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My boyfriend had sex with me yesterday and it was my first time doing it he didnt pop my"cherry" and today I feel sick and my stomach was bouncing, what does it mean? And can I still get pregnant if my "cherry" isn't popped? (link)
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If you have sex, you always have the chance of getting pregnant.
There is no "popping your cherry".
When people talk about that, they're talking about your hymen. Sometimes women bleed during their first time but a lot of women don't if the guy is careful. Your hymen is supposed to stretch, not tear, break or bleed.
So yes you can still get pregnant.
Make sure you're using condoms and that you're on birth control.
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Hi there, f/16
Me and my boyfriend had sex today.
It was his first time but it wasn't mine.
It was really rushed and we didn't use a condom because we didn't have one.
Since it was his first time he didn't last too long but that's ok. What I'm worrying about is the fact that I think he pulled out a second too late and he might have gotten some cum inside me...
I'm absolutely freaking out! It happened today,17/8/14, and I have no way of getting the morning after pill.
I also am not on any birth control pills but I am on anti depression ones....I really need some help.
Please don't judge.
I am not emotionally, physically, emotionally ready for a baby! Either is he!!!
Please, if you have any ideas or options please please please tell me.
Thank you so much! (link)
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I'd find a way to get the morning after pill.
Even the pull out method doesn't always work. There is such thing as pre cum and guys don't even feel it come out. That's why girls still get pregnant even when he pulled out. Because pre cum has sperm in it, so always use a condom.
So try planned parenthood or find a way to go buy the morning after pill.
Next time, use a condom and get on birth control.
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lm a 21year old female&l haven't had my first period lm worried (link)
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There could be tons of reasons.
You need to see a gynecologist and they can look at you and your body and find out what's wrong.
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I havnent been able to sleep very well for the past week, and when I do it's maybe 5 hours a night with me waking up every 45 minutes in that time span. What should I do to get some sleep? (link)
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You should see a doctor. They'll help you find medicine that will help you sleep better and get to the root of the problem.
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I recently got a job at a good company, while I was being introduced to all the staffs I bumped into an old high school friend who was 4yrs my senior, and we didn't really talk much in school just hellos and hi"..... I have been working at the company for a few days... This is the 2nd week and suddenly he starts acting really nice, he got my number and calls and text and just 2days ago we went out after work to hang out while I was in his car I could feel him staring at me, he was always holding my hands, and he took me to this very cool, quiet romantic place. while we were talking we kissed, he told me that he liked me a lot, and we talked about us and what we wanted, he said things like will I be loyal to him if we were dating and all that..when we got back into the car we kissed again almost made out. But before then he asked if I had a bf and I said no and when I asked he said yes, but the relationship was on the edge bcos shes in a different place and they hardly communicate, they don't call or text. They hardly even talk.... But I feel like he isn't honest with what he told me about the relationship, I feel like his just saying it 2 get me and I feel a little cheap to have kissed him on a ist date, but I am beginning to like this guy but I feel guilty that I kissed a guy who has a girlfriend already... Yesterday he asked me to hang out with him today I said yes, but now I am giving it a second thought..... what should I do I am so confused.. should I just end the friendship and everything associated with it. (link)
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I completely agree with Dragonflymagic. It seems like he's trying to find a replacement.
If I were you, I would've been long gone when he told me he had a girlfriend.
Although in the past, I had the same situation happen to me. The guy said it's pretty much over with his girlfriend because she lives far away.
To be honest, it just seems like he's into you sexually. Only because you guys have already kissed and he's saying that he really likes you when he doesn't really know you all that well.
Either way, he's cheating on his girlfriend with you. You shouldn't get involved with someone else even if you're relationship sucks. Break up with them first before you start something new.
So you do have every right to be second guessing this guy. It isn't normal.
You can see where it goes, but if I were you, I'd just back out before you start liking him more. If you do decide to keep seeing him, don't become more than friends with him. Don't do anything with him while he has a girlfriend. Let him know your boundaries about what's ok and what's not ok.
