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I`m Desiree

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this one is for girls to enter..i found a brownish redish substance in my underwear...in front. i am like70% sure it wasnt blood...what happened?

It could of been blood.. usually if your just startin your period it isnt red its a brownish color.. i dont know what else it could be.. ♥ Dez

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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think?

I think you should ask your ex boyfriend about this.. i mean he could of ment it or he could of felt like he was put on the spot and felt like he had to say it so he dont hurt your feelings.. so i suggest askin him yourself.. ♥ Dez

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

Tell him you dont feel ready to have sex.. tell him you want to be older and want to love this person alot alot alot.. and you want to know your not going to get hurt.. and tell him you do like him alot and want to stay with him and that when your ready you'll let him know.. tell him that you hope he respects your decision on what you want to do.. and by the way if he doesnt respect that then you need to get rid of him.. ♥ Dez

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Male 16
This is a complicated situation heres the story.
My friend started going out with a girl who hooked me up with one of her friends its been about 3 months and then my gf dumped me but thats not the problem the problem is me and my friends girl have become good friends but now shes starting to really like me and i cant go out with my friends ex unless it was alright with him (if she dumped him for me) and i dont wanna lose a friend so i need to know if theres is anyone to become just friends with my mates girl without hurting her feelings and without ruining hers and my m8s relationship
Any Suggestions? im stuck

Talk to your friend and tell his girl that you need to talk to them both.. ♥ Dez

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can u give me any tips on talking dirty? whats something that could really turn my bf on? please&thanks!

Yea you could say stuff like you want to rub his dick on your tight wet pusyy and that you want him to feel the wetness from your pussy drip down to his nuts.. then you want to keep rubbin it on his dick then you jus want ride the top then drop down and push his dick all the way inside you..

tell him you want to give him head tell him you want to spit all over his dick and give him a hand job..

tell him you want him to be on top of you start kissin you and get you really wet.. then move down your body and start kissen the bottom of your stomach.. and make you want it really bad then him move back up start kissen your neck and make you want it even more then start rubbin his dick on your pussy and then him push it inside of you and hear you mone silently..

thats all i got right now if you want more i can probably think of something.. im just givin you ideas of what i do to my boyfriend but you can just say you want to do these things.. ♥ Dez

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hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
help
xxXxxX

sounds kinda weird but i guess its okay.. ♥ Dez

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I read a question about Applesauce on here. Is it a program? Can someone please explain what it is and what it does and how you get it?


i only thought APPLESAUCE was food.. and i love it!! ♥ Dez

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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!

Maybe try changing more often at school.. maybe wear a tampon and a pad to be on the safe side.. ♥ Dez

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How do u have phone sex? how exactly do u do it over the phone? i'll give 5's for detailed answers

say sexual things to eachother like what you want to do to eachother.. and some people masturbate while on the phone with eachother.. ♥ Dez

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well im asking about phone sex...what would classify as phone sex? just talking dirty and getting both people really excited or something else? thanks in advanced!

Phone sex is sayin sexual things to one another.. and makin them want to do what you said.. gettin the guy hard is gettin them excited and gettin the femlae wet would make them excited.. i've heard that some people actually masturbate while talking sexual to eachother.. ♥ Dez

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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him?

depends if he still likes you.. ♥ Dez

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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice?

when you lose your virginity i think you should be older.. and most deff you should be in love with the person you have sex with.. im not sayin wait til you get married cause thats not what i believe in but i do believe in having love for the person and them being your everything.. also i dont think 3 months is very long for you to move on to sex theres other things to do in a relationship and sex isnt always the big thing to go on it a relationship.. and your relationship isnt a well stabel relationship.. you should probably be together a bit longer.. just wait til your completely ready.. and you should wait til the right moment and trust me you'll know when that is.. ♥ Dez

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I have a light light light brown almost dirty blonde shade of hair. It comes to about an inch past my shoulders. I have bangs. Just like straight across my face. I want to do something cute to spice it up and make me look pretty. I will rate really high PLEASE this is like a fashion emergency!

get some blonde highlights thats cute or id get a darker brown.. ♥ Dez

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this might sound really weird but im so horny all the time and i cant help it and i want to get a vibrator or dildo or something so i can use it haha is there any where to get them for cheap that my parents wont know and also i find myself thinking about girls like doing stuff with them i dont know why i think of guys too but its just weird and i dont kno what to do so yeah ill rate high

alot of girls go through this stage.. and maybe find a girl that wouldnt mind doing things with you.. oh and i think you have to be a certain age to actually buy a viberator or dildo.. you also have to be a certain age to go in stores like that.. maybe get a friend 21 or something to get you one.. but im not sure on your age.. if you have anymore questions leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez

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A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?

continue to say no thank you.. dont be a follower.. be different.. ♥ Dez

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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do?

oh my gosh i hate that female lol she's so annoying.. but yea um i can understand where your coming from with this my boyfriend makes me mad when he says another girl has a better ten then me or if her nails look better then mine it kinda makes me mad and i become the most jealous person.. then he always tells me **baby you know i love you the way you are** but sometimes i think he does it just to see me mad cause he thinks its cute which of course i dont.. try talking to him about it.. tell him how it makes you feel.. ask him why he continues to do it.. i bet your like me about it too sometimes you have a good days about it and dont give a crap cause your not in the mood but then other times you want to bust him in the mouth.. lol well like i said try talkin to him.. or maybe start doing it to him like say guys are hott and what you like about em.. i do that to my boyfriend about rappers he listens to and he dont listen to em around me now.. i mean dont drive him crazy about it but just see how he likes it.. ♥ Dez

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OK so i like this guy..hes 16-17 and I'm 13. Is that a big difference?? He has a car and everything..do guys like not like younger girls? I like him SOOO much!! He's like perfect!! What do I do?? Thanks!!

Yes usually they like young girls.. but mostly because they fall for everything they say and can be easy to get in bed.. i dont know from experience but its happened to a few freinds of mine.. like they can begin the greatest guy ever like a dream come true then later or after a while be the biggest asshole.. i mean he could be a dream come true or what not.. but i highly doubt it hun.. dont rush into things ride away and keep standards in what you want in a guy.. ♥ Dez

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i want to learn to juggle.. any tips. do you know any good websites that tell you how and stuff?

call a clown service.. ♥ Dez

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ok so i have brown hair down to the middle of my back. i always wear it down and thats all. this year i wanna change the style of it, professionaly. any suggestions?

well since you like wearing your hair down.. why not try gettin some blonde highlights maybe a couple different shades of blonde.. or maybe a copper in your hair.. maybe albrun hightlights that'll look cute.. maybe a lil bit of both.. maybe some black hightlights.. ♥ Dez

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Everyone says you can get cute things in thrift stores. Do they mean ones like good will and salvation army? How do I know if it's a good one? Im looking for accessories by the way.

Yes you can get cute things from there.. i have got some cute clothes from dollar stores and so on.. maybe try plato's closet they have accessories also.. the stuff might be used but its okay and nobody has to know.. ♥ Dez

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