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can I still get pregnant if my cherry isn't popped?
My boyfriend had sex with me yesterday and it was my first time doing it he didnt pop my"cherry" and today I feel sick and my stomach was bouncing, what does it mean? And can I still get pregnant if my "cherry" isn't popped?
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Well felling sick and as if you have a 'bouncing stomach' today is not an indication of pregnancy - you have no symptoms of pregnancy the day after conception. However if you had unprotected sex you may be pregnant - simple as that! Forget this 'cherry not popped' nonsense. Had sex + no contraception = possible pregnancy. If you don't want a baby always make sure you practice safe sex. You are still within the time for the emergency contraceptive pill so you should seek immediate assistance to get this. In any even seek medical advice and help with this and also future contraception. Take care and happy baby free sex.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams, live the life you imagined,
Ashok
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If you have sex, you always have the chance of getting pregnant.
There is no "popping your cherry".
When people talk about that, they're talking about your hymen. Sometimes women bleed during their first time but a lot of women don't if the guy is careful. Your hymen is supposed to stretch, not tear, break or bleed.
So yes you can still get pregnant.
Make sure you're using condoms and that you're on birth control.
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This "cherry" that you speak of is a bunch of nonsense. There isn't something in you that "pops". You may bleed your first time if your partner isn't cautious because of stretching and tearing, but nothing in that area "pops" open. Your vagina is already open. There is no such thing as a "cherry". If your boyfriend's penis entered your vagina, you have a chance of becoming pregnant.
Sometimes, people are referring to the hymen when they are talking about a cherry. The hymen is a completely different thing though. Some very young girls have a membrane covering most of their vaginal opening. If you've had your period before and blood has come out, your hymen is not completely covering your vaginal opening, which means that your vagina is open and you can become pregnant from sexual contact. The hymen can be torn open a bit larger when you are a child as a result of normal human activities such as running, biking, and horseback riding. Your hymen doesn't pop when you have sex for the first time. If you are healthy and have had your period before, your hymen already has an opening in it, so there is nothing blocking sperm from traveling into your body.
It was very foolish of you to have sex without protection and I'm sure that you know that. Do not allow anyone to convince you to do something unsafe ever again and never just "go with the flow" because you don't want to ruin the mood or hurt someone's feelings. Even if you're a shy or quiet person, you must speak up when it comes to things like this because it's your body and your life that are most at risk. The next time you have a question as important as this, find out the answer before participating in a risky behavior.
Feeling sick and your stomach "bouncing" are probably just a result of you being nervous and over thinking things. We become more aware of ourselves when we think about it. For example, whenever you start to think about breathing, you become very aware of it when just a second ago, it was happening automatically without a conscious thought from you. These things are not related to your sexual encounter.
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Your cherry is called a hymen and for many females, the hymen never tears and there is no popping like with a balloon. I have a video for you to watch in which the gal uses a prop to describe what the hymen is and can look like.
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Hope you watched that. So it stretches, and there's always enough opening for your monthly periods to flow out or for you to insert a tampon or a dildo and of course, room to accomodate a penis.
I hope you are Wanting to get pregnant cus if there was no condom used and if you are not on the pill or some other birth so control, you can possibly become pregnant.
However, a person doesnt become pregnant overnight. It takes the sperm time to travel to the egg if one has even been released. If no eggs, you can't become pregnant. Then the fertilized egg needs to travel to the uterus to imbed itself in the lining and once it does, you are pregnant. So if you dont want to become pregnant and had unprotected sex, you need to use Plan B, the morning after pill which is effective for several days after sex but more effective the sooner used just in case. No, you can't know if you will become pregnant this time or not if you dont want that to happen the plan B must be used as a precaution.
I think either its a coincidence that you are just becoming ill with a bug or virus if you feel sick, or your mind is so worried about becoming pregnant that your subconscious mind is bringing into reality some symptoms that you believe in limited knowledge of sex, reproduction etc... to be signs of pregnancy. You do not have any pregnancy signs until the egg attaches so its too soon for true pregnancy symptoms.
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