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OK so i like this guy..hes 16-17 and I'm 13. Is that a big difference?? He has a car and everything..do guys like not like younger girls? I like him SOOO much!! He's like perfect!! What do I do?? Thanks!!
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No thats not really a big difference but guys that age usually like girls the same age or maybe a year or 2 younger. They like more expirienced girls. But calm down! Just be yourself and talk to him. Wait and see what happens. Hope everything works out babe! =)
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My brother is 16 and his friends are goregous! LOL. I told him how I liked some of friends and he really didn't say anything. If I had the perfect time to ask them out, I would. It's totally worth doing. Just be yourself when you do it though.
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Yes usually they like young girls.. but mostly because they fall for everything they say and can be easy to get in bed.. i dont know from experience but its happened to a few freinds of mine.. like they can begin the greatest guy ever like a dream come true then later or after a while be the biggest asshole.. i mean he could be a dream come true or what not.. but i highly doubt it hun.. dont rush into things ride away and keep standards in what you want in a guy.. ♥ Dez
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well, guys usually like girls around their age. just act calm around him. dont jump all over him and whatnot and things should be fine.
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Thats just about the age difference between my sister and my little brother. I kinda find that a little odd. While some say age is only a number, that type of age difference can definately put space between the two of you. He's probably been through much more than you have and have experienced things that you have yet to experienced~ which may not be a good thing. It may push you into certain situations that you may not be ready for yet. I assume that what your feeling is just puppy love or a crush or something to that nature. I wouldnt put a lot of time or energy into making something work~ whatever happens happens, but I wouldnt go after him too hard!
*Emily
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umm i would say its kinda of a bad choice.. unless your parents would say it was ok .. cause with him being close to 18 and you being a minor.. he could get into alot of trouble.. when i was your age i use to hae feelings for this boy down the street and my parents didnt approve so i went behind ther eback and i got him so much trouble and same with him .. soo your better off finding soemone around your age.. older people to you when you are 13 always seem to be perfect cause your jsut starting out as a teen.. but as you get older to his age your firends now will be jsut like that.. they just need time to matchure.. but its your discion.. good luck and make a good one.. just remeber if he is the righ toen for you then he will always be around for you in later life.. and also if he were to be with you his friends might give him a hard time and then he would deff. brake up with him .. and what are you goign to do when he goes to college.. but jsut htink about it and watch your steps.. but if your parents wouldnt approve of it then i deff wouldnt cause then they lose your trust in later in life as you are wanting to do stuff with firends
hope i helped
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I'm sorry, but while an age difference of four years isn't much - I'm about that much older than my wife - at your age, it puts something HUGE between you.
In most states, he could be arrested for statutory rape for being with you. That would mean he'd go to jail. If and when he got out, he'd almost certainly be listed publicly as a sexual predator. He would have a lot of difficulty finding work, going to school, or finding a place to live.
I don't think you want that for him.
And to tell you the truth, at 13 you're too young for what a 17-year-old boy wants. He'd probably want sex, and you're still halfway between being a child and being an adult. You're still growing (and so is he, although he's further along than you are). You're not ready. Your body might be able to get pregnant - which would be a HUGE disaster - but your mind is nowhere NEAR ready. You need to give yourself time.
I know it's hard, but try to be patient. This is almost certainly just a crush. "Just" a crush is kind of a stupid thing for me to say, though. I know how enormous a crush can be at 13. It can be your whole world.
I remember.
Please try to find a way to be patient, though. Honestly, if you ended up with him, it WOULDN'T be perfect. You'd be disappointed, because you're really not ready.
But when you ARE ready, I hope it's wonderful for you.
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Your very very young.... compared to him I mean anyway... Alot of guys date younger girls... just 16 and 13 is a big difference.. I think that you should look else were... maybe closer to your age. I know its hard to stop liking someone when youve learned to like them but I dont think that anything will go on with you and this guy... I'm sorry to tell you that. =(
**Jackie**
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most guys like younger girls but im not sure about that younger i duno why dont you get one of your friends to ask him
well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
~kelly
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