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It's been 4 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. 3 months since I found out he is dating someone new. And 2 months since I started dating someone new. I closed out fb so I wouldn't have to see him dating her. But I wish I was strong enough to reopen it and post pictures of my new beau but I would never wanna hurt him like he's hurt me. I still find myself avoiding situations where I have to be alone cause if I'm alone for too long I catch myself thinking about him and tearing up. Is this normal? He still text me out of the blue but all he ever says is "." Seriously that's it he sends me periods... I no longer miss him enough to want him back or hope we can be back together but I do miss him enough for it to hurt. I know it's not fair to the new guy but I'm just stuck I guess. Is this normal? Has this ever happened to one of yall? :( (link)
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It's normal when you haven't moved on.
I think you've gotten to the point where you've accepted that it's over and realized that he wasn't good for you but you haven't completely gotten over him.
I'd take a step back and give yourself some time to move on. I mean it was only 4 months ago and you're with someone else. I just don't think you gave yourself enough time to move on. It's different for each person.
And like you said, it's not fair to your current boyfriend. So take a break and let yourself move on so that you don't have to go through this any longer.
Also, I wouldn't keep in contact with him. I hope you don't reply when he sends those texts.
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a couple months ago I stopped talking to my best guy friend.it's because two girls I used to be friends with hate me, and he has a huge crush on the one of them so she was able to turn him against me. My friends say what he did was wrong, just believing her over me. His birthday is the day after mine andI wanted to send him a text at midnight just let him know that I didn't forget. I don't know if I should apologize or just keep quiet until something happens. But it's already been a while and I really miss him. My friend say no and I kind of think that I should have but then I want to. And if we do become friends again that I'm going to have to worry about them still talking to him. What if it doesn't go right because they are still friends with him. I really don't know what to do and I really miss him and none of us like each other. Help? (link)
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What would you be apologizing to him for? Did you actually do something or was it those girls that made something up?
If you actually did something that would cause him to turn away from this friendship, then yeah, you should apologize. Then it's up to him to decide whether he wants to talk to you.
If you didn't do anything and it was just those girls causing drama because they don't like you, don't apologize because I don't see what you'd be apologizing for.
If you didn't do anything, yeah it was wrong of him to just assume that and cut the friendship. That means he didn't value your friendship over the girl he had a crush on.
If you do become friends with him again, don't listen to those other girls. It's fine for him to be friends with whoever he wants. Just don't talk badly about them and just show him that you're a good friend.
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Can't sleep, feeling so low right now?
There's this guy who I thought was great for me. We've been friend for 5 years and he's always been a sweetheart. He started showing interest in me towards the end of last year and we've been flirting ever since. He has said he has always liked me and is afraid because of school he won't get to hang out with me anymore. Recently things got more serious and we finally kissed and stuff. Right after that we each made plans to hang out but all of our plans fell through. He seemed a little ticked at this and wouldn't talk to me for days. I eventually ended up seeing him at a gig he was doing, and his ex was there. He said hi to me but was ignoring her and had said he wanted to hang out with me that night after I had to leave. I felt fine about it until just today he texted me saying he had a gf again and just wanted to let me know. My bests girlfriend whom is also friends with him confronted him and asked how he could do this to me out of the blue? He said he didn't want to hurt me and he thought he liked me but he doesn't. Despite not liking me he couldn't stop saying I'm sorry, I feel bad etc and says he still wants to hang out with me and "make up" for it. I don't understand, if he doesn't want me why not leave me alone? We weren't super close friends so it's not like he losing much. If he's not into me why try to keep seeing me? Wouldn't he be more concerned with his ex gf who he's gotten back with? (link)
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These situations are tough to be in. It sucks when someone you really liked doesn't want to be with you.
I don't know what reasons he has going on, I can only guess.
Maybe he liked you, but still like his ex a little bit more. Maybe he did like you but stopped because he realized you guys just wouldn't be right together and the personalities didn't click.
As for him saying he still wants to hang out with you, maybe he genuinely does feel bad. Maybe he sees you as a friend and wants to continue with just a friendship, or maybe he's keeping his options open.
To be honest, I know you like him but don't think too much into his actions. He doesn't really seem to know what he wants.
I'd suggest not hanging out with him until you're over him. Just try to keep the contact to a minimal.
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How can you love someone but not want to be with them. (link)
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I second everything britZ67 said. There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
On top of that, there is different types of love.
I mean you love your family and friends differently than you love a boyfriend or girlfriend.
You may care for someone a lot and love them, but only love them as a friend.
