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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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My face is so ugly ! but i think its because i have ACNE on my fore-head ! I really wish it would go away, but i dont no how it can. I try using acne treatment and stuff but it doesnt work ! soo.. i was wondering if anyone noes any ways on how to get rid of my acne??

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Put Proactiv on it and wash it everynight and day. If that doesn't help, try Clearasil Ultra. Its gaureenteed to work in 3 days. And DON'T eat too much junk food, it will make you break out.

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I think I am in love. Can someone tell me if this is love. I'm only 14 but I think I get it. There's this guy that I am going out with. I like him alot. I can't help but smiling everytime I talk to him on the phone and on the internet. I smile everytime I see him. I think about him before I go to sleep and when we hug neither of us can really let go. He tells me that he loves me alot. I think I'm definately in love. So please tell me does it sound like love to you?

Well you may like him a lot. At this age, its very confusing to know if you love a guy or just have strong feelings for him.

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I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe?

Play it safe. You'll regret it after you break up. Sometimes you'll decide to be friends after you break up.

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I'm going to be 17 soon..and I've never had a boyfriend..I've never been kissed...This is really embaressing for me to write..All my friends have had boyfriends..even the not-so-pretty ones..I'm sad..at dances, no one dances with me..I feel so sad because everyone has one now...What should I do?? I'm afraid one day someone is going to confront me about my prude-ness...gossshh this is so sad for a 17 year old..help :(

That guy is out there somewhere. Most girls wouldn't bother to wait but you have to kiss a lot of frogs before one turns into your prince.

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i have no clue how to get an xanga layout.. i mean uhh its confuseing ! can you please explain it.. i have codes and everything but i get confused where to put it and it always says the changes aren't saved.. please help me how to do it !!!!! i'm beggin you.

XO ME

You have to find a layout site.Once you finds a site, find a layout and there's a code on it. Copy the code and go back to your site and click Look and Feel. Paste it into Website Header and then it should show up on your site.

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Okay.. I have kissed guys before, but not made out before. How do you make out with someone? I know a lot of people will say "it comes naturally", but that doesn't really help me out.. lol.. like what do you do with your tounge?? It confuses me..

Any help is appreciated. Thanks!!

What you do is you put your toungue in your partner's mout hand move it around. Play with his toungue too. Practice makes perfect!

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Ok here it goes...I have this boyfriend and I like him so much. We have been going out for 3 weeks. He is kind of shy and so am I. I mean, I am really outgoing I just get kind of shy around him. We went to a football game last night and I started yawing and getting really tired. He says, "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" I was really stupid and said "no its ok." I feel really bad though because I wanted to, I just don't know why I said that. So I scooted in a little closer to him and he put his arm around me kind of. There was a bench behind us to he kind of just put his arm around me but didn't touch me. He asked me if I wanted to go see a movie sometime and I said sure. I really really want to spend more time with him because we go to different schools. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school but they are right next to each other. I sometimes go and see him after school after his wrestling practice. I really want to kiss him but I want him to do it first because it will be my first kiss. He is very shy so I don't know if he will kiss me. He asked me to the school Christmas Dance and I said yes. But I really want to get closer with him. What should I do? How do I let him know that I want to kiss him? I could let his friend that I know tell him but I don't know about that. What do you think? Thanks in advance...

Just reach out and kiss him. Guys don't always have to make the first move and guys can want to kiss you but can be nervous. Just let him know you want to kiss him and that it'll be OK.

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I have to do a powerpoint on a country. Okay I'm almost done only problem is I need info on the history and goverment. I mean I have the info but I don't know what to put on the (pp). I want the important facts but I don't know how to pick them out. Can someone help me? Oh, the project is on Spain.

Just put what you think most important from Spain. Did the goverment have problems or were there wars within the goverment? These kind of questions will help you if you have a test on this.

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I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP!

Just stay away from the people who smoke and you may not have the urge to do it. If others jumped off a cliff, would you join them? This kind of situation is called peer pressure. The only piece of advice I can give is just stay away from it. If everyone in the school smokes, I would request a transfer. Hope i helped!

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what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help

This happens to everyone. It depends on who dumped who. If you dumped him, I would forget about him but if he dumped you, its OK to think about him. Hope I helped!

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does having an xanga cost money, or is it just if you go platunum???

Its just if you go Premium. Regular xanga doesn't cost anytihng and premium just gives you more space for pictures. Hope I helped!

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I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.

I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!

**Nikki**

E sounds selfish! He's your friend and he is making you cheat on your b/f. I dont think thats a good friend. Tell J about E, tell him that you do not like E as more then a friend and that you would hate to see E get in between you 2. (i wouldnt tell him about u 2 making out). explain to J that E does not mean what J means to you. And tell E that its just not right for him to break up you 2.

