Hey I'm a guy and have a situation I'm embarrased about. When I'm with my girlfriend, I feel comfortable and myself...except for one part. My body sometimes responds in the wrong way, like it feels like I'm gonna stain my shorts or something. Anyways, just wondering because I don't think thats normal, doesn't feel right either, and its embarrassing. I never even think about going there or want to. So what should I do? Is this normal? Will rate, thanks.
angelface answered Sunday October 23 2005, 1:39 pm: well... do not feel embrassed at all. it is perfectly normal...my boyfriend does that a lot whenever im around him...its ok. i know you might be very nervous that you might stain but most likely...you wont..it is just your body telling you that you are perfectly healthy...and that you really care a lot for the girl. Oh. and it is ok to maybe think about sexual desisers[if you dont already.] but when it does happen..dont really make a big deal. maybe laugh about it. just dont say anything... iknow this may not sound like the best advice..but try it...dont worry about it.. i can tell you that there is nothing wrong witu you...youre just a guy.:-) [ angelface's advice column | Ask angelface A Question ]
MsGolightly answered Sunday October 23 2005, 1:05 pm: It's puberty. Very normal, it happens to everyone. Even if you're not emotionally ready for sex, your body still reacts like that. There's really nothing you can do. [ MsGolightly's advice column | Ask MsGolightly A Question ]
SweetxxIntoxication answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:01 pm: well, im not a guy, but from what i know, it's pretty normal. =]
that happens to many guys i know, they arent interested in sex, but when they are with the girl they like, the get it.
i dont know why, haha. but dont worry.
you can always ask the school nurse, or a male guardian..
or well, im sure a guy will answer much better than i did. ^_^ [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
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