You may also really truly love someone but don't want to be with them because of the incompatibility. Your values might not be the same.
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I will go back to school in august and I am going to high school for the first time. Kind of nervous about it and ugh, I want to get it over with. Can you guys give me some "high school experience" stories or tips or something? I think I am really gonna hate it. Is it as big of a deal as it is on tv and stuff, cause I always hear how high school was like a crazy time...
Anyway, any advice?
Thanks, "hsh8tr", (link)
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It's not as big as a deal as they make it on TV.
I'd just say enjoy it. Like enjoy the times you'll have with friends, don't get into drama and study.
It's pretty much whatever you make of it. It's also normal to feel nervous but don't stress out about it.
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I'm a 14 year old girl and my friend is dating someone online over Instagram (FYI Instagram is just like this social media website). She doesn't even know the guy in real life. When she told me I was concerned so I casually started asking questions about the guy. Apparently he's 13, going on 14, he lives in the Philippines and his username on the website is like Mark_B or something like that. She asked if Mark was his real name and suddenly he had to go, she doesn't seem to find this suspicious at all..... I'm really concerned about this because what if she tries to meet him in real life or something? I warned her about the dangers and she just says "But he's so sweet!" And "He stole my heart!" And stuff like that. So should I be concerned or should I just let it all play out? (link)
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It's good to be concerned because there are tons of bad people out there who really can hurt you.
Assuming you're friend is 13 or 14, it can be really, really dangerous.
A lot of people aren't who they say they are over the internet.
There's not much you can do but encourage her to be careful. I'm guessing you guys aren't from the Philippines. So if he's really from there, it's unlikely they'll ever meet since he's only 13.
If he tries to meet her, it's a good chance he's not who he says he is.
Like Dragonflymagic said, tell her to skype with him. If he can use Instagram, he can get skype.
Just make sure she doesn't give out any personal information.
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my friend is a little far away from me we talked a lot and we both know that we like each other.and I have a feeling that very soon he's going to ask me to be more than just a friend, a relationship. But I really don't know if I'm ready for long distance but I really like him and I really don't know what to say because it just seems like we're getting more into each other by the day. I don't know what to do. (link)
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If you don't want a long distance relationship, then don't try to progress this relationship into something more than friends.
Some people can do long distance and some can't.
It is a lot of work and only certain people are willing to deal with that. You need a lot of trust and need to handle not being able to physically be with each other or be intimate at all.
So obviously this is all up to you.
If you think you can do long distance, go for it. If you can't, don't be more than friends with him.
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So I haven't heard from my bf in a little less than 2 months. It's kinds depressing cause I could call him anytime. We used to talk everyday! I don't even no why he won't answer the phone!!! I've been talking to Z (let's call him that for privacy) a lot more that usual. He's one of my best friends and I've gotten to know him more and more. But here's the problem...I THINK I MIGHT BE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM!! Which scares my bc I love my bf. if he would answer his phone and talk to me again, than I could snap out of it. Oh and Z has a gf. Which makes it a million times worse!!! Help me. Please!! Ps I'm 15 and a girl. My bf is 15. Z is 16 (link)
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To be honest, you might like your boyfriend and have feelings for him but you probably don't love him.
Only because you wouldn't fall so easily for someone else when he's not around.
I wouldn't go after your friend, at least not right now. Only because you do still have a boyfriend. And he has a girlfriend.
I think for the mean time, you should not talk to him as much. Just so you can get a clear head and make the right decision.
I don't know whatever is going on with your boyfriend. I don't know if he's just ignoring you or if something serious happened and that's why he can't get a hold of you.
I think you should visit his home and see what's going on since he's not answering his phone.
I'd give yourself some space to move on from your friend "Z" because he does have a girlfriend you obviously need to respect that and no get in between a relationship.
If they break up, and you're single, go for it.
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I usually don't ask questions, but well, this is important. So I am taking summer gym so I don't have to do it during the year and it's all the people from my grade from our district middle school and 3 students. I am friends with all 3 of them. One of them is a guy and we always run into each other everywhere and anywhere somehow. He and I talk a lot and whenever we walk together, we walk slower than usual. We talk a lot and we goof around together during class. Whenever were playing a game, were totally competitive and we try to out do each other. I really like him, but I have no idea if he likes me back. I love being around him and he makes my life so much more fun. Especially when he comes up to me and asks me if I'm hot and I respond yes, and he pours his water bottle all over my head!!! I laugh and yell in a joking way, "I'm going to kill you" while I'm still laughing and I chase him until we both can't breath anymore. I just can't ask him if he likes me...should I? And, when, how? Ugh! I'm confused! Someone help me! I'm love struck! (link)
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It sounds like he's at least interested in you. So you're headed in a good direction.
