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I'll try and condense this. There's been this guy who I've been chatting to online for years (nearly 3) and we are really, really close and truly do love each other. We are planning to meet soon as well.
But here's my dilemma. He was going on today about some girl who he is really worried about because a guy has been pestering her. He was asking me what to do about it and kept going on about how he thought the guy was objectifying her and she deserved someone great. I finally asked him whether he liked her and he confessed he does have a bit of a thing for her. This is not the first time this has happened either - 6 months ago he liked another girl and it started lots of problems for us. Then he thought he was just confused and it wasn't really a crush at all.
I can't help but think that he would drop me in a heartbeat if a girl liked him back in real life. The other girl he liked told him she didn't like him, and this one doesn't seem to either. I feel somehow I'm just there as a backup. Do you guys think I'm being paranoid? I know we aren't together and I'm really not usually so defensive - I encourage him to have female friends! But I feel really torn up inside over the fact that he likes this girl when he tells me every night that he loves ME. I understand that guys are always going to be attracted to girls even with they are with someone else, but it's really depressing me and I don't know what to do. Should I say something to him? Am I justified in feeling this way? Is it alright for him to do this?
Thanks a lot for your help.
It may not be love. I have a crush on a girl and i often think about other girls too. Its normal for boys to do this. Usualy this happens when he feels sorry for a girl or when something reminds him of a girl that he knows. If your still not sure, Try asking him why he is interested in that girl. If he says something like "her beautiful_____" then hes probably in love. Its okay to be upset over this. If my gf started talking about other guys i would be worried too. Good luck ;-)
(Rating: 5) Thanks a bunch for your advice. It's good that there are others that can relate.