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sorry this is long, but plz help!

this sounds like a total classic! anyway i have
this friend named "tyler", and we've been friends for about 2 years now. in the begining, he liked me as just a friend, then he said he liked me {like puppy love}, and now he says he's in love with me. i feel the same way, and yes, i've told him that. however, im a sarcastic person, and he says that when i say "i love you" he can't believe i'm serious. this just bugs me, because i am! i've even asked him what would i have to do to prove it? he says he wants me to be his girlfriend, but he wants to wait awhile, possibly somewhere around a year. but i can't wait that long! i've flirt with him all the time and he still doesn't get it. i know he's a little scared, because he has never had a girlfriend and has never kissed anyone. but what can i do to prove once and for all that i'm not joking? should i make the first big move? and if so what should i do? and what sould i not do?

thanx= i rate high
sorry it was long!

wow well i`ve been in this situation too but the thing most peopel don`t realize is that talking to who ever is causing the problems helps TONNNNNSSSS it might not be super easy but it does the trick sit him and and BE SERiOUS with hiim tell him that yu want a serious relationship,with serious i love you's, and some seirous kissing

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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?

no. not unless yu get a severe allergic reaction which would suck. but the mnor thing is razor burn for firsttime hair removal-ers lol no its not bad

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I've recently swithced types of music from gheotto to rock/emo/ skater. I'm a girl and I was wondering how I could dress skater. And what kind of make-up to use maybe some pictures. I dont want to look goth just ummmmm... punk I quess.
So how can I dress and wear punk make-up? Also what kind of skater shoes should I buy?
xo - ox

... i have no words to express my hatred towards you ...

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I have had my car stored in my back yard for two years just got is all up and running but there seems to be water in the trunk and floor boards, I have wet vac'ed the water out but the other day there was water on the floor again? any idea were or what to do?

check if theres a leak anywhere... that happend to one of my friends before there was a small hole by her engine.

sorry if i didn`t help .... but i hope i did

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ok sorry this might be long. but i need help.

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 months. but i dont think i like him anymore, like last night i was talking to him on the phone and he kept telling me he loved me and i would say " i know" b/c i dont want to say something that i dont feel and lately hes been getting on my nerves but i dont want to break up with him b/c i think thats very mean.

any1 have any ideas on how i could break it off with him so that i wont feel so bad?

thanks i'll rate high to anyone whos not a smartass.

well tell him upfront im sick and tired of what yur doing to me and its really pissing me off i don`t thinnk i feel the same way about you as i did before and if you love me im sorry for breaking your heart .. maybe someday i`ll feel love for you again but right now i`m not feeling anything. i`m sorry it`s over. yu won`t feel bad if yur an honest person... but if yu like the whole lieing scheme then say my mom doesnt want me dating yu its over.

i hope i helped :-D

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Ok well lest year I had the perfet boyfriend! We loved each other so much, and during the summer we just stopped talking! Now we talk but it just doesnt seem to feel right! I really really liek him still, and i want to ask him if he would ever go out w/ me again i just get scared! please tell me how to ask him please!

wow why don`t yu just confront him about yur feelings and tell him that yu miss the old days and that we should date again .. if yu get rejected don`t flip out rejection is a natural thing in life

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okay well i like this guy but he likes one of my bestfriends instead and well i told him that i liked him and stuff but i kind of said it in a bitchy way because i told him that i would never be good enough and i kind of said some negative things about one of my bestfriends (the one he likes) and stuff like that and he told me that i was hotter than the girl he liked but she just has the better personality and shes at a higher level than me and this made me feel good but when one of my other bestfriends later on asked if he thought i was hott he said no and i realy like this guy and ive been trying to talk myself out of likeing him but it dousnt work out can you help me

first and foremost babe getting over him might not be the best thing to do at this point in time.. live it through and if yu like him alot a lot tell it to his face. don`t ever say yur not good enough for a guy he`s just not good enough for you. just take yur time and keep yur head high act like this whole deal doesnt bother yu when deep inside it does. Guys LOVE when they see pain in a chicks eyes it makes them feel like they own the world. don`t let him do this to yu. and just tell the chick he likes what yu said about her and aks her to forgive you because lies don`t help AT ALL well i hope i helped i tried as much as i could

