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Hiya! My name is Chi-Chi, and I'm really easy and good at talking to and making new friends. School means everythig to me because I hope to make it BIG! I Love GOD (yep...I'm a Catholic-Christian and proud of it!) and shopping at Abercrombie&Fitch, Hollister, Delia's, Urban Outfitters, American Eagle, Forever 21, H&M, Nordstrom, etc. just makes my day :) I'm exciting and crazy and act wacky at most times, but hey-I don't like to be boring. I'm also super random :) Having a good time is my specialty, and I enjoy cheering people up. I would say that I give good advice as well as many other people on this site. If you have any questions at all, feel free to ask and I'll answer ASAP. I really do love when I get messages in my inbox because I feel that I am up to the job to answer your question the best way possible. Well...enjoy my site, and make sure to tell others about it. I'm outty. PEACE.
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I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
I think that you shouldn't rush love. People are right when they say it'll come when it's the right time. You just have to trust it. Try talking to boys you are interested in or ones that make you smile and happy-you know, the ones that you get along with. Ask them on a date or to go out with you and a group of friends. Maybe after a few dates, you guys could develop a relashinoship, and love may come your way if you play your cards right. If you try and force love, you'll end up regretting it in the near future, so take things slow and easy,and let them come as they go. I hope I helped,and I hope that you find the true love that you're looking for because it feels good to be loved.
hello there.. okay so i run track for my school. and the pratcices are pretty hard. im really atletic but it still takes alot out of me to run so much.. especially when we run like a 2mile run about 2 or 3 times. i usually am like ready to passout. by the time i get home - im ready to take a nap. and i know that i cant because my homework isnt gonna finish itself. usually i cant consintrate though.. im so sore & tired and everything. dont say try stretching before and after running - i already do it and it doesnt help. and dont say dropping track - thats not an option. i need to get/stay in shape. my musclues (sp.) seem to tense up and i am like so sore. i know im kinda asking 2 questions so im sorry. but is there anyway that i wont be as sore..? like anything i can do? AND - what should i do about not being able to concentrate on schoolwork? thankyouu♥ i rate high if you actually give it thought :]
I think that when you get home after track practice, you should take a long hot shower. It will make you more relaxed and will make your sores and muscles less tense. I'm glad at the fact that you love track so much, but you don't want to get the pains and bruises in the way of getting your work done-like you said. I pretty much think that the hot shower will relieve your pain, but you could also take a quick nap before doing your homework if you have the time. Also, maybe if you have extra time like on the weekends or whenever track practice isn't going on, you could treat yourself to a spa. The messages and pampering will relieve your stress and pain. I'm not saying go to the spa everyday because that will cost too much money, but just once in a while is good. I hope I helped!
i hope you can help me.
13/f
ive been dating this guy for about a month now and hes the greatest. we dont go to the same school - so its hard but we make it work. sometimes he seems to favor his frieds over me but i never come before them. its hard to deal with always being on the "back burner". he often "forgets" to call me back and always makes excuses. what should i do? should i talk to him about it and tell him how i feel? or should i suck it up? thanks. oh & dont say like break up please - i want this to work.
I definitely don't think that you should break up over this. You should tell him how you feel because if you just keep it bottled up, this will continue to bother you. Talk to him alone while his friends aren't there, and tell him how you feel. It won't hurt you, but instead will make you stronger. Tell him, and get this situation resolved-it's for the best. I hope I helped, and if you need someone to talk to, my ears are always open.
Hey there!
I'm running for Class officer of my school. My speech is here.
Is there anything I should add or take away. Or any humorous things I could add?
For those of you who don’t know me, my name is (my name). Last year, I made a huge mistake during my speech. My mistake was that I bored you to death. This year is going to be different. I’m not going to stand here and tell you that “I’m the best candidate pick me pick me.” No, that’s not my style. I’m going to keep it short and sweet.
Class Officers are some of the most important positions of our class. Wouldn’t you want someone friendly, mature, responsible, and willing to listen to represent your class?
