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My name is Miranda Freemaen I am 13 years old I go to Williamsville Junior High. I am in 8th grade I luv to help my friends with their problems, and I luv to talk on AIM. My favorite sport is volleyball and I luv luv luv to dance!!!
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Location: sherman illinois
Age: 13
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Member Since: October 30, 2005
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I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas! (link)
well maeby you could just put it in your shoe/sock??
and im in 8th grade and well once people know that you have ur period they get all excited for you and the girls will ask u for advice and all for it and the guys even in my grade are to shy to talk about it let alone mid grade!! so dont stress over it so much i know where your coming from!
hope i helped!
ml


Yes i get really stressed over things like tests or frineds some big some little i was wonder if anyone knew of anyways ways for my to relieve this stress? thanks btw i'm' 14/f if that help any lol i dunno (link)
well what i do is to just listen to music when im mad or really stressed out i dont know why it helps me but it does it might be because i am a dancer and i love music but just try to find somthing like that to destress you!
hope i helped!
ml


On Malibu's Most Wanted, B-Rad lifts up his maids headphones when he's like 3 and a song comes on like "You rock around you rock around you right on time you tricky" or something. Pffh the lyrics are very fuzzy it could be nothing like that. But the song was very catchy so I was wondering if anybody knew it. (link)
sorry but i dont watch those kind of shows!!!
ml


i tend to pop my pimples so i ended up with these nasty dark scars. what is something i can do so these scars wont show up or either go lighter so they arent much more noticeable? (link)
ummm one dont pop ur pimples and two just use some make up!
hope i helped!
ml


Ok well I asked a question before about this but theres something eles.Me and my friend like alot of the same guys but she always seems to win them over because she has big breasts.Well I have noticed that everytime I say I like someone she will just say yeah hes ok and then like the next day she will see the guy I like and say something like omg look its him I looooove him!! I dont know what I should do because I dont know whats wrong with me..Is it because Im jealous?? Or feel unattractive or something.I feel like i can never get a guy because she will steal him away ( by the way she doesnt do it too be mean she just does it without knowing shes doing it) (link)
well then just dont tell her and start hanging out with the guy you like he will soon come to realize that boobs aren't everything!
hope i helped!
ml


I'm a 13 year old guy in 7th grade and over the summer i met this amazing girl. She is beutiful. Her looks match her personality. During the summer I asked her out and she wasn't allowed to date, but i got her phone number. after that I didn't think I would see her again, but whene I came to school i saww that during last period we were seated next to each other. as time went by I began to feel closer to her. Now i see her face every where. I am constantly thinking her name I'm making her poems. Now I find myself planning the perfect first date, and I catch myself thinking of................kissing her. I don't know if she feels the way I feel about her. And if she does feel that way when do I ask her out, and if she says yes how can I make it perfect? Because I want it to be pertfect, because i think I'm madly in love with her. Does she feel the same way? (link)
if you love her then ask her that!! she is probly thinking the same way about you!
hope i helped!
ml


okay, there's this guy i've gone out with 3 times before and i still like him a lot..okay i'd say he's my first "true" love..and well after 7 months i still like him a lot and the other day he asked me to go to a football game in his town. (we live about 15 minutes away) and i told him i wasn't sure if i was gonna go and he's like "what why?!" and i'm like "do you want me to go?" and he said "YES!" and i ended up going and i had blast..but i really like him and he knows i still do but i don't know how he feels. i'm thinking he may have some feelings for me since he really wanted me to go to the game..but other girls in his town like him and stuff..and idk what to do..i've messed up so much with him but i love him a lot. what do i do? how do i find out if he likes me without actually asking him? i can't ask his friends because he doesn't tell them that stuff..i just have no idea what to do. i want him back..i miss him so much. he know's that i was happier with him. i really love him..how can i get him back? please help me! i'll rate you high!♥ (link)
well i say if you really want him back just tell him what you told me, and if you are one of those shy kind of people then have one of your friends to do it!
hope i helped!
ml


I'm a virgin. I thought I would start out with that.

I am 15 years old and I masturbate sometimes. But the thing is, after I do it, I feel really guilty and stop and don't do it for about a month.

It feels good when it's happening but after, I feel sick to my stomach.

I have never had a boyfriend and I'm not sexually active at all besides masturbating.

People say it's normal but it's not really publically accepted for teenage girls.

I just want to know if it's normal how I feel. (link)
very normal but if you worrie your self about u might feel a lil sick i guess? just try not to worrie about it so much!
hope i helped!
ml


ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?

-thanks (link)
tell her that you are in love with someone else and that she should get over you and move on but say it in not a mean voice!!
hope i helped you ladies man!
ml


My mother just recently died from lung cancer. She was just diagnosed on Sept. 15th of this year and she passed away on October 28th, 2005.

My boyfriend of several years had already told his spoiled rotten, self-centered, selfish daughter that she could have a Halloween party before the incident with my mother came up.

