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Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.

I love spending time with my boyfriend, Ryan, reading (A million Little pieces is HIGHLY recommended), writing poems, video games, listening to music and hanging out with friends.

I love to help people in need, and I believe no question is a stupid question. I've been through some of stuff in my life (as everyone has!) and if you need any advice on sex, health, relashinships, school, family, or whatever, I can help. If I don't know much about your problem, I'll search info up on google, and give you some reliable, trustworthy advice.
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umm yea well u dont knowme but umm i thnk i`ll ask this anywyas to see what other ppl think ok well there`s this guy at school and he`s a sophmore and im a freshman and we talked a lot when he came to the jh before we got let out of school for this summer and when he came we talked for like 30mins and he seemed really interested in me and i liked him to so ok we get back to school this year and i run into him and he remembers me and he notices that iv`e changed over the summe rand he starts after that every day finding me and just talking to me and then ine day he comes up to me and puts his fingers in my hair and says u have a lot of hair and im like ok thanks and he smiles and everything and everyone i`ve talked to say that he flirts with a lot of girls but they dont know a/b him putting his hands into ppls hair so yea but i just wanted to ask what u thought and if u think he has a thing for me
thanks
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Hey there. Yeah, I think he has a thing for you. Just because everyone tells you he flirts alot, doesn't mean it's true. He sounds sweet enough, and it's not like you don't know the guy, right? I think he does and you should ask him about it.


Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????


~Cheer grl~ (link)
team car wash. bake sale. a dance


i am going to meet john cena and i want to know what i could give him .. i thought about giving him a jersey but im sure a lot of people will be doing that so i thought that maybe i would get him something else .. any ideas? pleasee respond (link)
okay, get him a teddy bear with a miny jersey on him. lol. Or get a jumbo sized bear with a big jersey on it.


hi, does anyone know i good shoe to wear for tennis? i bought some wilson brand tennis shoes and you'd think they would be good but they leave white marks on the courts and when i run fast to get a ball and stop my foot goes foward and my toes get squished and now my two big toenails are killing me from playing 7 hours of tennis today! please help i dont want this to happen again-i have tennis tomorrow! my feet are in so much pain! (link)
hey there. Skateboarding shoes are awesome. comfortable, and they don't leave marks on the floor. Evolution is an awesome brand


The year I decided to try out for volleyball. Before the tryouts, we had 3 days of practice to get us ready. The 3 practice days are over, and they were pretty rigorous. After every practice, my wrists and legs would hurt for hours. It hurts to walk. Before practice, we run a few laps around the track and run up stairs to warm up. Tryouts are on Tuesday. Is there anything I can do to stop the pain from coming after practice? Or is it just because I'm not used to working out this hard and I'll get used to it after a while? (link)
take some advil ... it will help the pain, and it's just because your not used to it


my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice (link)
hey ... yeah, i was 135 when i was your age, and i was shorter, and i wasn't really fat. Chubby, but cute kinda chubby. lol. I know lot's of guys who dig girls with an ass . all those girls who are super skinny, when you really look at them, are they pretty? Some of them probley look anorexic or have some kind of sickness.


is it wrong to flirt and make out and stuff w/ a guy when you aren't dating..? like little benafit buddys? (link)
That's not wrong at all as long as your protected


is it tru that if your Pg n u drink vodka will it kill the baby??? (link)
it can damage it, seriously, but not kill it. I don't know if you are pregnant and don't want to be, but if you are, don't do it!!!! You won't kill it, but give the kid brain damage or other sisorders, and why doesn he/she deserve that?


i had sex with a guy a few times and now im looser down there. is there any way to get things back to how it used to be before i did anything with him ? (link)
Do some kegal excercises ... here is how you do it.
http://www.sex-project.com/kegels.shtml


Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!



