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Q: hello!!!!!!!! im just a girl whos making a screen name (my weakness) and i need help making it!!
i want it to go kind like this: xll something x3 llx except fill in something for something and it can only be 5 letters!! i was thinking "dream" but i dont know about that xll _____ x3 llx yeah do u got the point? Actually i dont care as long as it has the xll vibe thing goin on, or just anything cool!! i dont really need the x3 so..whatever! HELP ME!..Umm girlies help me with this, but i dont want anything like "cutie" or "angel" or "hotti" you know because im none of those!! i guess im like 35% weird, 30%ghetto 20%, punk, 15%emo! haha girls with good screen names help!! you can IM me on the screen name my friend made me..pressandsealx
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You know i really like the dream one i think thats a great idea!
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Q: i cut myself today.... I cut bc my bestfriends mom is dying from a disease called lupis..and she cut herself reall badd bc of her mom... and her dad and step-mom treat her like crap... and now my teacher saw her arm and called DYPHS on her... and now she might get taken away and idk whut 2 do.... please help me.....
brent
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Well brent the only thing you can do is let your best friend know that thats not what s/he should be doing thats not how s/he should cope with things s/he just needs to spend time with his or her mom.. and just try to ignore their steps and if that doesnt work tell them how they feel and just be there for them and maybe use a lil consouling like not real therapist like but i go to peer consouling its thru youth works and its a college student and it helps
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Q: In school, I always feel like people are judging me. Only the popular ones though (because I'm not popular, I'm just average). I always watch what I do, to make sure it's something the popular kids would "agree" with (I guess?). It's not that I want to be popular (because, believe me, I really don't), but I just want to feel comfortable around them. It's kind of a weird topic, but I want to get it off my mind. I hate not being myself and I want to stop, but it's hard. I want to know your opinion on this. Thank you so much
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Well just pretend that we're not there.. well your people that you have a prob. one girl actually came up to me telling me that she felt like she had to act cool for me to ever except her and that she thought i gave her dirty looks.. but you know im not telling you to go up to them adn tell them but i just told her to act like i wasnt there if that helps her but i never did have a prob. with her b-cuz i dont judge someone before i actually meet them myself and get my own prospective
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Q: Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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-Kristen*
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Well it seems that you have been moving along but first off cutting isnt something that you want to do.. its not cool and your only hurting yourself and not giving yourself any credit. but sounds to me as if greg is a a*hole so you shouldnt let him get to you but crushes can be hard to get over... and thats why they call them crushes ... cuz they end up crushing you anyways. So maybe your not getting "good" sleep you maybe getting alot of sleep but you might not being sleeping good so that may be why you are always falling asleep just try to think of something else before you go to sleep something happy or whatever you want to happan but just nothing to do with him and maybe you will get better sleep it helped me getting over my X-bf Jamie and that was extremely hard being that he asked out my sister and my best friend 3 weeks later! So i hope you get over this crush and move on to someone who will treat you so much better!!
-trix
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Q: hey...there this guy that lives down my street that im tryin to hook up w/ my friend...any tips for hookin up?also its hard to get in touch w/ him cuz hes nevr outside & hes hardly online when i am...what should I do?
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Well go knock on his door or send him a offline message and asking him for his email addy so or his number sayin cuz u need to talk to him and you can call and leave a message or plan to meet up or something
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Q: well im a guy and so far most of my friends have been girls, but recently i made a few guy friends and it jsut occured to me that i realy have no idea how to hang out with guys, what kind of activities etc...
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football basketball.. bowling alot of my guys like lacrosse lol theyre wierd.. or frolfing... but depends on
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Q: hey, well i had this blackhead on my nose and stupid me picked it and now theres like a scab type thingie there is there any fast home remedy i can use to get rid of it, i heard after shave like kills the bacteria or something or toothpaste? any others?
