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do i love him? does he love me back??
okay. so im a freshman and theres this guy ive known my whole life. i know him but were not really that close. you know how when youre younger you always have crushes?? well i always had one on him. might not forever but for a while, then ill forget about him, then again. hes really good at sports and thats pretty much all he does. when he started school his parents held him back so he would be bigger and older than the other kids. well in the past couple of years i found out someone i go to school with knew him too. im a cheerleader so i saw him. and the girl who also knew him and i kindof had a competition over him i guess n he couldnt stand her but would talk to me all the time. well his parents and g-parents ask about me all of the time and my mom said that everytime he sees me he always stares at me and smiles. well i cant forget about him! everything reminds me of him, i dream of him, hes always there! well he has a g/f but its one of those things where its just middle school and the relationships arent that serious. heres the weird part- hell txt me and ill text him back and stuff. i dont like to hide my feelings or be untrue to myself so i just tell him how i feel but he doesnt stop talking to me. then ill text him, wondering how he is and he wont text back!! later on (few days, weeks, months) hell txt me n well start talking again! idk whats going on! his g/fs not that great (he deserves way better!). i think about him all the time. he always stares at me and smiles. and lately, ive questioned myself "do i love him?". even my mom said that i did but i acted like she didnt know what she was talking about. does he love me back? please help by telling me whats going on.. thanks you so much!
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i always like to say... love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone :) so if you really love the guy, u shouldnt be questioning it... you'll know... and sure you may be in the process of figuring it out right now but sooner or later its gonna hit you and you're going to realize if you love him or if you dont...as far as him loving you, well no one can really say for sure except him...because only one person knows whether or not if they are in love and thats yourself... if its really bugging you maybe itd be best to talk to him about it...and by talking to him about it, it might also help you figure out whether or not ur really in love... i mean at least then you'll know and you wont have to waste all your time thinking about him and maybe you can move on or maybe things will work out the way you would like :) good luck tho
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well, i mean it seems like you obviously really like him and i mean i can't tell you if you love him but personally, i'm sure you love him as a friend since apparently you've known him forever and you two talk. if your asking if your in love with him though then i would have to say that in my opinion if your in love with someone then one day you'll just know so if your even considering the possibility of you loving him then i think your in the stages of figuring out if you love him or not, if that makes sense. i mean thats just my opinion of how to know when your in love, im sure everyone has a different opinion and i'm not trying to tell you that no your not in love with him, just trying to give you an idea of how i can tell.
hope this helps
katie.
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Dear Love?,
Well no one knows how he really feels but him. The same thig goes with you. I would say though if you have to ask if you like him you probably do. Well ask him if he likes this other girl you talked about then jokingly say, " oh what do you like me" and see how he reacts if he acts like he likes you tell him you like him. I fhe acts like he dousn't like you mopre then a friend just laugh like it dousn't bother you then you can still be friends.
Sencerily Maggie Maclean
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