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14/m

okay background:
let's call her linda. i have known her since school started. she laughs at every funny thing i do and she doesn't hesitate to give a hug or a present or something. about a month into the school year she got a bf. another month passes and she wants to break up with him, she's a nervous wreck, comes to me for support and comfort.she gets mad when i hug on other girls.

question:
i don't know if she likes me or if she is very flirtatious? can anybody help

THANX IN ADVANCE

Aww, someone's gotta crush on you ;)

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i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP.

If he's an ass he doesn't deserve you!! You yourself put a 'd' after liked, lol. He's probably trying to get to your bestfriend and using you at the same time. If i were you i'd forget about his ass. Dump him and don't have sex with him!!

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Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...

Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething

I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..

Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me


Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!

OMG THAT IS SOO EFFIN LONG!! :O

Sorry, but i dont feel like reading this all... sorry....
:/

I guess ask her out... if she doesnt have feeling for you then screw her...
i just read your last line..
lmao :)

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EDIT:
Awe that was really sweet feedback!! I still wish i could help you out!! :)

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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach?

Yes...

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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?

It sounds really sweet. But, the whole blonde thing, not cool.
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WHat if the whole skool find out that your pregnant. But you didn't want errybody to know. You told the one person you thought you could trust, and they told. What do I do? Should I deney it or should I say something to that person I told?

"Errybody" is going to find out anyway. You know, when your stomach gets big. BUT if i were you i'd go up to the person and say, "WTF i thought i could trust you!" Then after she says something back, PUNCH HER!!!
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my boyfriend says everything to me that i am his everything to me and that he loves me and no body else and how much he cares hor me! and he is in love with me. But there his his ex.. his first love and he swears that he dont like her that way any more and he is not going to break up with me for her and he promises on our relationship! i dont know what to believe though i told him i believed him and then i told him that i dodnt believe and that i was confused and i didnt know how to react! but i mean he tells me everything they say to each other and when she calls!

BELIEVE HIM !! It sounds like he loves you to much to do ANYTHING with his ex.
GOODLUCK

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Hey well umm me and my x boyfriend bobby went out for about 3 months. and then we broke up. Now he lives somewhere else and he is commin back down to visit his dad and stuff and he wants to see me. but everytime we have seen eachother after weve broke upp we always end up makin out. I really love him but i dont want to get hurt. i am finally kinda movin on.. do u think i should juss not see him or see him and try not to make out idk juss please help me

I think you should see him. I understand that you dont want to make out but you could try to prevent that from happening. For example tell yourself that if you do you'll have to try to move on again, and again. Think about other guys that you'd want to hook up with. If your ex makes a move push him back and tell him you think its time to move on and stay friends.
HOPEiHELPED
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This one is for the girls to anser
What can i do to get my baby love me more or what can i get her what do gilrs like there boyfriends 2 do for them???????? some one plz help me fast

Hey !!! Well you could always give her roses or even write her a poem. Girls like that alot !!! Compliment her more often, and put your arms around her. Anything really thats sweet. You could even buy her a bracelet that has the date you guys went out first carved onto it!!!
GOODLUCK
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Peace.

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

HELL YeA !!!
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas

You could get him a cd, dvd, and metal heart with the date you guys started going out carved on it.
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Peace.
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there is this one girl at school who treats me better than others. Like i am extremely impared or something {well i do hang out with the impared people sometimes}. Is she in love with me? How can I tell if a girl likes me.

I think she likes you. =) The best thing to do is ask her face to face. If you're too shy to do that you could write her a note saying something like this ---> "___ (her name) i've been really confused. Im just wondering if you have feelings for me or something because i have been getting mixed signals =) Love, ___ (your name)".
GOODLUCK
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Peace.
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Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =)

Just FLIRT!! Girls love confident guys that will just approach them!!! Be yourself, and be sweet.
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hello well i was txing this guy (we are going out but only for like 2 weeks so far) and at the end i put lots of love and he replied love ya too.
now what does the YA mean?? does he not like me enough to say u?? or what i need to know..
xxxthanksxxx

Ya is another way os saying you.
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Peace.
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Yea i think he meant you
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hello
my girlfriend and i have been dating for abt a month.. and she told me that she was raped two years ago i was the first guy that took the news approiately.. we had sex for the first time and halfway through she asked me to stop and i did.
and asked for me to take her home..i did..
and she asked to break up with me..
reason being that now everytime she goin to see me she thinks of her rapist...
i dont want to let her go..
i really care for her alot .
she suffers from depression alot...
i want to be a part of her life..
im one of very few people she let in ..
now she shuttin me out..
she told me she wants me to leave cos she dont want to hurt me like she hurt her ex's because of the rape always effected her relationships..
she says she cares abt me too much to hurt me..
i care abt her too much to let her go..

i need advice on this..
also i need to council her somehow.. please give me advice on how to help her get though this..
she refuses to get professional help..
please help..
even if we dont get back together, i want her to progress with her life.. and be able to have a realtionship again
please help

Tell her that you care ALOT about her and you respect her decisions. Tell her that the rapist shouldn't effect her relationships because that guy was a jerk! Just be there for her. And respect that shes not ready to be in a relationship with you. I hope it all goes well!
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Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!?

Tell him that it bugs you that he ignores you, and that you feel like you're not important anymore. If he keeps doing it then i think you should dump him. But if you love him even though he ignores you at times then dont. Do what you think is best for you.
:)
GOODLUCK
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Peace.

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do girls like axe or tag

Yupp. Thats the best there is. Very sexy.
:)
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Peace.

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I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 6 months. We're very romantically close, and quite physically close(we've only kissed, but we're still very physical). She has a bit of a confidence problem, but I've mostly got that controlled. I'm wondering, what can I do to make her feel more sexy? She does a lot to make me feel sexy, but I think I need to do more to let her know that I think she is too.
Thank you in advance for your help.
16/m

Compliment her looks, but be VERY detailed. Maybe even give her flowers, and write her a poem about her looks. (if you're not good at poetry then just compliment her more often...i suck :( at poetry)Make sure you dont just compliment her once in a life time. More like once in 3 days! :)
GOODLUCK
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Peace.

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Hey I'm a guy and have a situation I'm embarrased about. When I'm with my girlfriend, I feel comfortable and myself...except for one part. My body sometimes responds in the wrong way, like it feels like I'm gonna stain my shorts or something. Anyways, just wondering because I don't think thats normal, doesn't feel right either, and its embarrassing. I never even think about going there or want to. So what should I do? Is this normal? Will rate, thanks.

I think it is pretty normal. Its just you're nervous in your own way!
:)
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks

I you "love" him soooo much then why wuld you cheat on him.... more than once!!?
Yes you should tell him! He probably will dump you but you wont feel so guilty.
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