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try morning burst.. it works really well its like a orange thing with blue beads in it and works good
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Q: I have a party to attend in december, it has a new romantic/early 80s theme, i think its cool but i have a problem, where do i start, what clothes should i go for, for maximum effect, and most importantly, how do i do my make up and hair. Thanks for you help in advance.
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do half up half down and ask your friends what they are wearing and maybe mix all their ideas up and you'll be all dolled up!
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Q: um hey one of my friends is having a party at this place where our friends go for dances. i love going there, but (the dances are held twice a month) i have no beat and no rythem and usually i dont dance because im afraid people will laugh at my poor skills. i also dont know what to wear. im pretty much broke and my mom is pretty srict about what i wear. if anyone could help me. that would be great! thanx!
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as one of your close friends to teach you and save up or go to platos closet they got sum cute stuff
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Q: Ok I've been talking to this guy online through a friend. His name is John. Anyway, he recently sent me a picture and he is not cute AT ALL. After seeing that picture I have lost any desire to talk to him, and he keeps IMing me. I feel like the most SHALLOW person on Earth and I feel so bad. But I can't help how I feel. It is really rude to block him so I don't know what to do!! I really don't want to seem or be shallow.
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well just slowly stop talking to him and thats the best you can do or maybe get a new sn but you shouldnt let looks get to u .. thats mean
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Q: My friend and I used to cut together. I don't anymore, but she does. And she rubs it in my face, and I get really annoyed by it. I tell her to "Piss off!" but she continues to do it. I don't care if she cuts or not, but it annoys me how she takes it as a joke (it wasn't a joke to me...). And honestly, she has NOTHING to cut over! She has the happiest FUCKING like of anyone I KNOW!!! What should I tell her? What should I do to change the situation?
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just let her know what you told me like that she has a good life and plus you shouldnt cut anyways and why would she rub it in your face.. let her know that thats nothing your jealous of
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Q: OK im 15 and i just love it in the ass..but all my friends are telling me to stop it, because its just wrong to be likeing it in the butt. Well do you think i should stop doin something that i love? or listen to my buds?
~Butch~
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Well Butch.. i love your name btw evan.. i mean butch but im not advising you 2 stop something you love.. but try and cut down on that... try to .. normal kk :)
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Q: Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions?
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think before you speak and just be careful and think it over before you do say anything and just talk to him about it
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Q: In june i got in a car accident where my friend rear-ended some1...and i ended up with a spranged knee and a neck brace..well now whenever some1 gets like close to a car i start to freak out and like lose my breath...is that ok? because it was in june and its now november
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its normal im assumin cuz you got hurt so you mite just be scarred of gettin hurt again
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Q: me and my bf got in a big fight on wednesday....and i hung up on him and everything he hasnt called me or got online since then and im not gonna call him bc it was his fault that we had the fight...how long should i give him to call me? i dont wanna wait to long and lose him...but i wanna work it out but let him no im mad....when do u think i should call him n b lyke ok we really need to talk...and blah blah...he usually ALWAYS calls me...but idk he hasnt yet....so how long do i give him?
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just give him till sunday i no thats a long long time! but hey some guys are just clueless and i cant say i can relate with my bf because he does call but i was always like.. when should i call him and he eventually came around after 6 hours.. but you no just let him no when you do call him that u were pretty mad and ect. ♥Trix♥
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Q: I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..
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well thats kinda rude.. have you tried asking her why she does that? no mom should b like that.. thats kinda dumb if u ask me
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Q: i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!!
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well tell him he needs to grow up sumtime or another just point that maybe no is the time to grow up but just right him a letter and point it out all out to him
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Q: I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!
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Q: okay, i dont like my friend that much any more and she is really sensitive... i dont want to be friends with her any more and she ALWAYS hangs around me. What do i do? Signed rebekah.
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well you shouldnt just drop a friendship off the face of the earth.. thats not sumin u should do.. i dont advize that but just let her no u 2 need your space
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Q: what are some good teen websites, safe, where you can meet people in your local areas? thanks in advance
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Info
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 222269
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