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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.
Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.
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So about a month or so ago, i tried cutting myself just to see what its like and i wanted to see what people get out of it. Strangely...i sortof liked it. I havent done it at all since the third or second day but i WANT to...
What should i do? (link)
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Please, I urge you not to do cut yourself. It has so many dangerous effects to your body, it can even kill you! I don't want this to happen to you, or anyone else. Here is all information on cutting, and all of the included dangers.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html
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I like this seionor and i think he likes me because he always stares at me and also smiles at me what does this mean does he like me or is he just being wierd? (link)
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In my opinion, those are both very good signs that he likes you. I recommend asking him to hang out, talking to him on a daily basis (even if it's something really little, get some words in), so you can more comfortable with each other. :)
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This is probably a really dumb question, but I've always wondered.....
The body splashes from Bath and Body Works; do you actually spray them on your bare skin? Or on your clothes? All of my friends spray it on their clothes, but I wanted to see if you can also spray them on skin. (link)
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Unless you're allergic to any of the ingredients contained in the spray -- you can spray it on your skin and/or your clothes.
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i dont have a problem not eating fat foods..its hard for me but its working out i dont know what to do. i want to slim my thighs and waist. is their some good exercies that i can do anytime during the day that will work fast if i do them daily? (link)
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Doing crunches will help you tone up, a lot. I would say about 30 crunches on a daily basis would be a healthy amount.
Running is a very good thing for your thighs, I wouldn't start out with anything too much, if you're not used to it. Try running for a mile, or a little less before going any further.
There are many indoor excerises you can do, too. You can find lots of them on www.seventeen.com In the "Health" category.
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i have been wondering about this since like the 5th grade. i was told two different way to abbreviate the word exadera (i know i spelt that wrongg. haha) kayy so which is it. ect or etc??
thankkk you soo muchhh (link)
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It's "etc" because you use the first three letters of Etcetera.
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I have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning to get ready for school, so what time should I go to bed on a school night to get enough sleep?
Also, don't you get tired from getting TOO MUCH sleep? (link)
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I'm going to say 10 is a good time to go to sleep, maybe even eleven. Either way, you should get plenty of sleep by 6:30. And yes, you can get tired from too much sleep, but just as YG said -- it's most generally that way until you get used to that particular time you're going to sleep. You basically just have to get in a habit and routine, of going to bed at that time.
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does paprin or midol work as well as they say on commercials? anything else i can do to relieve period cramps and lower back pain? i feel like my spine is going to break in two, ugh. (link)
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Midol is the best to relieve pain such as cramps and lower back pain, many common symptoms of PMS and period pains.
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My youngestr sister has been so mean to me for some reason. We just went through like a family crisis and she is like meaner than she used to be to me. I don't know why though. Please help.
Alex
Don't mind this, my computer won't erase things right now.- eds (link)
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She may be going through a phase in her life right now, that no one seems to understand. My advice to you is to sit her down (alone), and have a talk with her. In a calm manor, tell her how much you love her and you want to be close with her. And ask her why she's been acting the way she has, lately. You may be suprised at her reaction, she might really open up to you. :)
Good luck!
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I like writing poem like things...and short stories but (A) i DONT want to sound to emo and over dramatic...
(B) i dont really want to show people that i know because then they judge me amd think im emo!
Whats the best thing i can do to find out if im good or not? (link)
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I'm a writer myself, so I'm here to answer your questions.
A. Don't worry about this, you won't sound or seem emo. Any poet and good writer knows this.
B. One thing that you have to learn is how to be critiqued, and take it. It's hard sometimes hearing some bad news about your writing, but it will help your progress, and become a better writer. I suggest letting your english teacher take a look at your writing, because she's a professional in that area. And she won't lie to you either, because she is your teacher.
The best thing you can do to not only find out if you're good or not, but to also be a better writer is to write. Write often, on a daily basis. Keep a journal or diary, and write in it daily. They can become really handy in situations, when writing.
Keep writing, and good luck with it! :)
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How do you become a featured columnists. How are they picked and when are they picked? (Every day,week,etc.) (link)
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Here is how you can get chosen to become a featured columnists --
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=86
Some are picked daily, sometimes weekly and I've seen others last a little longer. So there really isn't a set limit, here at Advicenators.
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What does it mean by "update your page at least once a week ?" (link)
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By "updating," Advicenators mean to answer questions, per week.
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How you you curl your hair to make it look wavey like Mary Kate and Ashley? (link)
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You can do this by using a spiral iron (doesn't matter what size, either way this will work), and once you're done curling your hair -- spray some anti-frizz all of your hair. I recommend John Frieda Frizzease Daily Nourishment Spray. Next, flip your hair upside down, and tossle your curls -- this will make them into waves.
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I know its wierd but i really like movies about mental people...Like the butterfly effect, a beautiful mind, sybil...So if you can think of any like that, i would LOVE to to watch it. (link)
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Silence of the Lambs is the best of these types of movies. Here a few more you might enjoy --
*Psycho
*Hannibal
*Se7en (Yes, it's actually spelled that way.)
By the way, it's not weird -- they're called thrillers and many people love them, as I do too.
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What Perfume should i use? i cant find any that stays on.. or smells really good. PLEASE HELP, thank you so much. :] (link)
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"Irresistible Givenchy" is an amazing perfume. Not only does it smell wonderful, but it also stays on all day long. So it's very long lasting, I've used this personally and everyone around me loves it, too. It's funny, I've gotten many compliments on how good I smell, because of that perfume. I definitely recommend it to you. :)
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i just got my advice column and i was wondering how you put in a layout type thing. i dont want my whole page to be purple, pink, yellow, etc. (link)
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If you go into your column settings, you can find many different patterns, and other things besides solids. However, if you want what I'm thinking you're wanting -- you can use Myspace Backgrounds (not layouts) in your column, but putting the URL of the image(s), in the custom section of your column settings.
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Do the moderators make other moderators. or does the computer do it. What I'm asking is do/can other moderators make people into moderators?
Just Curious (link)
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Here are the qualifications that need to be met to become a moderator, in which you get that automatically done, by the computer, I guess you could say.
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67
Once you're a level 1 moderator, if you get promoted it will be by DN. No other person/moderator can promote level 1 moderators.
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would you say its slutty for a 15 yr old girl to be regularly hooking up with a 19 yr old guy ... but they have no interest in getting in a relationship with one another? (link)
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No, that's not what I would call it. Really, the definition is if you're sleeping with multiple partners, then that would be considered "slutty." However, if you're having sex -- it is illegal.
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is it ok for an 18 y.o [senior] to have sex with a teacher?
also, can underage students [like 16?] KISS their teachers...
just wonderin! (link)
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Actually, these are both illegal. Being sixteen and kissing a teacher would be illegal because that person would be considered a minor. And even at eighteen and considered an adult, you are still a student. It's illegal for a student and teacher to have any sexual relations.
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I am very experienced in advice giving. I was wondering how do you become a moderator? I haven't been banned and, if this is helpful, I admire and walk in the footsteps of younggrandma, she is a legend to me. How do i become a moderator. (link)
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Hello, I too, look up to YG. One of the most important things here at Advicenators -- where you'll find all information is the FAQ. Here's the Moderator FAQ, where you can be a Level 1 Moderator. Good luck and happy moderating! :)
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
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ok im really frustrated right now. is there any way to delete questions that are posted on my advice column? (link)
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No, I'm afraid you cannot do that here at Advicenators. However, if this question(s) contain inappropriate and/or offensive material -- you may make a report.
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