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I cheated....
I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks
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tell him!
Y'all aint meant to be
its over hon.
Try and find someone else
dont you know secrets aren't meant to be kept in relationships
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I'm sorry I'm not trying to be really rude here or anything but.. if you really like him alot, then you wouldn't have cheated on him numerous times. Whenever you cheat on people, it kinda shows that you are not ready for a relationship because you might still want to be single. So I'd suggest telling him because he deserves to know, and also.. people find out. They always do. So just tell him.
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MELii
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ok, you say you like him alot right?, you dont like him like you say you do if you have the nerve to go and cheat on him so many times, hes not cheating on you, so what does that tell you? it tells you he really cares about you. but obv you dont feel the same way, im not trying to be mean, but its the honest truth, just end it now so he doesnt get hurt anymore then youve already hurt him.
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I think you should tell him because edventually he will find out and it would probably be better he hears it from you. And why are you in a relationship when you want to be with other guys? I mean if i were a guy and was dating you i wouldnt want my gf to like go arround cheeting on me and then come to me and act like i am the only guy she has been with. And if you like him alot why are you kissing or whatever other guys?¿?¿?
Because to me it sounds like you dont like him enough to be with just him.
Hope I helped!
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If you really wanted him, you could AVOID cheating on him. I'm amazed that he's given you this many chances. You don't deserve him if all you're going to do behind his back is find someone else.
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Im sorry, but people really need to think before they ask for advice!
If you were my gf, youd be gone. For 1 thing, why are you even in a relationship if you cant commit yourself to him? Is it because you want to be with other guys too?
He has a right to know! Put youself in his place. I really dont think youd appreciate it if he was cheatin on you hun!
Stop thinking about yourself and start acting alittle more mature!
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if you want to continue to be with him then you shouldnt tell him.but form all this cheating your donig it doesnt seem like you want to be with him.he's giving you all these chances and you taking them.if you really want to be with him then dont tell him, but stop cheating.if you know your going to cheat then you have t oset him free.
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I cannot tell you what to do here. If it were me and I made the mistake I would fess up as having blown it. It may be a good thing you are over with that relationship as it would only progress along the same path with more cheating and hurt feelings. Cut this guy lose already and find out what icecream or cake you want and stick to one guy.
Learn why you cheat if you never figure that out then relationships may be difficult with the same problems. My advice be honest as he deserves honesty and see what occurs.
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I you "love" him soooo much then why wuld you cheat on him.... more than once!!?
Yes you should tell him! He probably will dump you but you wont feel so guilty.
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Peace.
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if you really like him, why would you cheat on him?
im sure you arent looking for a "pep talk" type thing on saying why this is wrong and bad to do.
so, ill get to my answer =]
i think you should deffinately tell him, and give the reason as too why you did it...just be honest (honesty is one of the best policies, ya know ;])
would you want him to keep secrets from you?
you learn from your mistakes, and hopefully you wont cheat on your "segnificant other" again..
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if you liked him so much than you shouldn't cheat on him.
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Do you want to be with the guy you cheating on him with? Do you plan on hooking up with that guy again? Can it get back to him if you don't tell him? Do you really love and want to be with your boyfriend? If you don't plan on doing it again and really love him then don't tell him but don't cheat on him anymore. come on. don't. you know its not nice. But if you kinda feel like cooling it down with your guy and breaking it off and want to play the field which is totally ok, tell him and break up with him. you aren't being fair if you aren't.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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um...i'm not sure, just follow your heart and do whatever feels right. I guess telling him the truth is best but i know you don't wanna risk ur relationship. I think you should just wait til the time is right and tell him..
hope this helps <33
PS-stop cheating and all you probs will be solved =]
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Hi There,
Before you do anything be very clear where your loyalty lies. Even if you both fancy each other it doesn't mean you can ignore the affect this might have on your relationship with a good mate. You need to weigh up how much your mate's friendship means to you. Truly reliable, trustworthy friends are not easy to find and going with this guy behind her back might mean trouble in the future. It's likely he'll feel far more hurt that you were dishonest with him than about being rejected by you, so all three of you need to be straight with each other.
Think about having a chat with your him and remind him that your friendship is very important to you and explain that although you realise he fancies you, he actually came onto you that same night. Let him know how you feel about having to carry on without him knowing. he may not want to believe you initially and might phone this guy, so you also need to let him know you'll be talking to him.
You might also want to think carefully about starting a relationship with a guy. Maybe you just won him over that night but this could also be the way he behaves all the time. You should think about discussing things honestly with him.
Goodlcuk
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