Freshmen year flew by. 1/4th of high school is basically done. Most of us spent it exploring the school, getting to know peers, and experimenting with clubs and sports. Ask yourself this: Was there anything you wish to change? Is there a new club you want to add? Was there something missing that you want your opinion voiced about? If you said yes to any of those questions, realize this: it’s about time we have some fun and by electing me I can assure u we will. By electing me, you will see a difference, I promise you that.
So, I leave you with this: Vote (my name)for Sophomore Class Officer, and you’re guaranteeing yourself a memorable year.
I think that your speech was short and sweet, and you're right, you want to get heard without being boring. Although, I don't think that you should mention the part where you made them bored to their minds last year. They don't need to remember the past because that's what they'll focus on. Just tell them in the beginning that you're going to make it short and sweet, and make sure you do just that. I hope you win the election, and you seem like a very good candidate. I hope I helped!
i need to find a cute picture of an updo for a dance that i have tom. does anyone have a good website or anything? im kinda looking for an overflowing of curls. thanks in advance
These are cute hairstyles. Sorry I'm late in answering this question, but you could use this hairstyle another time. Enjoy!
www.hairresources.com/ page.asp?page_id=68
http://www.onewed.com/wedding-hair- styles/hairstyles/christinawu.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/4/F/curlyblack2.JPG
I hope I helped!
hii well im in this fashon show but im afraid because i have to go down the runway with my friend modeling dresses but im afraid because she is shorter and skinier than i am and she has a cute short dress but i have to wear a long gown. I dont want to feel compared to her and im afraid ill look stupid. i feel like a perfectionist and dont want to look worse than her. like i said, shes shorter and skinnier maybe even prettier and i know this sounds bad but if one of us looks worse than the other i want it to be her. im so messed up right now i just need help and il rate 5s easy! please help thanks !xoxo
The only way that you'll look stupid is if you walk down the runway insecure about yourself and all you're worrying about is if you lookbetter than your friend or vise versa (the other way around). You just need to walk down that runway with a smile on your face and a feeling of confidence, because if you can feel it, trust me, it will show. Strut that dress and put some pizzazz to your walk (good pizzazz, bot the bad one). I hope I helped!
i'm 14 and i'm always exhausted!! everyday i want to come home && take a nap, but i'm not aloud.
also i've had a headache since feb 12th & its horrible!
i've had a histroy with headaches & had many tests.
any possible things you can say? blood test be good?
& alot of times i'm so tired and i want sleep so bad, i take 2 tylenol pm to get to sleep. i'm affriad i wo'nt get enough slepe so i take it to fall asleep
thanks
I think stress is to blame in this case. You haven't been getting enough sleep, which is probably why you are so exhauseted most of the time. Your body requires 7-8 hours of sleep. You have to make sure you are getting that. Also, make sure you eat breakfast in the morning, much protein including eggs. A full breakfast can get you going through your day. Although, I would suggest consulting a doctor about this issue so that you can get more in-depth about you situation. He can also tell you about ways to manage your busy and student life inorder to get more rest. Don't stress so much, especially about this issue because it's normal. The less stree you put yourself through, the more relaxed and energized you will become.
i'm 14/f
my father is taking my mother to court because i won't go to this house.
don't call me a bad child for not going, i mean theres solid reasons.
by law, could they make me go over his house?
&& could they determine if i had to go based on the reasons why i'm not going? hes trying to take my mom to jail bc she is "not allowing me to go over"
but i'm the one who is the reason why i'm not going there!
any help please!!!!!
This is definitely a hard position for you. I think the best thing to do now is to testify in court for you mom's behalf. I mean, if it isn;t your mother isn't at fault for your actions, don't you think you should let the judge, jury, and everyone else know that you are really the one who doesn't want to go, and that you mom is not the reason for your doings. Also, I greatly consider you talking to your mom and others about why you don't want to go to house. It's your decision, so I'm pretty sure that no one can force you to go to his house. Maybe if you feel uncomfortable in his house or something, you could have someone stay there with you. There's a solution to your problem, all you have to do is find a way to locate it and apply it. I hope I helped and I hope all goes well for you and your family.
where can you get those cute sweatpants that say "pink" on the butt? like i heard you can get them at victorias secret but idk. thanks and i rate!