Sometimes it's hard to tell when you're not being direct. If you have the courage, you should ask him to hang out. Just plan something fun and casual, something you guys would both have fun doing.
Or even ask for his number.
That would give him the sign that you're interested in him and if he does give you his number, then there's a good chance he feels the same about you too.
A lot of the time, teasing is flirting and he seems to do that to you.
So I'd definitely go for it and take the risk!
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I've been dating a guy for three months. We've also only known each other for three and a half months. I don't know anything about him "under the surface." I don't know how he generally is, personality wise. I only know about what he does for a living, what he likes to eat, etc. Nothing that I can actually really connect with. In other words, we don't have many deep conversations.
Since we've been dating, we have not discussed whether or not we were exclusive. We were both aware that we would not be happy if one of us were seeing other people other than each other. Here's the thing, we met online. Ever since I met him, I stopped going onto my profile but he was still on it. Recently, I noticed that he has been getting on it more frequently. Speaking about it has gotten us nowhere. He just mentioned that he has been chatting with a few people but he has not been seeing them.
I will admit that I have brought in some of my trust issues from my previous relationships just because they have turned out terribly due to trust. I have been doing what is called "mirroring", whatever he does, I do. If he texts me, I text him. If he calls, I call him. He went on his dating profile, I go on my dating profile. Whenever he finds out that someone has been chatting with me, his mood changes and he becomes quiet. I sometimes notice that he would glance at my phone whenever I'm on it next to him. I'll admit, I do the same thing sometimes.
Other than the fact that he's been getting on his dating profile more often, he has not given me any reason not to trust him. He has not lied, he has been completely honest with me, he talks to me everyday, and he tells me about what he did that day. What could be wrong?
I can't help but be insecure or suspicious of him seeing someone else. I think of the worst scenario and it drives me crazy. I'm worried when I shouldn't be worried. Help? (link)
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Well you guys aren't exclusive if you're talking to other people.
Maybe nothings actually wrong. He doesn't lie to you or do anything like that. But maybe since he's not giving you what you want, you're just not happy and you're doubting this.
You want something exclusive with him. It seems like he's keeping his options open.
I think you should sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel about the situation. Or ask him where you guys are headed.
If he doesn't want to be exclusive, then decide if this is what you want or if you should turn away. Just because he's a good guy, doesn't mean he's the right guy for you.
Just make sure to do what's right for you.
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So, I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have a bit of proof. The girl I think he's cheating with has done this to me before. I was sitting right next to her and I looked over and saw she had a conversation with my ex boyfriend (boyfriend at the time) and it was extremely dirty, talking about how what they would do to each other once they saw each other later. My boyfriend now, talks to her until 5 in the morning sometimes. He ignores me and texts her. He once told me he has cheated before, on a ex girlfriend. I just want to know what I should do about it. I've been cheated on before, but I honestly love this guy and I'm confused on how to confront him, or if I should. Do I have enough proof? (link)
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I'm kinda leaning both ways on this situation once I read Dragonflymagics advice.
Usually I'll tell you to talk to him. Let him know how you feel and set boundaries for what is ok and what's not ok.
You need to let him know that even if he isn't cheating, texting her until 5am isn't ok.
I'm pretty sure innocent conversation isn't happening that late at night anyways.
But to be honest, if I was in your situation, I'd just leave. There is no trust in this relationship. It seems like you're always going to have your doubts.
Plus you want a guy who won't be texting other girls late at night or ignoring you.
Unless you actually are fine with a guy who is up late flirting with other girls and texting them, then stay.
Most likely if you talk to him about it, he'll say it's not like that, they're just friends, it doesn't mean anything, or that he'll stop texting her late.
But will you actually know? Will you actually trust him?
That's just something you'll have to think about for yourself.
Think about what you want and what you're really looking for.
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Okay, I am a 15 year old girl, I am somewhere around 5ft 6" tall and I weigh 120-130 pounds.