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see i like this guy but he has a girlfriend so yeah and well you see i cant even havea normal convo wit him nymore nd it makes me kind of sad and i dont no wut to do PLEASE help

well tell him that ... tell him that yu miss yur old conversations and me not liking yu anymore shudnt make a difference and this shudnt be awkward for us to talk... and that yu kno he has a gf and that yur over him... even though yu might not be... always tell the truth never lie

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I like this girl a hole lot. and it is kinda wierd becuse i have gone out with all her friends. well at lest 2 of them. She is bi like u and she has a boy friend. I do not really understand the bi part about her but other than that she is perfect. i resently got up enogh corage to tell her how i feel and ask her out. now she will not talk to me. i think she is mad. what do i do now. i am a guy.

hi.... no shes not mad at yu she`s just scared of breaking yur heart... i think yu shud moove on with life and forget about` her. and trust me only god is perfect. and if she has a bf she most likely loves him very much. don`t pressure her to do anything with yu because then she`ll hate yu. and why don`t yu understadn the bi part... she lieks chicks and guys n likes making out + n shit with em.... easy as that.... i hope i helped and i know your going to be heartbroken but... good things never last

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i know how to clean but i need a quicker way to do it....i hate to clean but i want to do it to get it over with..So if you know any ways to clean anythng then you can answer it

-suggestiongirl0302

if you have any empty space in your room take some things that yu can use to decorate yur room with from under your bed and fill the space up also try throwing away the things you DONT need and not the things yu think are cute or w/e the stuff yu DONT NEEEEED alright well i hope i helped out!!!!!!

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Well see I like this guy but I don't know if he likes and I am too scared to ask him because I am afraid that he will say no and I dont want to feel rejected.
(Oh ya are you realy bisexual and if you are who is the friend that you fell in love with?)


signed,
Bob the Builder

haha first and foremost yeah i am bisexual and i didn`t fall in love with anyone??? unless yu mean mike... but he`s a dude!!!! and if yu don`t wanna feel rejected don`t ask hin the first place... rejection is a part of life and yu have to take it like anything else if i never said shit to mike about me liking me him where the fuckk would i be now?? i was scarred to but i just wernt for it build up courage and just ask and if he rejects yu he`s not worth yur time... trust me... i learned that the HARD ASS WAY and don`t ever cry over him... if yu have to cry over a guy then he`s not worth it well i hope i helped byeeee i kno hu yu are btw ..
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i downloaded limewire just to listen to music while on the computer. well one day iw ent to click it and nothing happened. i tired numerous times, still nothing.
SO then i reinstalled it..same thing
reinstalled it again..nothing
A 3RD TIME..NOTHING!!


what can i do?!

thanks a bunch

it most liekly has a techincal error or your computer is fire walling it limewire isnt the best downloading system and maybe your computer cant handle it try ares! it works great and is fast and simple to use!

adnd if you have a lot of songs saved on their search on your computer to find where al lyour music files are located

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okay well i kind of freaked myself out because i just realized that i like it when girls are all over me and i like to makeout with girls but i just like cant imagine being in a relationship with a girl i just like them for bestfriends and someone to have "sexual" fun with because i like doing "sexual" things with guys too and i like being in relationships with guys. Im freakishly scared that im bi. Im very confused and i dont know if its weird to like it when girls are all over me and stuff. Do you think i might be becoming bi? please help


well first and foremost theres nothing to freak out about babe! i`m bi and i love bein bi and i don`t care wtf other bitches think about it ! and if u like havin sexual fun with chicks thats great its not a big deal i mean come on everyone likes different things! oh and freakishly is my word ... _________-

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ok so like I said before I know you so what if I IMed you and told you what I think I can be?

omg your helping me so much
hope im not bothering you

if you IMed me and told me you were i`de flip out !!!!!!!!!!!! IN A KiCK ASS AWESOME WAY BECAUSE we could hook up ;) lmao! and no ur not bothering me but ide be totally stoked if i found out!

