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What to do
Ok here it goes...I have this boyfriend and I like him so much. We have been going out for 3 weeks. He is kind of shy and so am I. I mean, I am really outgoing I just get kind of shy around him. We went to a football game last night and I started yawing and getting really tired. He says, "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" I was really stupid and said "no its ok." I feel really bad though because I wanted to, I just don't know why I said that. So I scooted in a little closer to him and he put his arm around me kind of. There was a bench behind us to he kind of just put his arm around me but didn't touch me. He asked me if I wanted to go see a movie sometime and I said sure. I really really want to spend more time with him because we go to different schools. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school but they are right next to each other. I sometimes go and see him after school after his wrestling practice. I really want to kiss him but I want him to do it first because it will be my first kiss. He is very shy so I don't know if he will kiss me. He asked me to the school Christmas Dance and I said yes. But I really want to get closer with him. What should I do? How do I let him know that I want to kiss him? I could let his friend that I know tell him but I don't know about that. What do you think? Thanks in advance...
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Just reach out and kiss him. Guys don't always have to make the first move and guys can want to kiss you but can be nervous. Just let him know you want to kiss him and that it'll be OK.
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just try to show that you want to get closer to him but try not to make it to obvious. dont tell his friend, that will seem to pushy like you want to get close very fast. if your both shy just give it time and it will happen. go one little step at a time dont just go straight to kissing. try cuddling first, or hugging. if you both feel comfortable with that then keep moving. if you don't just wait for the right time and it will come
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Just wait for him. You don't want to push him. You've been barely going out with him for a month. My boyfriend didn't kiss me until months later. He's probably nervous so just settle back and sit closer to him. Maybe he will kiss you at that dance. An unexpected kiss seems nice...I wouldn't tell his friend anything because you could hurt your boyfriend. He might think you can't talk to him yourself. So, if you can't really wait... Just get a little bit closer to him. If he asks things like "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" and do it because he will feel more comfortable and ready for the next step (kissing). If he stares at you...lean forward slightly and he might take the hint. Or ask him, "Hey, do you know what I want for Christmas? A kiss."
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