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It's about my almost new boyfriend person thing...
Okay, here's the scoop. My friend Jon broke up with his Girlfriend Amy because he said he didn't love her, and that he could no longer stand being with her. They had been together a total of 1 year and 8 months. He broke up with her last week. Jon and I have had this little on/off fling going on, and I think that he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend on Valentine's day. I really like him, and would say yes if he asked me... but..
Well, I know this sounds silly, but Amy put Jon back to her number one spot on myspace after she changed it to last when he broke up with her. That's kind of a quick recovery if you ask me. I'm worried because I think he may still be 'seeing' her or telling her he loves her. Or in the future he might want to pursue a relationship with her. She's different, but she's beautiful. So, I can understand why he'd want her.
But he's sworn on a stack on bibles that he didn't want her anymore. I'm just so aprehensive on starting a relationship because he may cheat on me. He's cheating on Amy twice, but he said that's because she was flirting with other guys or whatever. I don't know what to do. Her cousin even asked Amy if the were dating, she said no but her myspace say's otherwise.
He's told me he liked me, and wanted to date me, but ever since she's done all this stuff with MySpace, I've been nervous.
:-/
Help. ♥.
Oh, PS, He asked me out for VDay... so??
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I think that you should go out with him. I mean, it's really big that he swore on a stack of bibles. Amy might be putting that stuff on her myspace to fool people, especially you so that you don't go out with him. Ask her if she's still seeing him or if he's telling her that he loves her still, etc. and find out from his and her friends. Don't let her stop you from getting into a relashionship with him. I hope I helped!
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uh, im going to say, take it slowly. Go date a nerd there take kind to women cause they may never see one again. woot for us nerds.lol
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Reading your post one thing comes to my mind, an animal in the wild who senses danger will not proceed or it will proceed very carefully...The first hint of danger such as a visual view or scent of something dangerous it bolts out of there. Girl sounds like you need to bolt out of there, any guy that cheats will cheat again its a fact of prediction. Your story sounds complicated and messy, point is your better off finding a guy who wont cheat even when he feels as his gf has flirted with other girls.cheating on his gf because she flirted is childish. Seriously there is nothing pressing, go out with him if you wish have fun but stay casual. Dont get serious and dont let him get serious after all a date is just a date its not marriage. If you still feel as you cant trust him tell him your reasons and why you feel the way you feel and if he doesnt make you feel comfortable and trusting odds are he is not the guy for you. hope this helps
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