xOxOxOxOxOx

DEEJAii`

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name: im not telling u r u kidding?
age: 13 ((almost 14!))
sex: f

kkay well ive done a lot of things (like sexual wise) that most people my age wouldnt normally do...im not nameing everything on here...and now everybody thinks im a slut faced whore, and like i can admit im a whore and everything but i dont like it when people tell me that i am. and i lost my 2 of my bestfriends over it ((well there like cousans)) and they keep telling me that im fucking up my life. && i was rele close to haveing sex with my one ex b/f but then my mom found out that i was at his house and also my friends kept calling and yelling at him and stuff ((long story)) but anyways i had to go and we never did it. but then i broke up with him because things wernt rele working out because we were @ different schools. but like before we broke up he was telling all this shit that he like loved me and that he wasnt using me and all that corny asss shit. but then he started makeing up all these rele fake ass rumors about me and i dunno hes kinda outa the picture but he fucked up my life. and now i like this one dude but he likes one of my bestfriends but he told me that i was hottter and that he liked me but he liked her more because of her personality and i dunno if i should beleive it or not and i dunno if i should be mad at my friend over it because its not rele her fault. but do you think my life is fucked up or not? and how would i be able to get my cousans to talk to me again? and do you think that guy likes my friend better because he dusnt wanna go out with a whore? help me!

DUDE Your life isnt fucked up alright? 1st and foremost it was your chocie to do this with a guy. and thank god u didnt go over the limits and fuck him! i have a realllllllyy bad life inside that nobody knoes about and i keep to myself because im freakishly embaressed by most of it its so sickening i cant discuss it most of my BFFs dont even know these details in my life... there are other people who are 11 that have fucked and are fucking pregannt right now because they went way over the fucking top ! your lucky you dindt and don`t till your married alright?
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to get ur best friends back your going to have to apoligize to them and say your sorry and that your neevr going to fuck a guy or do any more of that sexual shit till your fucking married or older than 15 years old and be sincere with them don`t fuck it up either
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and the "guy" that likes "thaat chick " is a loser, a mother fuckin cum faced man whore that should rot in hell for fucking people`s lives up.. he likes her a lot and ust likes you as a friend ! keep it that way you dont want to end up fucking the wrong guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i hope i helped ya babe

xOxOxOxOx

DEEJAii`

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ok well i want to tell two of my friends that i know will understand me but then again i just dont know how to and i don't know if i am or i'm imagining it. ahhh !

if there truely your friends they will accept you for who you are and love you no matter what!

and start slow babe!

just say guys i need to tell you something.. i`m bisexual [[ they wontflip out && sayyy ewww now your gonna like me cause bleh bleh bleh ]] that`sz not what a true friend does!

if you need anything else keep on writin!

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hey this is the confused person from before [ the one that doesnt know if she's bi or not ] . thanks for the advice it helped me alot but now i dont know how to tell people.

sincerely,
someone you know

well if you have a really good friend talk to him / her about it! and btw .. oh and by the way you can always make a screen name and IM me at xDEEJAYx666x well i hope i helped some more!!!!!!!! and if you want you can always ask me for ways to tell people and if u want you can only tell your dearest friends!

[ hardly anyone knows about me being bi!!!!!!!!! ]



xOxOxO

DEEJAii`

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im 13 female

Im turning Vegetarian for 3 reasons.

1. i really dont like eating meat

2. i am against experimentation on animals, so why eat them when im against what people do to them

3. no one thinks i can do it..


do you know anything that is meat less ( food ) that is good that i can make


thanks
i rate 5's

hey babe first and foremost im proud of you that your becoming vegetarian i myself am trying to become vegetarian it`s really quite difficult but i do try really

well some foods include like french fries .. with out grease though.. veggie burgers omg those are awesome tofu is great too! rice salad crotons haha i eat those plain um i dont eat cheese or eggs or drink milk because of the conditions the animals are in while they are bieng milked for milk or the chickens`s conditions ... all crammed together FORCED to lay eggs! hell no am i supporting that! you can pretty much drink anything you want though but i stick to soy milk which is actually really good! esspecially chocolate soy milk omg thats so flippin` good!! and you can make salads, buy bread and make PB&J or sandwhiches with tofu, lettuce, a tomato and mayo. thats really good esspecially if the bread is bunny bread and toasted!oh wow ! well anyways i hope i helped if you need any more advice come to my advice column!!!!!!!!!


xOxOxOxO

DEEJAii`

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heyy dJ well ok ill keep this short. but like i have this guy friend i have been really good friend with him since we were like in dipers and like suddenly i just seem t like him liek alot, like like him alot. But he is going out with anothr girl now. Should i talk to him about it!? Help me please~

alright first of all follow your heart!

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thanksz britt i appricate it!

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