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boyfriend-less :(
I'm going to be 17 soon..and I've never had a boyfriend..I've never been kissed...This is really embaressing for me to write..All my friends have had boyfriends..even the not-so-pretty ones..I'm sad..at dances, no one dances with me..I feel so sad because everyone has one now...What should I do?? I'm afraid one day someone is going to confront me about my prude-ness...gossshh this is so sad for a 17 year old..help :(
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That guy is out there somewhere. Most girls wouldn't bother to wait but you have to kiss a lot of frogs before one turns into your prince.
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don't worry, there's the perfect guy out there for you someday. yeah it definitely sucks being the only one out of your friends without a boyfriend (i'm in the same situation) but i just think about this: i'm not getting hurt by some guy, it's an oppurtunity to get out and meet more people (mainly guys), and you don't have to deal with a sucky breakup.
just keep your head up.
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Well I'm 14 but I am basically the same way. Never danced with anyone at the dances, all less-prettier friends have had numerous boyfriends I've never had one, I was going through all the same things until a month ago whenever I met the most amazing guy ever. But he's long-distance so at the dances and such I'm still alone ( and I still haven't been kissed ) anyways, you're not alone. I know you're thinking, " But I'm 17 " still, there's girl out there your age that are going through the same thing. YOu just haven't found the guy yet.. and he'll come. He just might take longer than some. But trust me, the wait is totally worth it once you do find him. And you also want your kiss to be memorable with the guy you like. Some girls just waste theirs and regret it later. So like I said.. he'll come and it'll be great =] I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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aw don't be embarassed!!!
all you really need is confidence, don't think about it so much
the only way to find true happiness is to live and the moment and not worry about the future!
just keep your head up! God has somebody in store for you!!!
i hope i helped!
EXoh <3
caitlin
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dont feel bad. you''ll get a boyfriend soon. I'm sure you aren't the only gurl out there who has never had a boyfriend. the right guy will come and when he does you'll be glad that you're single so he can ask you out. just be yourself around guys and dont be all shy and stuff. guys like to see that you are comfortable around them.i hope i helped.
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Don't feel bad. You could get one if you wanted, I'm sure. All it means is that you aren't being slutty and going after any guy that will take you, you are waiting untill you love the guy whihc is BEST! There is nothng wrong with you...Guys may like you but be too shy to ask you to dance or maybe they are waiting for you to show interest guys get like that. Theres this guy that I think likes me and I love him but I always say that I dont whenever I talk to him cuz he says that he wants to aks soimeone else out b ut he relaly doesnt. He has to wait untill I like him before he goes for it. Guys dont wanna get turned down they wait untill you like them too. SHow some interest. Also, In the end you will end up on top because guys won't be afraid of getting hert with you. Girls who go out with like 4 guys a week are less likely to get a nice hott, shy guy because they will be afraid of getting hurt. Its not just you..they save the best for last when something could ACTUALLY happen not those stupid 7th grade relationships where nothing real will ever happen so whats the point. They don't wanna blow it on you before they actaully can have some fun with you. I think that guys take the most vulnerable girls first because of fear of getting turned down as I said. and come on millions of women wait and they are the ones happily married with wonderful children and a PERFECT husband! Flirt a little but act confident, but not stuck up you know! You'll get one soon! Wait your turn and You'll end up on top! Hope I could help<33
~Mackie
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It's not your fault and your not prude. If your interested in a guy go after him. Otherwise let the guy come to you.
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You're not prude, just unlucky. I didn't have my first boyfriend/kiss/anything until I was 18 and a half. Nobody ever even asked me out. I used to think there was something wrong with me too. Now I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy and I've realized that there's nothing wrong with me after all. Your time will come, don't worry.
"Women are like apples. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easily picked up. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."
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