Question Posted Saturday November 19 2005, 12:06 pm
Hey,
Actually I have two problems...1) I still like my ex-boyfriend and Im not sure if he likes me. Some of my freinds say he does, and I dont want to ask him because I might get hurt and then he might not want to hang out anymore. But I dont want to loose my chance. What should i do?
2) Whever Im around the guy I like, my friend feels left out. And I dont like them to feel that way. But he really doesnt like him that much, so I cant get them to hang out. What should i do?
thanks so much
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xXMrsMcCartneyXx answered Saturday November 19 2005, 10:55 pm: (1) From what you're saying, it looks like you already hang out w/ him. In that case, while you're talking to each other, bring up some memories of when you were together, and then ask him if he misses those times at all. If he says no, then just say something like "Yeah, we're pretty much cool right now." If he says yes, agree and then tell him that you have feelings for him.
(2) I think that you and your friend should hang out a lot, and then hang out w/ the guy you like separately. When you're out w/ each of them, bring up something about nice about the other one. Keep doing this, about once each time, and maybe they'll seem to like the prospect of hanging out w/ each other. [ xXMrsMcCartneyXx's advice column | Ask xXMrsMcCartneyXx A Question ]
xoxLoVexox answered Saturday November 19 2005, 3:37 pm: 1) i think you should wait and see what happens with your ex, if you really really like him still.. ask around.. and if you guys are talking still you should be like 'so who do you like these days' or something like that. if not, then you should explore and stuff with that new guy you like. give him a chance and see how it goes from there :)
2) have them both at a party! or a big group of people that you can all hang out with so they get to know each other more. and tell him how you feel and you really dont want him feeling like that and you'll try not to do it. maybe you could find your frienda girl that he could like, and he'll want to ang out with her too (i think there both guys because you said him) hope i helped.. please rate! [ xoxLoVexox's advice column | Ask xoxLoVexox A Question ]
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