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lately ive been lying to my parents alot because like they ask so many questions and they usually never let me go places..especially boys houses. they dont even know ive like been to one before? and when me and my friend were out to eat last night they called and were like so do u have a ride home? i was like umm yea..my friends dad even tho those guys were giving us one after we went back to hang out at his house for a little bit..and my mom is like ookay we just dont want you to go home with some strangers..and they dont even know i went to that kids house after or anything! i had to tell them i went back to my friends house for a little bit because otherwise they woulda been like oh you cant go to his house..we dont know him..im picking you up right now..i had to tell them a lie sorta like this before..i mean i feel SOOOO bad lying but they never let me do ANYTHING!!! they ask so many questions too..they are like overprotective with me and going over to guys house..heck they are protective with me going over to girls houses i just met and we are becoming friends if you know what i mean....i just dont know what to do!! me and my parents dont communicate well either..so i cant really talk to them and just tell them i want more freedom with guys and stuff..its too awkward. PLEASE SUGGESTIONS ON THIS TOO!!!
please dont call me a cunning lying little bitch or anything..i need to have some fun in my life!
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i get what you're saying, ever heard the phrase " freedom isn't free" i had to earn mine through hard work and trust. The reason why parents are like this is cause they care for you. I know you're probably thnking " no they don't they just don't know me and my friends" right? well, if you put you'reself in their shoes wouldn;'t you want to protect your kids too? i know i would, it may seem tough but don't give up, this is life, it's hard, no one gets anything for free, and earning thing's like freedoms a bitch. i hope this help and just put you'reself in their perspective. take care
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I think that you should talk to your parents let them know that your not happy and that you dont have freedom give them an idea of when you'll be home and who your going home with because all parents are like that they need to know where their children are all the time but I'm sure if you maybe introduce them to the people your hanging out with they'll understand and appreciate your responsibility
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well i know what you mean! you know..i have this friend and she's my best friend but once we had this big fight and now my parents dont like her so i'm always telling them i'm not on the phone with her but with an other friend ! well i feel bad about it 2 but i cant tell because i dont wanna lose my best friend and well its a bit different with you but not very different! your parents are just worried about you! they dont wanna ruin your life ore anything so maby your a bit braver then me and tell them the truth and ask them nicely if you can hang out with boys 2! maby invite them over 2 your house than your parents get 2 know them better! just give it a try I'm sure they understand :-)
hope i helped
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I think that although you and your parents aren't communative, you should find a way to interact with them and feel comfortable in doing so. It's important to feel comfortable with your parents, not distant. Although, I know they're not making it easy for you to do so. If you keep on lying, they will lead to even more lies which will lead you in to even more lies, and the trend will go on. Sooner or later, your parents will find out, and it won't be pretty. Sit down with them, and make them really listen. Tell them the whole truth, because once you get it all out, you will feel fresh and revived. Lies just make your sould worse. If your parents know you can be hinest with them, they will learn to trust you more. Also, let them know that you want more freedom. It make be hard to feel comfortable in doing so, but when you want something bad, you have got to learn to go with the flow. So, tell your parents, and compromise a deal so that they feel more free-spirited to leat you hand out over friends' houses (both boys and girls) even if it means them coming over your house to meet your parents. I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck!
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i dont know how old you are but i can tell you this lies lead to more lies. and one day they will catch up to you, think about this what do you think is going to happen when your parents find out that you have been lying to them all this time? they are going to hit the roof! you NEED to tell them that you have lied to them and you feel terrible about it explain to them why you did it and if there is anyway you and your parents could work it out so both parties are happy. i have said it once before and i will say it again COMPROMISE that is the key.
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