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why is my ex being so hurtfull
so my bf broke up with me nd at first we did keep talking but i also kept talking to one of his friends and then me and my now ex stoped talking for a few days and i got a text from his friends phone asking me out and i said no at 1st cuz i thought they had both planned this but he kept finding ways to keep me thinking then i get a txt from my exs phone saying that his friend was my 1st kiss and that my 1st kiss was a dare so i told him to shut up and he kept saying that but then out of nowhere he tells me it was him who was txting me from his friends phone so i called him names and stuff but then he tells me that my friend also his ex was a better gf than me and that he always wanted to kiss her but hardly ever wanted to kiss me and said he was going to tell his friend a really deep secret i told him he also said many other hurtfull thing and i dont know what i did to disreve this nd im 13
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Ouch! He's acting immature
Im sorry you were treated this way and you were hurt!
Sweetie,if this is is hurting you,reach out to your friends,especially those who arent friends with your ex and lean and cry.
I know its hard,but crying heals the soul and the heart! All the best!
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He's immature. Like Dragonflymagic said, girls mature faster than boys. That's why most people say to wait to date till you're older because middle school aged boys will do this kind of stuff often.
He's doing all this because he thinks it's funny and wants to get a reaction out of you.
So delete his number and block him and his friends.
You don't deserve any of this, you deserve so much better. Kick these guys out of your life.
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As I read your story, my first thought was that this sounded like middle school maturity level and then I finally got to the end to see that this is true. The guy you're talking about is immature for saying what he does and playing games like using his friends phone to trick you into accepting a date with another guy. Whether true or not, just saying he did so is enough to show his true character. He is not honest, is playing mental games with you, and inconsiderate for what he was saying.
But as I was hinting, pretty much at this age range, that comes with the territory. Girl mature mentally sometimes sooner than guys which makes it hard to find a nice guy to date but they are out there. Just ignore what he says and does. You know what the truth is. No one can convince you that you are anything other than who you are, or did whatever you're accused of, unless you are willing to believe them. There is no reason to hang out or give any of your time to people like him and his friend if the friend knowingly loaned him the phone and was in on the plan to call you and try to fool you. Best thing you can do to get this to stop and get them to leave you alone so you're free to move on and find other friends, is to stop responding, reacting to anything they say or do. If you call names back, get angry, then you are giving them the reaction they seek cus its all a game to them. If there is no reward for them of getting an emotional response from you...then they won't be having fun so after a few trys they'll eventually stop.
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