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Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm a female. For some reason I think my ex is ignoring me. I dunno if he's mad at me or what for not talking to him when he IMed me one day. I was really upset that day especially when I saw him flirting with a bunch of different girls. Why do I always feel hurt by him everytime I see him with another girl? We only went out for a week over a year ago. What can I do to make this feeling go away?
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Well you just might be upset because maybe you still have feelings for him. And some girls just don't want to see their ex flirting with other people. I know I wouldn't want to see mine even though I don't like him anymore. Well I can kinda see why he might be mad at you for not IMing him back. I mean he doesn't know you were upset. He just thinks you weren't IMing him back. =/ I don't know how to really get over something like that. Just try not to think about him, and preoccupy your mind about something else. A song or something and just kinda push him out of it. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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Hi sweetheart,
You get upset when you see him around different girls, because you might still have feelings for him. It doesn't matter how long ago you went out with him. I think you should just keep ignoring him. If you do that, then he can't hurt you. Just try not to look at him. Eventually you'll like someone new and he won't be anything anymore.
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1) He has every right to ignore you.
2) He has every right to flirt with other girls seeing as he is single.
3) You dated for a WEEK over a year ago.
Time to get over him.
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i don't think you can make it go away until you tell him how you feel. I think it means that you're not over him yet.
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Answer: I know it hurts, but if he is your ex, he can ignore you if he wants to. Maybe keeping in contact with you hurts him too much when he is just trying to move on.
You need to do the same. Move on. Some people just cannot remain friends after a break-up. Cut contact from him, and in time you will find yourself thinking about him less and less, and knowing he is with other girls will not bother you.
Keep yourself busy. Go out on dates with other guys. Hang out with friends. Enjoy doing the things you love. Basically, keep your mind off your ex and one day you'll find someone so much better!
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i know what you mean, i think that we always want the boy when we cant have him.. even though it sucks, all you can do to stop feeling like that is get over him and try and find a new guy for your self! you shouldnt have to sit around and watch him with a bunch of girls, make him realize how much he misses you too..
hope i helped- sorry im having a bad advice day...
-emily <3
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