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Stuck between two guys? Maybe??
So I haven't heard from my bf in a little less than 2 months. It's kinds depressing cause I could call him anytime. We used to talk everyday! I don't even no why he won't answer the phone!!! I've been talking to Z (let's call him that for privacy) a lot more that usual. He's one of my best friends and I've gotten to know him more and more. But here's the problem...I THINK I MIGHT BE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM!! Which scares my bc I love my bf. if he would answer his phone and talk to me again, than I could snap out of it. Oh and Z has a gf. Which makes it a million times worse!!! Help me. Please!! Ps I'm 15 and a girl. My bf is 15. Z is 16
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If your boyfriend hasn't talked to you in a little less than 2 months that is a sign right there. I really hate to break the bad news, but he isn't being a good boyfriend to ignore you. You really should figure out what the deal between you two is before you conquer your feelings for Z. Right now for me, I think I'm falling in love with my best friends brother who also likes me but my best friend won't let me date him..I also have a boyfriend who doesn't pay that much attention to me. I can tell you right now, it sucks. Do you know the situation between Z and his girlfriend? If they're madly in love try to work things out with your boyfriend so you can have a happy ending and Z can too- which is a good situation since you obviously care about him. If he and his girlfriend are having problems though, swoop in and be his hero- try comforting him and bond over your upsetting relationships. If you really love your boyfriend then you need to tell him how you feel..he may think you're totally fine with being distant from each other. This is going to sound creepy..but do you know where he lives? If you live close by and you've been to his house before you should try going up to his door! It's perfectly acceptable since he's been ignoring you. You deserve a right to know what's going on! Chat me sometime and tell me how everything works out! I wish you the best!! :)
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To be honest, you might like your boyfriend and have feelings for him but you probably don't love him.
Only because you wouldn't fall so easily for someone else when he's not around.
I wouldn't go after your friend, at least not right now. Only because you do still have a boyfriend. And he has a girlfriend.
I think for the mean time, you should not talk to him as much. Just so you can get a clear head and make the right decision.
I don't know whatever is going on with your boyfriend. I don't know if he's just ignoring you or if something serious happened and that's why he can't get a hold of you.
I think you should visit his home and see what's going on since he's not answering his phone.
I'd give yourself some space to move on from your friend "Z" because he does have a girlfriend you obviously need to respect that and no get in between a relationship.
If they break up, and you're single, go for it.
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Hi, first off I would say: try contacting your boyfriend again. If he doesn't answer, keep trying for a week and if after that you still haven't had any contact with him, really think about what you're going to do. As I always say, if you fall for a 2nd guy, you weren't really in love with the 1st, BUT if your bf is just away for a while, what you are feeling for Z is not love, but rather deep infatuation - Which is just a longing for a new bf while your actual bf is not around. If you choose Z, and your bf comes back around what are you going to do? To be completely honest, if he hasn't contacted you for that long he may be super busy or he has found another girl, it happened to me. What I would do is try to see what's keeping your bf so busy... and if he doesn't get back to you soon, I'd just talk to Z. See how he feels about you and his gf and see who he'd rather be with. The last thing you want to do is break up a relationship that is going good; you don't want to lose Z as a friend. Maybe you and Z are just meant to be friends anyhow. Fix the relationship you're in or find a guy who's not already taken. Inbox me if you'd like.
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