Well, that's ture. PINK is a brand name from Victoria's Secret. That's where they sell them all, and they're really cute. I'm going to get some too-I can't wait.
F/14
Everybody is good at something right? WRONG.i suck at almost evrything. I dont't have any hobbies, im not in any clubs, sprots, or anything. I'm okay at some stuff and i can speak/read/write fluent polish, but that pretty much it. I'm so scraed about my future. I don't know what i want to do in college or high school or ANYTHING. I'm scared i won't be able to support myself as an adult and i will be a boring person with no hobbies or anything.
Don't worry, there are many people who can't find certain hobbies, sports, etc. that they're good at. This doesn't at all mean that you're not talented. Start now by getting into a hobby or sport that you really like or find interesting. You could try dancing, basketball, volleyball, swimming, etc. The longer you stay commited to that hobby or sport, the more you'll master it, and you'll get good at it before college. How do you think the greats like Michael Jordan and Ciara got good at what they do? They practiced hard and stayed dedicated to what they do. That's why Michael Jordan is a fanominal basketball player, and Ciara is a fantastic dancer (and she started dancing at the age of 12). I'm not saying that you have to be exactly like these people, I just saying that it would be wise for you to follow their determination, which is what got them to where they are now. So, pick a sport or hobby and if you work hard at it, you will be good at it in n time. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck in finding that special talent. I have confidence in you, you just have to have it to!
I'm currently expecting my first child and my due date is fast approaching. I recently told my husband that I'm hurt that no one has offered to throw a baby shower even though everyone around us (family, friends, coworkers, church members) knows that we are expecting. He said that I should throw a baby shower for myself. I'm afraid that it would be a breach of etiquette and come across as greedy. With our current financial situation, the gifts would be helpful, but I want the shower more for the companionship and celebration that comes with it.
1) Would you consider it greedy if someone were to invite you to a baby shower they were throwing for themself?
2) What would you do in this situation?
I think that you should throw the baby shower for yourself. Many people do it. It doesn't come across as being greedy. I mean, if you ask me, it was kind of inconsiderate for them not to throw one for you, especially since this is your first child. Having your 1st child is very special, so why not have one. Develop the courage in doing so, you have nothing to lose. Realize the situation your in now, and act from that. I mean, you have done nothing wrong, and it is totally right to throw your own baby shower. I even encourage you in doing so because that's a great idea. I hope and helped, and I hope and pray that your pregnancy will be a healthy and good one that you will remember for the rest of your life. Good Luck!
hey there!
im a girl scout and im at the point where i have to start thinking of ideas for my gold award. for those of you who dont know what the gold award is .. its a project that takes 65 hrs to complete(including planing, and actually doing it). it needs to benefit the community in some way. does anyone have anyideas what i could do?
p.s. the people participating are going to need some kind of motivation to do this.
You could throw a car wash and a bake sale at the same time. It will be really fun throwing because you and your friends and others can get together and have fun while helping others out. That is all the motivation you guys need. It's fun, easy, exciting, and it could raise you guys a great deal of money. Also, you guys could use the raised money to throw a dance, trip, party, etc. That would excite the people more to participate. Or, you could donate it to a good cause such as a Cancer fund or to the homeless. Either one would be great. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck in getting your gold award!
f/14
I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year and we are so much alike but we dont talk alot. Then in my music class there is another guy that isnt as popular as the first one but is still really nice and we talk alot more than I talk with the other guy. My friends tell me that I should do whatever my heart tells me to but what if even your heart doesn't know. So my question is, how do I decide between the two perfect guys?
