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that is considered dating were i live so that will not work because it is dating down here that is what people consider it has so yaeh. (link)
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You can't hang out as best friend together, where you live?
You could just tell him you want to go as friends only, and not a date. However, that may make you sound as though you aren't interested.
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how can you speed up your metablism? and i have a question about those vitamin waters...
do they really contain all the vitamins they say they do? because i drink all of them or at least 3 of those a day. and they are expensive and i was wondering if they really work. (link)
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The vitamin waters are bad for your health, because they contain a lot of sugars -- which are not good for your health. They trick you by thinking you're getting all of these vitamins, but they leave out all of the nasty sugars put in the vitamin water. So I don't recommend it, and to be honest -- I'm not sure if it will boost your metabilism. Either way, it's unhealthy for you.
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where can i find a shirt someone like this???
http://www.haydenpanettierepictures.com/gallery/1/hayden-panettiere-148 (link)
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Being as a celeb is wearing it, it will be very hard to find -- it also could have been a one-of-a-kind piece. However, you can find many shirts like that at Wetseal, Forever 21 and Guess.
www.wetseal.com
www.forever21.com
www.guess.com
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can doing exercises like seatup and press ups make one loose a one month pregnancy? (link)
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No, it will just make you lose your baby, in which I'm sure you don't want to do.
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I have a friend who recently travelled to India, and brought me back some little jars of coconut oil.. she says it is common to usecan in your hair as a conditioner. Should I use it after shampooing on wet hair, then rinse out? Or is there another method? (link)
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After shampooing your hair, use the coconut oil as a conditioner and rinse it out. Or if you'd like, you can put in on towel dried hair -- and it will work the same.
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Is there anyway to see who asked you a question in your inbox?
If they said something inappropiate or rude, is there some way to report them?
Thanks (link)
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You will not be able to see who wrote the question, however, if someone has said something rude or inappropriate -- You can file an abuse report against them.
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i hate my height..i'm 5 6...i hate being this tall...i'm 14/f...is there any ways of being shorter?? (link)
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I'm fourteen, and two inches taller than you! Except I love it. :)
No, I'm afraid you can't make yourself shorter. However, you can make yourself appear more short.
Wear shoes such as ballet flats, sandals, etc. Nothing with a heel, basically.
When wearing skirts, wear longer lengths -- this will make your legs appear shorter.
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isn't that like a date because to me it sounds like it is any advice? (link)
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No, it doesn't have to be a date. You two could just hang out at the movies together, or somewhere else. Me and my best guy friend hang out everywhere together, but we're just friends and really close. So, no, it doesn't have to be considered a date. It just depends on what you want it to be.
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I'm 16 years old, and my parents won't allow me to get my license until I get a job. So I was wondering does Targets higher 16 year olds? (link)
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This depends on where you live, but in Ohio and Kentucky, I know they hire sixteen-year-olds. You may be able to find employment opportunities, and age limits at http://www.target.com
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Ok, i have frizzy and poofy and fuzzy hair. Does anyone know what kind of spray can take this away? or gel or anyhing? (link)
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Yes, "John Frieda Frizz-Ease Daily Nourishment Leavin-In Spray" will take away all of this away from your hair.
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Does anyone know where I can get a leave in conditioner or a spray leave in conditioner for less than 5 bucks and is sold in shoppers drug mart or wal mart?
I never used one before so can anyone tell me what you do with it whne you use it for your hair? Any chances of bad effects with it? (link)
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You can get a leave-in conditioner (spray) at your local Wal-Mart. That's where I buy mine, except I get "John Frieda Frizz-Ease Leave-in Nourishment Spray" and it's almost $10. It's worth it, but as I mentioned before -- you can buy leave-in conditioners at Wal-Mart for less than $5. Especially, at Shoppers Drug Mart.
You just spray it on towel-dried hair, but you can find all instructions on the back of the bottle. And most generally, no, there aren't any bad effects of the leave-in conditioners.
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i have this friend, and we've been friends for a while now, but now im starting to really like him. so i wuz talking to his friend (who also happens to be my friend) and told him that i liked him, but not to tell anyone. i kno that was stupid because i know he'll tell him. i was thinking that i'd just go for it, so that's why i told him. was that just the stupidest decision i could ever make? (link)
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No, of course you didn't make a stupid decision. I actually think it's a pretty good decision (other than telling him yourself), because I'll be honest -- more than likely he's going to tell his friend. However, that could be a very good thing because he might just make a big move on you! :)
Good luck!
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15/f. ok so when i straighten my hair i would like their to still be a little volume to in, maybe by the scalp. how can i do this? (link)
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Hello, I had the same problem so I think I may be of some help to you.
Using a volumizing shampoo can do wonders for your hair, I recommend washing your hair with a volumizing shampoo (conditioner doesn't hurt either).
Once your hair is towel dried, apply some volumizing mousse. Then, begin straightening your hair as usual.
Ta-da! Now, your hair should be soft, silky, and full of va-va-volume! :)
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I am17 years old and 7 months ago my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I got pregnant and he left me, now I am pregnant with triplets. My mom says that I shouldnt give them away. I'm not sure what to do. (link)
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Please, keep in mind this is only my opinion of what you should do. I'm not here to judge you for your actions, I'm only here to try to help you as much as possible.
