he's guilty of what he's doing and he knows he has someone special that he doesn't want to lose...I think yall should be friends for a while until yall get to talk on the phone or see each other in person....relationships really don't work out long distant...trust me, I've been threw it...I know that it's gonna be hard because yall are in love but sometimes you just have to let people go for the better things in life....he might not take it well right away but he will understand....just do what's best or what you think is best for you.
alhxx answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 9:41 pm: he's proboly crying like that to make you feel bad, and if you haevent talked to him a lot lately, that just gives him more time to cheat on you. i honusly think he is cheating on you with his friend girls, and the only guys that call their friend girls cute., and arent attracted to them are gay. hope this helped!
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