When I was in my mothers womb, I was very active, and ended up making a huge knot in my umbilical cord and wasn't getting enough nourishment.
And when I was born(by C-section) the umbilical cord was rapped around my neck and I was choking myself on it and almost died.
Because of this(My mom also told me that I have a low fat cell count), I have always been skinny. When I was younger, people would come up to my Mother asking if I ate enough. I was wearing clothes for years before I out grew them. My mom would let me eat milk shakes for breakfast everyday to try and get me to gain weight. (I also had bad stomach aches a few times a day from the ages of around 8 or 9 until a few years ago, we still don't know what caused them.)
But other than this, I was like any other normal child. I was extremely active(I mean, I would run laps for fun active, now I'm lazy...), liked to play outside, and though I was a picky eater, I ate normally too.
As I got older I remained thin, but in middle school I started eating a lot more(I mean, A LOT of food. I'd eat more than my older sister and her friend combined)and gained some weight, but I am still thin.
Recently(I will be a Junior after summer), I got a spacer in my mouth so I take longer to eat, and I also haven't been able to eat as much. But I do eat more than enough to be healthy(three meals a day and snacks in between, most high calorie junk food). I'll occasionally skip meals, but unintentionally because I'm not home much and I forget because I snack a lot.
I care little to nothing about my weight and do not think I'm fat, I don't look at calories and even eat junk food most of the time. As stated above.
But for the last few weeks, my friend who's been with me almost constantly has been calling me anorexic. And not just as a joke, or something like that. She actually thinks I am. She tells me almost everyday. It's really starting to bug me.
I've explained to her I'm not, but she says that I don't eat enough and I'm too thin. When I'm actually bigger than I used to be. I know I eat enough(most days at least) and I love food...
I don't know, basically what I'm asking is, how can I get my friend to stop thinking I'm anorexic? And can having a low fat cell count be the cause of me being so skinny? And any other comments you can give would be great.
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That would be annoying.
You seem to be at a fine weight range and just naturally skinny and have a fast metabolism.
As long as you've seen a doctor and they're not concerned about your weight, then you're fine.
I think you should sit down with her and explain to her that you aren't anorexic and her saying all this is actually becoming hurtful.
You can show her sites online that show your height and weight range, because I'm guessing you're also a small framed girl.
And tell her that you've seen a doctor and you're healthy and ask her to stop because you don't like it.
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I am a teen. I have never had sex or anything, but I haven't had my period since probably March or April. There were these 2 incidents where a guy was walking past me, and his front touched my behind. We both had pants on and it was on accident, but I'm just scared that I could possibly be pregnant. (link)
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I really hope this is a joke or something.
But you can't get pregnant without having sex.
There is some other reason why you're period hasn't shown up and that's something you need to see a doctor for. You might have some other health issue going on and you need to get some help and get checked out.
You can only get pregnant if you have sex.
Educate yourself on this.
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so my bf broke up with me nd at first we did keep talking but i also kept talking to one of his friends and then me and my now ex stoped talking for a few days and i got a text from his friends phone asking me out and i said no at 1st cuz i thought they had both planned this but he kept finding ways to keep me thinking then i get a txt from my exs phone saying that his friend was my 1st kiss and that my 1st kiss was a dare so i told him to shut up and he kept saying that but then out of nowhere he tells me it was him who was txting me from his friends phone so i called him names and stuff but then he tells me that my friend also his ex was a better gf than me and that he always wanted to kiss her but hardly ever wanted to kiss me and said he was going to tell his friend a really deep secret i told him he also said many other hurtfull thing and i dont know what i did to disreve this nd im 13 (link)
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He's immature. Like Dragonflymagic said, girls mature faster than boys. That's why most people say to wait to date till you're older because middle school aged boys will do this kind of stuff often.
He's doing all this because he thinks it's funny and wants to get a reaction out of you.
So delete his number and block him and his friends.
You don't deserve any of this, you deserve so much better. Kick these guys out of your life.
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To start off I'm 20 years old (well officially in August anyways) and I've been with my fiance a year and one month. We met at a bowling alley and four months later we were getting a place together. We've lived together ever since and he proposed to be on our one year anniversary.
I love him more than I ever thought I could love anybody. He's my very best friend and I die inside thinking of him not being in my life.
