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Q: well i weigh like 230 and im only 14 and i want to lose weight b4 high school cause of the formal plus i want to lose weight b4 my prom and prom is probably gonna b n may..well i need sum tips and stuff on how i can lose weight and how to eat right cause i have a eatn disorder to..i want to get over it..It Is driving me crazy. i want to get my belly button periced and stuff and wear a 2 peice during the summer and wear lil clothes not be fat
well im not garenteeing you'll be down to a size 5 or 7 or what not but just be happy with what you lose.. i'd give the South beach diet a try and excercize do a lot of crunches those r good and help alot

Q: For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*
greenday

Q: Does anyone know a really great reasonably priced shopping website?
www.alloy.com

Q: i really wanna get more flexable (not for any specific reason) i mena i cant even touch my toes, any ideas?
stretch alot and work out

Q: Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do?
talk to her.. thats always the first step buddy maybe sit by her in class if u get the chance or w/e and if u see her at the mall or wherever go up n talk to her or maybe rite her a note telling her how ya feel and how she feels

Q: what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes?
I WEAR PINK!! :) THATS A GOOD COLOR!! but my friend has green eyes and she wears browns but green eyes.. hmm.. go for the more smokey colors!

Q: If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :)
it can 6 weeks on pilates... try a diet like south beach diet

Q: my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???
talk to him

Q: i want my hair to grow longer but i dont have really thick hair adn mine takes forever to grow. its blonde and sholder length but i want it past my boobs any ideas on what to take or what to do to get long locks??
muha
Lisa
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Q: okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?
go on a diet watch what you eat try fruits instead of fatty fat foods just do crunches

Q: okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?

thanks
A doesnt make sense but i bet it is a period b dont do but its just like swimmin and C... umm ure chouce.. d youd no if u had a tampon in.. and maybe its to big E are pains in the side.. just like running and running when u get CRAMPS! F its healthier to wear pads u can prevent from getting a disease called TSS (toxic shock syndrome) so ya G you can H its not unhealthy but its a gross idea... u need to talk to your health teacher

Q: Umm... I have relatively straight hair. Like there is a tiny lil bit of wave in there, but it's straight for the most part. AND IT IS REALLY THICK. Is it possible for me to scrunch? And how do I do it? What gel to I use? Im just askin cuz i get bored of wearin my hair the same way all the time, since its hard to style cuz of how thick it is. Thanks.
well u asked the right person cuz i got that to but its not really straight ha.. ya i use voluminzer from MJ Capelli's its about $25 a bottle but its worth it and its a aqua bottle

Q: This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy

thanks!
I dont know the prices by heart that is why u gotta look at the tags ureself and if u are emberassed then u shouldnt b doin that and if u are old enuf then the power to u but all u r doin is protectin ureself

Q: Hey, im 5'4" and 130ish, I'd like to loose some weight. Any special excersize that works really well?
thanks
south beach diet

Q: ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do
tell your friends my aunts favorite quote "I've spent my whole life trying to get things outta my ass im always workin my ass of and im not gunna go and put sumin up there" so its pretty sayin she's bizzy adn its a example in away

Q: Ok, my boy friend is really nice and I've been waiting to talk to him for sometime now, but I haven't been able to see him and I feel as if I've been losing connection and I don't want to do that! Well, I have this really big cold sore, that I accidentally bit and it's really big! It's the size of my upper 1/2 of my thumb. Tomorrow is the only day I can see him this week but NO ONE can see me like this, let alone HIM!! What do I do?
well.. go to walgreens and get some of that i dont know what its called but ask the lady that works there or osco drug or some kind of store like that i think its abreva or sumin

Q: my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!

thanks....
well i can relate cuz i have the same prob. or i did well... me and my x bf had alot of prob. like this u no i dont drink or do drugs or steal or any of that i stay out of that stuff u no i have fun in life and i point that out to her and you need to do the same jus let her know that it gives her yellow teeth and stinks and isnt very attractive at all and get some guys opinions on that to like maybe ones she likes and just ask her not to do it around you and that'd maybe help and tell her that you just want her to respect u and not do that in front of you

Q: This might be hard to understand, but Mods please don't delete until I have at least 1 answer! Please...
lately all my friends have been getting into fights, it's a middle school thing i guess. one problem, there is a HUGE fight going opn between this girl who stayed back and my best friend. so the gilr who stayed back is 15 we are all 13 and my best friend and her are in a figt. its a really bad one tho. we've contacted the superintendant of my city to give you an idea of how bad it is. she is concstanly beign harassed and now everyoen else is in minor fights becaus eof the big one, we are falling apart what do i do? i've tried talking it out, is the problem just to big? and my best friend is leaving the school next week : ( help
wow!! that is all i can say and im so sorry!! you just need to let your friends no that this is the time in life where you all need to hold on tight and stick together and that is really all you can do is talk it out but just tell your bestfriend to ignore cuz if she ignores the other girl the other girl is gunna relize that pickin on her is no fun so she'll get over it and move on and im sorry i didnt give a whole lot of advice but i hope everything works out for you and good luck and if you need more info just let me know cuz i got alot more but i have to go to camp now.. im sorry

Q: I wear G-strings, and how can I dress out for athletics at shcool without everyone in the locker room seeing my butt?? Some people go into the bathroom stalls... i dont really want to do that though.
turn your butt towards the lockers.. or go to a part where ppl dont see u.. or go to the stalls

Q: Well!I already put a ? out.. I was Baby Gurl x169. 2morrow is going to be 1 month of me and my-ex bf Dominic being broken up! It is really messsing me up big time. Idk what to do. I miss him so much.I cant call him because he has a gf, and to be honest IDK why he is dating her. He and I dated last year in 2003 and then I had to move cities so we broke up and didnt talk for about 7 months. I went back and saw him on March 27 2004 and we had such a good time. When he and I first dated after we broke up he trid to date other gurl so forget me..IDK what to do I love him so much!
u need to speak to him bout this

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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