I rate high for good advice
I think that you should find out which guy you have more in common with, who is easy to talk to and is better at listening to you, Who will spend more time with you, etc. You should take these into consideration because this is very improtant in a relashionship, and is apart of what makes a good relashionship stay strong and together. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck in finding Mr. Right. Good Luck!
as a last minute addition to my boyfriend's gifts.. i'm going to make him a mix of love songs.
any good r&b love songs?
There are many great love songs-especially the ones in the past:
Brian McKnight: Start Back at One
IMX-Beautiful
Genuine: Stingy
Genuine: Differences
Sisco: Incomplete
Monica: Angel of Mine
Mariah Carey: Always Be My Baby
Musiq Soulchild: Don't Change
Mya: My Love is Like Whoa
New Edition: Can You Stand the Rain
Stevie Wonder: Isn't She Lovely
Toni Braxton: I Love Me Some Him
KC and JoJo: All My Life
The old time songs are simply genius and you wouldn't go wrong if you chose them because they're amazing. Also, songs by Tyrese and Jagged Edge are really good as well. I hope I helped, and a love mix is an awesome gift to give your boyfriend.
Okay, here's the scoop. My friend Jon broke up with his Girlfriend Amy because he said he didn't love her, and that he could no longer stand being with her. They had been together a total of 1 year and 8 months. He broke up with her last week. Jon and I have had this little on/off fling going on, and I think that he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend on Valentine's day. I really like him, and would say yes if he asked me... but..
Well, I know this sounds silly, but Amy put Jon back to her number one spot on myspace after she changed it to last when he broke up with her. That's kind of a quick recovery if you ask me. I'm worried because I think he may still be 'seeing' her or telling her he loves her. Or in the future he might want to pursue a relationship with her. She's different, but she's beautiful. So, I can understand why he'd want her.
But he's sworn on a stack on bibles that he didn't want her anymore. I'm just so aprehensive on starting a relationship because he may cheat on me. He's cheating on Amy twice, but he said that's because she was flirting with other guys or whatever. I don't know what to do. Her cousin even asked Amy if the were dating, she said no but her myspace say's otherwise.
He's told me he liked me, and wanted to date me, but ever since she's done all this stuff with MySpace, I've been nervous.
:-/
Help. ♥.
Oh, PS, He asked me out for VDay... so??
I think that you should go out with him. I mean, it's really big that he swore on a stack of bibles. Amy might be putting that stuff on her myspace to fool people, especially you so that you don't go out with him. Ask her if she's still seeing him or if he's telling her that he loves her still, etc. and find out from his and her friends. Don't let her stop you from getting into a relashionship with him. I hope I helped!
i'm 15 and a girl and i have a best friend that is 15 and yes a guy. we like each other more than best friends and we really want to go out like boyfriend and girlfriend. the thing is my parents are very strict portuguese parents. THEY DONT WANT ME DATING UNTIL I'M 50!! i even asked my mom why she wont let me date..i asked if she didnt trust me and she just says well i dont ant any boy to take advantage of you and she doesnt want me to get hurt..and i told her that i'm not stupid & i know the consequences of everything..and its soo unfair because his parents dont mind..and my mom knows him well because he used to be one of her students but my father doesnt really know him at all..how do i get my parents to allow me to have a boyfriend? any tips? thanks =]
--jess
I would suggest you bring him over your house to get to know your parents. Although he was your mother's student, she and your father should get to know him more than just that-don't you think? You parents could also talk to his parents, and maybe you could invite him and his parents over for dinner for everyone to get to know eachother. If your parents get to know that he's a respectible guy, they will feel more comfortable with you dating him. I hope I helped!