Instead of being here, supporting me, helping me make the needed arrangements and just being a shoulder to lean on, he decided it was more important to help out with his daughter's Halloween party, because everybody knows "Courtney" comes first....no matter what!

I think that's about as sorry as you can get. What do you think? (link)
well im sorry about the death in the family and im sorry about your boyfriend he should be there for you and i think you should confront him about that but it is his daughter and i know where your coming from i have a younger brother and every thing has to be about him. .anyway. .just tell him and hope that he will come to his senses and relize what a jerk he was being.
hope i helped!
ml


My two best friends in the WHOLE WORLD are in a totally different class. And the worst part is that nobody in my class this year is my friend. I think they all think I'm weird. I am having trouble making new friends and keeping in touch with my old ones. What can I do? (link)
invite old and new friends over and dont bring your self down like that about people thinking you are weird! because you are so cool like that to wanting to stay in touch with your old friends!
hope i helped!
ml


Okay, my best friend kelli was dating this guy mark for a good 4-5 months. Mark broke up with her about early October. Well, even though i was mad he dumped her, me and him still stayed close friends. and so did him and kelli. now kelly is dating this guy named adam. anyways, all of a sudden, mark started being really flirty with me lately.. and people told me he likes me. and the thing is, i like him too. but the other thing is, kelli is not over mark at all! she has a lot of feelings for him still but i dont think thats fair to adam at all. but today when i told her i kind of liked mark, she freaked out on me. and now i feel really bad and im not sure what to do. (link)
well you cant help who you like or who you dont like it is the matter of the heart tell her you have feelings for him and that she is going out with someone! and that it is not fair to you adam or mark and she needs to make up her mind.
hope i helped and i hope she wont get too mad
ml


Ok I have a presentation to make tomorrow (7 minutes long min.) and whenever I go up in front of the class.. i get soo nervous that my voice starts to shake! it is so embarrasing! and the weird thing is i really don't care about being in front of the class.. but for some reason my voice shakes? can anyone help me with my problem?? (link)
ummm well i dont really know just try to deal with it and if someone says somthing about it just say *in your shaky voice*(i know i just cant help it!?!?! its got a mind of its own!!!)
lol hope i helped!
ml


I am known for having like the best parties and whateva, but I have never had a sleepova. I mean like one with more than just cousins. I need serious help. I want to do it when I get out for the Christmas Break. Any ideas', I mean I know I want games, and Like I want my house to be like a sotre from favorite candy, to favorite drinks and food. Imma do it up now. So do I need a theme? What kind of things should I put up? Help Thanks (link)
umm go for the hole spa theme so much fun and you will have..well i cant think of any other word then F.U.N!!! hope you have fun on ur first night of a just friends or w/e sleep over!!!


im in tech class and i have to define weather terms but i can find any websites ive tried dictonairy.com and google and askjeeves can anyone help me? (link)
umm try weather.com??? i dont know if it will help but it seems like it would in this case??
hope i helped!!
ml


I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks? (link)
i am 13 and well every girl goes for the bad guy at least once in their life!! dont worry they will be eating out of ur hands once they learn that even though the bad bad guys have this exciting heart beating kind of thing going on they will soon come to their senses and relize that they are so not worth it!!
hope i helped!!!
ml


What is that piercing called when it's right above your lip off to the side (kinda where Marilyn Monroe had a beauty mark)? (link)
ummm an ugly piercing??? srry i have know idea...
srry i couldn't answer!!
ml


ok the love of my life (but he doesn't like me more than a friend) told me last nite that his dad was beating the sh*t out of him by a text message. so i then talked to a mutual friend and she said he said the same thing to her but that he pushed him down a flight of stairs and it really hurt him!! we dont kno weather or not to believe him. like he tells everyone this but none of his guy friends believe him really, just the 3 of his closest "girl friends" (me, and 2 mutual friends). they have different stories (ex: "we were on the phone and he started screaming and crying because he was in the shower hiding from his dad when he heard him coming and had to hang up"). we dont know whether to believe him or not..

once, one of his guy friends told us that he saw his dad smack him REALLY hard once..i dont know where.

please help..what should i do? its serious..also, no one knows what happened to his mom (link)
yea scary that no one knows what happened to his mom and also i think u should like hide a hidden camra to really see his father doing this one it can make you a believer that this is really happening and two if he wants to go to court he would win because you have it on tap for the time being play it by ear and tell a school counseler!!
hope i helped!!
ml


i have a school dance this friday i can either wear a mini skirt from abercrombie but when i dance it might fly up or a pair of faded ripped jeans from abercrombie also i either have a collared white shirt or a pink and white tank top that go together what should i wear? (link)
i would deffinitly wear the jeans and pink tank top nice and cute and u dont have to worry about mooning any one!!!

hope i helped!
ml


do have sex with this guy i don't even know just to boost my rep.?
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no i wouldn't that is if you want ur rep to be a slut no offense but i mean really why lose your virginity over someone who only wants to just have sex and doesn't really luv you??
hope i helped
ml




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