okay, there's this guy i've gone out with 3 times before and i still like him a lot..okay i'd say he's my first "true" love..and well after 7 months i still like him a lot and the other day he asked me to go to a football game in his town. (we live about 15 minutes away) and i told him i wasn't sure if i was gonna go and he's like "what why?!" and i'm like "do you want me to go?" and he said "YES!" and i ended up going and i had blast..but i really like him and he knows i still do but i don't know how he feels. i'm thinking he may have some feelings for me since he really wanted me to go to the game..but other girls in his town like him and stuff..and idk what to do..i've messed up so much with him but i love him a lot. what do i do? how do i find out if he likes me without actually asking him? i can't ask his friends because he doesn't tell them that stuff..i just have no idea what to do. i want him back..i miss him so much. he know's that i was happier with him. i really love him..how can i get him back? please help me! i'll rate you high!♥
mooch789 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 11:59 pm: Well you broke up 3 times, I say forget him and move on. You seeem like your living in the past, just forget about it and become good friends. [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
sportychick22 answered Monday October 31 2005, 8:55 pm: I agree that the best way to find out these answers is through friends, but since you said he doesn't tell his friends these things then I think you should try ease your way into talking about you and him.
I kind of know how you feel with the whole still liking a guy after a long period of time. I really hope things work out for you. I hope I helped! Good luck! [ sportychick22's advice column | Ask sportychick22 A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Monday October 31 2005, 8:40 pm: Well the only real other way to find out who he likes is through your friends. Have your friends talk to him and see if he likes you or not. He might or might not like you. It's hard to tell. Yes, he wanted you to go to the football game but I want my guy friends to go somewhere with me.. but that doesn't mean I like them. It is hard to tell. The only other way is to just ask him yourself. Just ask him if he's currently liking anyone at the moment. Sometimes you just gotta make the move. Just maybe ask him to hang out with you sometime and see where it goes from there. I hope I helped!
lulabelle answered Monday October 31 2005, 12:21 am: I can feel ya! Boy have I ever been there. I don't know the two of you well enough to be able to tell you how to get him back. I do know something that I can suggest you not do anymore. When he asks you out simply say yes or no. It might start wearing on him if you keep fishing for how he feels about you. He wouldn’t ask you out if he didn’t like you. It sounds like he just needs some patience and space right now. If you give him that you could end up with exactly what you are looking for.
Michala answered Sunday October 30 2005, 11:29 pm: Okay. WOW! you have a problem! Well first you need to tell him you like him , let him know how you feel about him. Then let everthing else just happen. If he doesnt like you back , then dont worry about it just say ok cool so we can just be friends right. and most likely he'll say yes. Then just act real cool and dont show any crying or anything. Then when you get home or in your car then cry. BUT dont cry around him. When you see him again just act real cool dont be embressed about what you said , i mean its already happened. After all this has happened start to become good friends with him get to know him. Listen to what he has to say , "act" intersted! SHOW him how much you care girl!!! PROVE IT!!!
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