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What if????????????


Question Posted Friday November 4 2005, 5:48 pm

What if your preganent by another guy? A you told the one person you thoght you could trust. Then she went around the whole entire skool and told everybody. Then your boy friend found out, what do you do????????????/

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kendallski03 answered Saturday November 5 2005, 9:02 pm:
Talk to you friend about how she did wrong. Also talk to your boyfriend, and tell him everything about what happened. If your getting an abortion, let me know.:-) GOOD LUCK

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Dr_Chad answered Saturday November 5 2005, 3:06 pm:
You were unfaithful to your boyfriend, and he deserves to know that.

You have earned a reputation, and you must accept it for now.

You need to FOCUS on what's truly important: YOUR CHILD. Look to the future. The choices you've made have put you on THIS path. Don't look back, look ahead. You are going to be a mother. What difference does it make if your classmates are calling you a slut? Do you have any idea what sort of reputation YOUR parents had in high school? Of course not! It never mattered to you!

It doesn't even matter if you ARE a slut, because now you're going to be a mother, and THAT responsibility trumps any reputation your foolish classmates can pin on you.

Love the baby growing in your belly. Your baby is not to blame for the manner in which he or she was conceived.

SOMEDAY YOU WILL BE THANKFUL FOR THE BLESSINGS OF PARENTHOOD.

Good luck and have a great life,

Dr. Chad

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LadyGoodman answered Saturday November 5 2005, 1:36 am:
OMGZZZ I DONT KNOWW@#!@!!!!!!

On a more serious note, having a kid is going to be a HUGE slap in the face for you if the most you're worried about is this. Here's what I have to say, though you probably won't like it. Screw em. What's done is done. Tell your boyfriend the truth yourself, before other people can talk to him more about it, and if he hates you...well...he hates you. Those are the consequences of your actions, and yes, it sucks, but so does life a majority of the time and it's something you're going to have to get used to. Obviously, don't stay friends with that cruel person. If you're seriously so worried about what other people will think, drop out. Personally though, I think it's better just to block them out. What do the rest of them matter anyway? They don't matter. If you're going to have this baby, just focus on keeping yourself and your body healthy. You have a long road ahead of you..

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mooch789 answered Friday November 4 2005, 11:33 pm:
Well the best thing to do is be honest-you cant live a lie-not to yourself and definetly not to your boyfriend and not the guy you are pregnant by-everyone needs to know the truth. Not to sound harsh but you obviously cheated on your b/f you were mature enough to make that decision now you have to face what has happened. Its not about you anymore its about that baby. I am a single mom of 2 and once you have that responsibility its all about the baby from now on out, As for the person you told and trusted you now know you cant trust that person with nothing and either you will forgive that person or you will move on your way with them. You have a lot of bigger issiues to worry about and not the petty. Hope i could help and its not to be mean it reality.

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brokenagain answered Friday November 4 2005, 9:17 pm:
Well the best thing to do is be honest-you cant live a lie-not to yourself and definetly not to your boyfriend and not the guy you are pregnant by-everyone needs to know the truth. Not to sound harsh but you obviously cheated on your b/f you were mature enough to make that decision now you have to face what has happened. Its not about you anymore its about that baby. I am a single mom of 2 and once you have that responsibility its all about the baby from now on out, As for the person you told and trusted you now know you cant trust that person with nothing and either you will forgive that person or you will move on your way with them. You have a lot of bigger issiues to worry about and not the petty. Hope i could help and its not to be mean it reality.

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DeadMemories answered Friday November 4 2005, 8:46 pm:
Bitch Slap Them and Then Move! :) Good Luck!

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DancinCutie08 answered Friday November 4 2005, 7:19 pm:
i would sit down with my boyfriend and explain everything to him and tell him your sorry. if he doesnt believe you get one of those test done that says who the father is. chances are hes going to blow up in your face but its better he nos the truth than just rumers

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