lately ive been lying to my parents alot because like they ask so many questions and they usually never let me go places..especially boys houses. they dont even know ive like been to one before? and when me and my friend were out to eat last night they called and were like so do u have a ride home? i was like umm yea..my friends dad even tho those guys were giving us one after we went back to hang out at his house for a little bit..and my mom is like ookay we just dont want you to go home with some strangers..and they dont even know i went to that kids house after or anything! i had to tell them i went back to my friends house for a little bit because otherwise they woulda been like oh you cant go to his house..we dont know him..im picking you up right now..i had to tell them a lie sorta like this before..i mean i feel SOOOO bad lying but they never let me do ANYTHING!!! they ask so many questions too..they are like overprotective with me and going over to guys house..heck they are protective with me going over to girls houses i just met and we are becoming friends if you know what i mean....i just dont know what to do!! me and my parents dont communicate well either..so i cant really talk to them and just tell them i want more freedom with guys and stuff..its too awkward. PLEASE SUGGESTIONS ON THIS TOO!!!
please dont call me a cunning lying little bitch or anything..i need to have some fun in my life!
I think that although you and your parents aren't communative, you should find a way to interact with them and feel comfortable in doing so. It's important to feel comfortable with your parents, not distant. Although, I know they're not making it easy for you to do so. If you keep on lying, they will lead to even more lies which will lead you in to even more lies, and the trend will go on. Sooner or later, your parents will find out, and it won't be pretty. Sit down with them, and make them really listen. Tell them the whole truth, because once you get it all out, you will feel fresh and revived. Lies just make your sould worse. If your parents know you can be hinest with them, they will learn to trust you more. Also, let them know that you want more freedom. It make be hard to feel comfortable in doing so, but when you want something bad, you have got to learn to go with the flow. So, tell your parents, and compromise a deal so that they feel more free-spirited to leat you hand out over friends' houses (both boys and girls) even if it means them coming over your house to meet your parents. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck!
I dont have time for anything but school. Im taking hard classes this year (Im a sophmore in high school) and I literally dont have time for anything, sometimes including church =(. Im always like "If I dont get 50 things memorized today then Ill have to memorize 100 tomorrow.." Im just always thinking about school and I dont have any fun anymore. After this year Im not taking hard classes because my youth is being wasted (if that makes sense), but what do I do about it NOW?
I feel for you. I am sort of in a situation like that, but I make time for Church. I'm not saying it's bad, because I'm fully aware about how busy, hectic, and time-consuming high school can be. Instead of memorizing a lot of things and having a high chance in forgetting them later, find an easier way to learn them. Try making up fun songs, rhymes, poems, etc. that'll be fun for you to learn and grasp easier. Ask a teacher for help. A great idea would be to form a study group with a friend or a couple of friends, and try this technique. You guys will learn from eachother, and at the same time have social time. I think that if you find a more effective and easier way of learning, you will be fine. From there, you can manage your time better spend time with your friends and going to Church, Try these ways and a study group to lessen your stress. I hope I helped!
Hey,
I know everyone hates relationship questions, but this one... well I'm basicially dying for advice.
My friend Jackie asked my crush if him and i could ever be more than just friends and he said could be. I am seriously considering telling him how I feel on Valentines Day and then maybe giving him a peck on the lips. Is this a bad idea? I've liked him for a long time and I feel like I really need to tell him in person. So does anyone have any suggestions for me?
If you answer, thank you SO much, you have no idea how grateful I am for your feedback.
-Jacki
Hey. I definitely think that you should come out to him about how you feel. It's not good to keep things inside. You already know that he would want to be more than friends, so why not step to the plate and tell him how you feel. What can you lose? And what not better time to do it during Valentine's Day, when sweethearts come together. Great thinking! Remember this, it's better to know than not to know. I hope I helped.
alright i know everyone will be like ohh hollister and stuff but does anyone know any CHEAP stores you can get legginss for not that much..cause im like a shopping addict and want them so bad but my mom refuses to give me more money cause i spent to much last time so i have to buy them but i only have a little..so does anyone know anystore you can get them for under like 15 dollars? ill rate 5 for help!
Urban Outfitters is selling some really cute ones for just $10!!! I hope I helped, and I'm getting them too-they're so adorable.