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my best frend is a girl and she is way hot shes 2 years yyounger than me which is ok. not my problem my problem is i am felling lust for her sister which is 6 year years younger than me being like 7 am i sicck or is it ok help email for more info cause there are other facts im not gonna say on this
sammygamy@hotmail.com

wow. No, I don't think there is anything sick about it... maybe it's normal guy behavior... I guess it has to do with puberty? =o I have no idea, but I really doubt it's 'sick'. But you should start looking for girls your age, rather than someone who's a little wayy to young. If you were 18 and she was 6 years younger, you could be a pedophile =P

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What if your preganent by another guy? A you told the one person you thoght you could trust. Then she went around the whole entire skool and told everybody. Then your boy friend found out, what do you do????????????/

Well the best thing to do is be honest-you cant live a lie-not to yourself and definetly not to your boyfriend and not the guy you are pregnant by-everyone needs to know the truth. Not to sound harsh but you obviously cheated on your b/f you were mature enough to make that decision now you have to face what has happened. Its not about you anymore its about that baby. I am a single mom of 2 and once you have that responsibility its all about the baby from now on out, As for the person you told and trusted you now know you cant trust that person with nothing and either you will forgive that person or you will move on your way with them. You have a lot of bigger issiues to worry about and not the petty. Hope i could help and its not to be mean it reality.

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what is the cytosol in a cell? i went to all these websites and it keeps saying the same thing but its not making sense. could anyone help me? like use it as an analogy would be easiest like the town hall is the center of the town like the nucleus is the center of the cell

thanks!

ok inside of a cell you have the nucleus and you have what you call "cytoplasm." cytosol is the part of the cytoplasm that is fluid. around the nucleus, throughout the cell and surrounded by cytoplasm, you have things like the golgi, vesicles, mitochondrian, etc. cytoplasm is jelly like, and it fills the cell. so for instance if you have a little round piece of white paper and in the center of it you draw your nucleus and other stuff that goes in your cell, all of the white still left over..thats cytoplasm. and as for cytosol, i would relate it to jelly. you know when you have a jar of old jelly, so you open it up and theres these little liquidy puddles? the jelly thats still a jelly would be cytoplasm and the liquid puddles are the cytosol. if your making a diagram or a drawing and need ideas on how to draw it or sybolize it just drop one in my inbox. i hope that helped out and you get a good grade!

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im a girl and im 16 years old... randomly, i get shoooting pains in my back from moving certain ways..and yesterday at school i bent over to get something and my back like spazzed or something.. it hurt so bad! it was hard to walk after. it hurts to do everything..lean forward..bend over..move..lay down..sit. i cudnt sleep cuz i cudnt find a position where my back didnt hurt.. i need help..does anyone kno wat this is or how i can fix it?

think you should stretch every day because without stretching your muscled every once in a while they can become weak and crack and make pains in you also try to ice your back for 15 minutes every day and if your back still hurts go see a doc

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i tend to pop my pimples so i ended up with these nasty dark scars. what is something i can do so these scars wont show up or either go lighter so they arent much more noticeable?

i used pond's complexion perfecting moisturizer (it's in a white and pink tube) and i find that actually helps get rid of darker-colored skin. hope that helps :)

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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)

You don't want to pop it because it'll leave an ugly scar behind. Wash your face at least 3 times a day to clean out your pores and that should do it.

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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

Well first consider the guy you're going out with. Is he considerate, respectfull and caring or does he want a girlfriend just because all his friends have one. You also don't want a boyfriend who has a reputation for being a 'player,' or someone who has more than 1 girlfriend at a time. Next, really think about what you're doing and if you say you love him, mean it. I know it doesn't seem like it but guys have hearts too and they hate it when they get cheated on. Don't do anything you're not ready to do.

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okay, there's this guy i've gone out with 3 times before and i still like him a lot..okay i'd say he's my first "true" love..and well after 7 months i still like him a lot and the other day he asked me to go to a football game in his town. (we live about 15 minutes away) and i told him i wasn't sure if i was gonna go and he's like "what why?!" and i'm like "do you want me to go?" and he said "YES!" and i ended up going and i had blast..but i really like him and he knows i still do but i don't know how he feels. i'm thinking he may have some feelings for me since he really wanted me to go to the game..but other girls in his town like him and stuff..and idk what to do..i've messed up so much with him but i love him a lot. what do i do? how do i find out if he likes me without actually asking him? i can't ask his friends because he doesn't tell them that stuff..i just have no idea what to do. i want him back..i miss him so much. he know's that i was happier with him. i really love him..how can i get him back? please help me! i'll rate you high!♥

Well you broke up 3 times, I say forget him and move on. You seeem like your living in the past, just forget about it and become good friends.

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