Something is wrong though and I don't think I can go through with marrying him. We haven't been intimate in almost three months and more and more I find myself aggravated with him. He's not the dream man I pictured married and I know there is no such thing as perfect but all of my friends think I can do better. He plays video games every night for hours as soon as he comes home from work, he throws his clothes everywhere, refuses to shower more than once every several days, brushes his teeth seldom, he won't clean and he can't cook. Lately I've been wondering where all his money is going as he never seems to have more than $50 even though he makes around 2k a month and he only has to pay half our bills (which if I do the math doesn't add up) since I pay the other half. He always has to have the last word and thinks he's right 100% of the time. His arrogance is equal to his ignorance and he has no remorse for the sick or dying. He hates my parents and hates all my friends.
However he's as funny as can be and charming, he's sweet to me and loving when I really need him to be, he tolerates my bad moods and has always been very loyal to me. He has his own car and like I said previously has a full time job and pays his side of the bills which is a plus for people as young as us.
I do all the cooking and the cleaning and I pay my half of the bills, I also work full time and have my own car and more bills than he does and I know at times I can be a handful as I tend to be a bit emotional. I support him in everything he does and love him no matter what he does, I always forgive him and find ways to make our life better.
Lately I feel things haven't been going well. He seems to be listening to me less and less and playing video games with his friends more and more. He comes home from work late and doesn't seem to want to spend much time with me though he insists he loves me when I confront him about it. I'm growing tired of his childish and gross ways and I don't want to spend the rest of my life playing mommy.
Last night an old friend I used to speak to before I even met my fiance came back into my life. I'll be honest I met him online but texted him for years and got to know him. I stopped talking to him for about a year and half maybe two years and last time I spoke with him I felt like he was the one for me and that we had so much in common but at that time the circumstances were all wrong. I was still living with my parents and didn't even have a car to see him with or any freedom at all really and noting to offer to a relationship. Obviously now I do and he's made it evident he's still very interested in me and yes, I've told him about my fiance and everything else. He has the dream job, the dream car, he makes a lot of money, he's very intelligent and boasts about all the places he's been and wants to take me to. The only thing that doesn't seem right is the fact that he isn't and hasn't been in a relationship as long as I've known him or at least not one he's come clean about. He's told me of a fling and that's it and said he didn't feel about her like he did about me and that he didn't want to lead her on. If he has such a perfect life then why doesn't he have super models flocking all over him and why is he interested in me? He's sent me flowers, chocolates and a teddy bear before and wrote my name on his lamborghini in snow one winter and sent me photos...
He seems to be everything I'm actually looking for and because he's much older (in his 30's) than my current fiance he's also much more mature. The temptation to see him is weighing on me and I feel like if I miss the chance to know how we would be together I'll regret it and wonder about it forever. I want to at least meet him and I've already discussed bringing a friend with me if I did to ensure my safety and he was fine with that. However I don't want to throw away my current relationship either as I said before I love my fiance but I don't want to waste my life with him either when I could have been looking at my soulmate this entire time and never even took the chance...
A life spent with him (even if not permanent) seems much more beneficial than a life spent trying to make something of myself in my current relationship but how do I even go about finding out how real this guy is without the potential of getting myself killed or something and how do I know if my current relationship is worth sticking around for?
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You're not happy in your current relationship. That's just the bottom line. You may love him, but it doesn't mean he's the right guy for you.
There are some things that can be fixed, like talking things out with him. Then again, he might not listen to you. Then there are things that probably won't change.
Like the way he takes care of himself, or should I say the way he doesn't take care of himself and the fact that he doesn't care for your friends or family very much.
Maybe you can handle all that stuff right now.
But you're engaged to be married to this guy. Can you live with cleaning up after him, living with a guy who doesn't shower or brush his teeth?
He may have some positive qualities to him, but it seems like the negative outweighs the positive.
But don't break up with him just to go running to this other guy.
I mean this other guy is twice your age and is interested in a 20 year old. That's not normal, well maybe just for a hook up or something. Plus, he hasn't had a serious relationship and he's 30?
Obviously there are red flags. If you do meet him, be safe about it and don't ignore any of the red flags.
It doesn't sound like your current relationship is worth sticking around for. Just ask yourself if you can handle all he is for the rest of your life?
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