I think you should keep these triplets. I know, it has to be hard being a single mother of three. However, you could regret giving them up or having an abortion in time, and want them back. If you get an abortion, they'll never be able to come back. If you give them away, you'll more than likely never be able to get them back.
Children are a great part of this world, and being a mother of three -- I think one day you'll be proud of them and glad you had them, love them more than anything in this world and wouldn't know what you'd do without them.
As I mentioned before, this will be no easy task, but in your heart, I'm sure you don't want to give these kids away -- your kids.
I wish you nothing but the best of luck with your decision! :)
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like i broke up with this guy named...uhhh...we'll call him star! well i broke up with him because this other guy asked me out and i had been planing to break up with him anywayss b/c i was annoyed by him. im WAY WAY WAY new to realationships...its just im not good at them. but like he always was touching me like my but. and crotch and stuff like that and it made me uncomfortable. but like...idk. when....[[we'll call the other guy mars]] when mars asked me out it was a reason to break up w/ my boyfriend. not that i dont like mars its just he just saved me. and like i broke up with star 2 days after mars asked me out. and my friends made me feel really bad and....making me feel whoreish
annd my other problem is i think im starting to get to skinny. i dont want to talk to my mom about this b/c she will just blaim it being on me for being a vegetarian.[[i've been one for about 3 years]] but like im starting to loose alot of weight b/c of me not eating.about a year ago i weighed 125. and i always told myself if weighed anymore than 110 i will always be fat. just to encourage myself to loose weight. and not that i went on a diet i ate regular. until about the begining to stop eating so much. i usually eat nothing for breakfast or lunch. and usually have something small like an apple or banna to eat when i get home. dont eat dinner. and thats all i have for the whole day. i know its really unhealthy. but i cant help it even when i try to eat somthing i will just throw it up later. i weighed mysself last night and i only weigh 100 pounds....what do i do? (link)
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First problem: You had a right to feel uncomfortable, and you should have broken up with him a long time ago. Or you should have talked to him about it first, and let him know that he made you uncomfortable. If this happens again, talk to him about it and see what he has to say and if he stops it. If not, break up with him.
Second problem: I think you need some professional help, before it gets to a point that you're completely anorexic or bulemic. Please, tell your mother and ask for professional help. I know that because you're a vegetarian, that can't help your health either, because you're not getting any meat. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be on your about that -- even if you are a vegetarian, you still need to eat.
It may not make much difference to you, but you weren't fat at 125, that's a very healthy weight. Please, I urge you to eat your meals properly, and get professional help. That way he/she can really help you, and you can be healthy again.
I wish you nothing but the best of luck! And I'm sorry if I couldn't be more of help to you, but when it comes to anorexia and bulemia, I don't have much experience with it. However, I do know that you need professional help so you can be healthy again. I know, I don't know you personally, but I don't want you to be unhealthy or anyone else to be unhealthy. So please, get help. I can research for you, if you'd like. Just ask me a question for me to do that, and I will be more than happy too.
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You seem like you are really good with advice. Ok so theres this guy and hes a TOTAL CHICK MAGNET! all the girls like him. He flirts with every girl that walks past him. Hes super popular. And I like him but everytime I say hi to him or go up and talk to him, I just feel like a normal girl for his support. What should I do about this chick manget crush? Should I like him? How should I get him? (link)
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Thank you, that's very sweet of you! :)
Boy, have I been there. I used to have a huge crush on a guy just like that, except I got to know him and hung out with him often -- then he became my boyfriend for over a year!
So here are my recommendations, and they did work for me: Talk to him on a daily basis, even if it's the smallest thing.
Don't be all over him or too flirty, because to him, you will just be another girl. If you start out with just subtle flirting, and pretty friendly, he'll chase after you even more.
Ask him to hang out with you somewhere, if he doesn't ask you first.
And this is very important -- Don't give in to his every wimb, if he trys to kiss you for the first time, I wouldn't suggest doing it. You kinda want to make this guy wait it out for a bit, just don't be a tease either.
For all I know, you could be just like me when I had this problem. Not wanting to kiss him at the first try because you're shy, or something of that effect.
Good luck!
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oky dokey atachocie well how do i do that without freaking out. (link)
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You can do this by talking to him on a daily basis, even if it's the littlest thing. As long as it's somewhat interesting, you're good.
Ask him to hang out with you somewhere (the movies, out to dinner, etc.) frequently, especially, while you two are trying to get to know each other (after talking to him more often, for a while).
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i keep getting logged out of advicenators after i press the click here so you dont get logged out button.
does anyone knwo what im talking about?
thanksss =) (link)
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Hello, do not click the "Click Here" button. There's no need to click this, to stay logged in. Just click whatever else you would like, "View Questions," "Search," etc. :)
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i juts became one and i dont knwo how to rate questions, haha.
thanks in advance :] (link)
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You can click on the first face for a bad question, second face for inbetween good and bad (however, it's best to choose the first or last face), and the last one is if it's a good question. These can all be found below each question.
As I always say, "When all else fails, read the FAQ." :)
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11
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i met advice on neal not josh i would not even think of going after josh the guy i used to like with his girlfriend and everything so any advice on neal the senior i like.
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Okay, sorry about that, guess I got a little confused. It tends to happen every now and then, or everyday. :)
I really think you should talk to this guy more often, and even ask him to hang out with you frequently. If you get to know him, that's going to at least lead you to a good, solid friendship. Then, you can see how things progress from there.
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