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i cut myself today.... I cut bc my bestfriends mom is dying from a disease called lupis..and she cut herself reall badd bc of her mom... and her dad and step-mom treat her like crap... and now my teacher saw her arm and called DYPHS on her... and now she might get taken away and idk whut 2 do.... please help me.....
brent
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my mom has lupis but shes not dying really talk to someone you can trust hurting your self isnt good..good luck hunn
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i relate to what your saying, i cut & a teacher saw and told my counselor and it was just a big ugly mess, but at this point i dont think there is much u can do for your friend but just b there for them. & if you do that your already doing so much. believe me
xO-sara
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I had a similar situation with my friend but she was taken away. And i was dissapointted but there is NOTHING you can do about it. Every thing is very secretive. The only thing you can do is sit back and take it day by day and see what happens. I wish the best for you!
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you should use the knife to solve your problems
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first you shouldnt cut yourself..and its best that you friend might taken out of his/her home..because then she/he could sort out his/her problems. i kno it might seem horrible..but its best that you and your friend stop cutting. i hope i helped! xoxox mauuhh
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awWw... poor you and your friend! i'm really sorry about all of this.. well i personally don't know what dyphs means... so i dont really know what to say about that... but Ummm.. your friend does need to get help. but not "taken away" shes under alot of stress with her mom and maybe cutting is the only way to relieve herself. they have a bunch of counslers all over that she can talk to and even a friend/teacher or neighbor could even help. you guys should talk to somebody together because your going through all of this with her, and when her mom dies you want to be there for her, since her family life dosen't seem so excellent. :( i know what your going through because my best friends mom died a little over a year ago. but when her mom actually does pass away.. shes going to be feeling even worse and so are you... so dont get caught up in your emotions... get your minds off it it... let out some anger, write in your journals, take a kickboxing class, take a walk, cry together... just dont result to cutting! i am very sooryy about all of this and i hope i was of some help!
xOxO, aLeX
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brent, you need to be a friend to your bestfriend. we all do somewhat stupid things, and later regret it. its this thing called being human. you might want to see a a "shrink" or a trusted adult. you will need to help your friend, but you cant do that if you are as bad off as she is.
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hey .. i used to cut too... i have many scars.. dont do it its not worth it...dude.. if your thinking about cutting.. dont do it when your about to,just think, how much pain youll be in... i know its your bffs mom but its not worth it.. about your friewnd being taken..cant help you out man..well get her adress to where she'll/ he'll be. My bff moved to texas last year.. i got her fone number and adress and it was all good .. hope i helped..Erica .XoX.
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DYPHS, what's that? I guess I'm stupid for not knowing? But anyways, I have 2 teachers that know about me cutting, or about how I used to (I've been cut free for a bit less than a month) One teacher has been helping me with my cutting wrist/cutting class/drinking problems, and she's been helpful. The other teacher heard me telling a friend about it, approached me in class, told people in class about it and asked them to talk to me, then called guidance on me, which called my parents. I liked how the 1st teacher did it, now that teacher is my favorite, and the second is my most hated, I've wished her hurt many times... Well, not to be rude, but 1st learn to type, and second, talk to her, and maybe find somebody you both trust to go talk to. The 1st teacher, the one that helped me, I went to her and asked for help. It's an awkward thing, but if you need help you need to get it. Here's a site for recovered self injurers... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) And here's a site for abuse related problems... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) You can look on the side pannel for any other categories. Hope I was of some assistance.
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hey.. i used to cut myself too when i was really upset.. but evrything went bad..evrybody found out about it..my friend..family..school..and they all thought of me differently.. i guess i never realized how bad it was to do it till i saw my best friend do it.. its the easy way out
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Well brent the only thing you can do is let your best friend know that thats not what s/he should be doing thats not how s/he should cope with things s/he just needs to spend time with his or her mom.. and just try to ignore their steps and if that doesnt work tell them how they feel and just be there for them and maybe use a lil consouling like not real therapist like but i go to peer consouling its thru youth works and its a college student and it helps
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