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1.i broke up w/ my bf to date anouther guy&i think im gettin
like i broke up with this guy named...uhhh...we'll call him star! well i broke up with him because this other guy asked me out and i had been planing to break up with him anywayss b/c i was annoyed by him. im WAY WAY WAY new to realationships...its just im not good at them. but like he always was touching me like my but. and crotch and stuff like that and it made me uncomfortable. but like...idk. when....[[we'll call the other guy mars]] when mars asked me out it was a reason to break up w/ my boyfriend. not that i dont like mars its just he just saved me. and like i broke up with star 2 days after mars asked me out. and my friends made me feel really bad and....making me feel whoreish
annd my other problem is i think im starting to get to skinny. i dont want to talk to my mom about this b/c she will just blaim it being on me for being a vegetarian.[[i've been one for about 3 years]] but like im starting to loose alot of weight b/c of me not eating.about a year ago i weighed 125. and i always told myself if weighed anymore than 110 i will always be fat. just to encourage myself to loose weight. and not that i went on a diet i ate regular. until about the begining to stop eating so much. i usually eat nothing for breakfast or lunch. and usually have something small like an apple or banna to eat when i get home. dont eat dinner. and thats all i have for the whole day. i know its really unhealthy. but i cant help it even when i try to eat somthing i will just throw it up later. i weighed mysself last night and i only weigh 100 pounds....what do i do?
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First problem: You had a right to feel uncomfortable, and you should have broken up with him a long time ago. Or you should have talked to him about it first, and let him know that he made you uncomfortable. If this happens again, talk to him about it and see what he has to say and if he stops it. If not, break up with him.
Second problem: I think you need some professional help, before it gets to a point that you're completely anorexic or bulemic. Please, tell your mother and ask for professional help. I know that because you're a vegetarian, that can't help your health either, because you're not getting any meat. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be on your about that -- even if you are a vegetarian, you still need to eat.
It may not make much difference to you, but you weren't fat at 125, that's a very healthy weight. Please, I urge you to eat your meals properly, and get professional help. That way he/she can really help you, and you can be healthy again.
I wish you nothing but the best of luck! And I'm sorry if I couldn't be more of help to you, but when it comes to anorexia and bulemia, I don't have much experience with it. However, I do know that you need professional help so you can be healthy again. I know, I don't know you personally, but I don't want you to be unhealthy or anyone else to be unhealthy. So please, get help. I can research for you, if you'd like. Just ask me a question for me to do that, and I will be more than happy too.
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