NEED TO KNO!!!!! (link)
yeah, you can. Because he is inside of you .. lol .. water doesn just wash that away. lol. it stays really deep inside of you for a week.


ok......i'm 16 and theres this guy who's 20 that i like alot. he has been wanting to go out with me but my dad wont let me bcuz he says hes to old for me. well my friends keep tellin me i should just dont let my dad find out. what should i do? is there a way to get my dad to let? please help (link)
why don't you beg your dad to invite him over for dinner, so your dad can see how much of a nice guy he is.


Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
I don't mind it if they play the games or are into computers, just as ong as they don't talk about it all the time. I'm pretty sure my bf gets tired of me talking about my god damned Super mario all the time. lol. They are all really sweet guys, give them a chance.


ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
hey hun ... i don't think that is the best idea in the world ... i mean, just because you've seen pics of him, doesn't mean he is actually that person ... and the voice on the ohone can be decieving ... i don't think it is a good idea


does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
that's illegal eh


hey sweetie...i wanted to ask you the q u said i could.."If you need a list of places guys go crazy at being touched, drop one in my inbox." can i get that list plz!!!!!!! it really helps out with forplay!:) thanks!!

x0x-dani
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Hey hun ... here's my list. I'll start from head to toe, lol

-rub your hands through his hair, and maybe tug it a little. Don't pull, but this shows power, and guys love power
-kiss his neck. You go slow at first, and then go fast, and then go slow agin, but stick out the tip of your tongue so it touches his neck
- maybe you can bite his lip (softly) and tug at it
-kiss him passionatly ... and make sure to turn your head or switch sides ... makes it interesting, and use some toungue
-slide your hands up and down his chest, kiss his chest, from his neck down to below the belly button ... maybe undo his pants while doing it too, and then start kissing all the way up again ... tease him a bit
-slide your hands across his ass, or spank if he likes it. lol. Grabbing too
-number one, slide your hand across his dick once and a while ... maybe you can grab it, and use some dirty talk ... that will make him ready. lol
-massage the inside of his theigh ... that will drive him crazy

well, that's all i can think of now. tell me if the list works. okay? ttyl


okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles) (link)
boston terriors and pugs are really cute.


I like this guy a lot..and I really do care about him. He just got back from vacation and I told him how much I missed him. He said that he really missed me too! Here is the e-mail he sent me:

Whats up, well I think I kno who u like now . well I got something to tell u. I also like the person who has liked me be4 and has very pretty eyes, nice, and pretty but what I didn’t tell u is that I go wit somebody but I like both of them a lot and I don’t kno what I should do. I need some help here.

I am so happy that he likes me a lot...but I was wondering if you could help me figure out how to help him!? THANKS SO MUCH*PLZ DONT DELETE!* (link)
well tell him, if he wants you, then he'll have to dump the other one, and go with you. Just, don't be the other woman .. i don't recommend that ....


ok, i really like this guy. he is always at the pool and we always flirt. i started to really like him, alot. and i thought 4 sure he liked me. my friend always goes to the pool wit me. so 2day when i was doin a lap, my bro's friend came up to my BF and said, Chris wants to no if youll accompony him at the movies. chris is the boy i like. my friend said no. it turns out chris has been likin my friend 4 a while. i still like him but did my friend say no cuz she nos i like him? how can i steal him back? (link)
well, technically it's not stealing him back, because you've never actually had him .. but anyways, you should get over your crush. To me, the jerk was flirting with you because he knew you two were best friends. Maybe he thought it would make your friend jealous that he flirted with you? I don't know. lol


See I have boys that are my friends and their best friends , but they both have a crush on me , but when they both found out that each other liked me and they stoped talking to each other, I like one but the other I don't want to hurt ,what do i do???!!! (link)
Calmly tell the guy you don't want that you have made a decision, and want the other one, but you still want to be his friend.


hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

signed,
scared and want help! (link)
OKay, so you got stoned with him one night, and when you feel asleep he raped you? Holy shit, you should go to a guidance councler, or even better, the police. Yeah, your parents and the police will know you did weed, but i think they would deal with the rape case first. Hun, I know your probley very scared, but you shouldn't do this alone. Talk to somebody who can help you.




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