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im in love with my best guy friend!
sorry this is long, but plz help!
this sounds like a total classic! anyway i have
this friend named "tyler", and we've been friends for about 2 years now. in the begining, he liked me as just a friend, then he said he liked me {like puppy love}, and now he says he's in love with me. i feel the same way, and yes, i've told him that. however, im a sarcastic person, and he says that when i say "i love you" he can't believe i'm serious. this just bugs me, because i am! i've even asked him what would i have to do to prove it? he says he wants me to be his girlfriend, but he wants to wait awhile, possibly somewhere around a year. but i can't wait that long! i've flirt with him all the time and he still doesn't get it. i know he's a little scared, because he has never had a girlfriend and has never kissed anyone. but what can i do to prove once and for all that i'm not joking? should i make the first big move? and if so what should i do? and what sould i not do?
thanx= i rate high
sorry it was long!
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wow well i`ve been in this situation too but the thing most peopel don`t realize is that talking to who ever is causing the problems helps TONNNNNSSSS it might not be super easy but it does the trick sit him and and BE SERiOUS with hiim tell him that yu want a serious relationship,with serious i love you's, and some seirous kissing <-- if yu don`t want to add that it`s okay it might change the mood a bit though. Long answer for a long question i hope i helped i`m soooo veryyy sorry if this advice didn`t help AT ALL
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just tell him how seriouse you are maybe get him a present or something the best move you could make on a guy is kiss him that proves alot trust me i had the same problem now i have a boyfriend
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I know how you feel! I fell head over heels with my bestfriend Craig and he felt the same way but was scared of the commitment, now? We've been together for 8 months and counting. I did whatever I had to do to try and get him and even that didn't work. But when I was just about to give up on getting him, thats when he realized what he had and that was when he went for me. My advice to you..
Be sure that your really in love with him and realize that if you make any move the friendship is on the line. But if you truly love this one, you'll do whatever you need to get him. Don't be scared to get him caught on the hook, do what you gotta do to prove to him how you feel but also be patient with him. If hes not ready now, and you try to force him into it, he could fall a stray when you guys start going out and that'll bring too many problems. Sooner or later if he doesn't go for it when you've done everything in your power, you'll eventually begin to give up and thats when all of it will hit him dead in the face. He'll realize what he has and realize he was such an idiot for not seeing/noticing what you were all doing for him (just like my sweetieboo). I wish you all the luck in the world and baby-chica, in the end he'll be worth the trouble, I promise!
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