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exes.
Okay, my best friend kelli was dating this guy mark for a good 4-5 months. Mark broke up with her about early October. Well, even though i was mad he dumped her, me and him still stayed close friends. and so did him and kelli. now kelly is dating this guy named adam. anyways, all of a sudden, mark started being really flirty with me lately.. and people told me he likes me. and the thing is, i like him too. but the other thing is, kelli is not over mark at all! she has a lot of feelings for him still but i dont think thats fair to adam at all. but today when i told her i kind of liked mark, she freaked out on me. and now i feel really bad and im not sure what to do.
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Well you can't help who you like. She should decide if she wants to be with Adam or not because that's totally not fair to him. And if she does decide to be with Adam, you should be allowed to date Mark. Just not right away. You know, give her some time to get over him. I don't care if my friends would date my ex... just as long as I'm over him and have moved on. So just talk to her about it. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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well you cant help who you like or who you dont like it is the matter of the heart tell her you have feelings for him and that she is going out with someone! and that it is not fair to you adam or mark and she needs to make up her mind.
hope i helped and i hope she wont get too mad
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mmmm,
she needs to dump adam and follow mark around like a lovesick puppy or allow you to date mark.
otherwise she should start building on a harem structure or something and throwing all men she likesin there.
Above everything tell her how you see it, if you can't talk to her about it you're not that good friends anyway, being able to speak what you really feel builds or breaks friendships but bottom line is you'll be better off.
Take a little time to workout a aproach.
Good Luck!
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