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torn in two
f/14
I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year and we are so much alike but we dont talk alot. Then in my music class there is another guy that isnt as popular as the first one but is still really nice and we talk alot more than I talk with the other guy. My friends tell me that I should do whatever my heart tells me to but what if even your heart doesn't know. So my question is, how do I decide between the two perfect guys?
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First of all,love isn't a popularity contest.It shouldn't matter which is more popular,but which one you feel right being with.If you're closer to the second guy,I would probably go with him.If you really want to get with the first guy,then try talking to him a little more and see how it works out.
Basically,just spend time with both of them,get to know them better,and go with whichever feels right.
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I've already answered a question much similar to this one today-I suggested that the girl go out with the less popular guy, which is what I also suggest in your case. Not that I have anything against popular people, just that they can be harder to get to know than regular folks, plus there's always the insecurity factor. However, the more concrete reason for choosing the second boy is that you talk to him a lot more, which suggests that you have an easier relationship. Sometimes, however, a more distant connection can be more exciting-the sense of never quite fulfilled promise is very alluring. I also suspect that you must have a slight preference-one is rarely torn between two absolutely equal prospects. Ultimately, only you can know what that preference is.
Good luck, and a happy Valentines Day!
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I think that you should find out which guy you have more in common with, who is easy to talk to and is better at listening to you, Who will spend more time with you, etc. You should take these into consideration because this is very improtant in a relashionship, and is apart of what makes a good relashionship stay strong and together. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck in finding Mr. Right. Good Luck!
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