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Q: what are the best most effective yet relatively subtly ways to flirt?? i kno to be myself and stuff but i want to get even better at flirting and expand my style/ways of flirting. ;) thanks!!
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-play with your hair
-make eye contact
-compliment him
-any excuse to touch him (arm,hair,etc)
-smile and laughing alot
-a flirty text message
-say something flirtatious in his ear
if you need anymore just let me know :)
♥ danielle
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Q: ok so dont mean to sound stupid and all but when you making out where do you move your tongue and in what direction? haha like circular or wherever haha just wondering, thanks!
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Honestly,there's really no "right" way to use your tongue.I know alot of people say this,but it really does just come natually when you do it.Don't think just do ;) lol
♥ danielle
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Q: what are things you can/cannot bring on an airplane?
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this website tell's you what you can and can't bring:
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm
♥ danielle
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Q: i have one of those back massagers. and since i cant get one of those vibrating toys from spencers i just use that. im almost 14 and i've been using the back massager ever since i was about 11 yrs old like every day. well my question is does it hurt u if u been using a vibrater for that long and still more years to come???
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It shouldn't hurt you in the long run.So you should be fine if you keep using it.Just don't put it on the highest level cause thats would hurt lol
♥ danielle
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Q: well i like my best friend and i dont know what to do. i only like him a little but the thing is i really want him to like me. but i dont know if he even sees me as a possibility. what should i do? and how do i flirt with him but not make things weird because i dont want to make things weird between us and what if he doesnt like me? please help!! and what signs would give off if he was interested in me or at least saw me as a possibility? i will take all the advice i can get or any of these questions!! please help!!!!! :)
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The best thing to do is too just ask him :),just say (since i dont know his name i'll call him best friend lol) best friend we've been friends for awhile now and i feel like i can tell you anything,do you feel like we could take our relationship to the next level? you don't have to say it directly like that though you can put it in your own words.
Ways to tell if a guy likes you:
look at you alot
Try to impress you
Touches your arm,hair,or hugs you any excuse to touch you really
shows interest in things you say
how he treats you
smile
he's nervous
his friends might tease him about you when your around
tries to copy you
calls you all the time
you catch him looking at you all the time
hope everything works out for you :)
♥ danielle
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Q: Well, to start I'm a guy, 17 years old, and just got out of a year and 2 month long relationship two months ago. Well about a month ago one of my best friends and I decided to hang out at the lake after dark. We were just talking (she had just gotten out of a very similar relationship) and we were just there for each other. Well we went back to her car and were still talking when she started saying she was un comfortable. So I offered to cuddle, and we did. Well on the way home we were holding hands, and asking each other why we hadn't seen/felt this before. Then in my driveway we kissed, and she kissed my neck to just mess w/ me. It felt right in all honesty. Well we texted til 3 in the morning, and resumed the net day. We decided to hang out again same place same time. Well she bought me a bear whom she affectionately named olie. Anyways that night, More talking, huging, and alot of kissing. We were both sexualy charged, but she had to be home so nothing happened there. We texted for a little bit and then she said that she was still in love with her ex. Next day they were together again, and still are to this day. Unfortunately the damage was done, and she grew on me. Well it was her grad party on the 4th of july, and I went knowing that her man would be there. But he wasn't because I was there, and he din't wanna be in the same room as another guy who liked her. The whole time she was giving me looks with wide eyes and i could tell something was running through her head. Well at the end of the night she hugged me tight, and told me she was sorry, and all i could say is that she desered better than a guy who wouldn't show up at her grad party. I was frowning and shaking my head (which she interpreted as me being pissy at her, when it was actualy to her man not being there on her day when i was). So now i'm lost, i don't really know what to do, or say. Thank you in advance
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Hmm...my friend was in a similar situation actually about 2 weeks ago.She was with a guy for 1 year and some months and broke up,and the same sistuation happened with the guy she was interested in.They were friends while they were both in relationships and ended up hanging out and were just getting with each other yet my friend was still talking to her ex because she still loved him.Long story short,she ended up getting back with her boyfriend after breaking up with him about a week ago.I would say move on,she might have been like that with you because you were there to comfort her when she needed you.If she's still in love with him there's nothing you can do about it.You don't want a girl messing with your emotions like that.There's plenty of other fish in the sea :D
♥ danielle
i know women never know what they want lol you sound like a decent guy,it's her loss ;)
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Q: okay i need help . Im 13 years old and im a girl.
my mom has been drinking alot latley....
and its been makeing me angry because she
acts stupid and like an asswhole when she
does drink ... and she says stupid things
and i so i get mad and then she dosent remember
the next morning and she dosent talk to the family so i cant ethier. and i really dont know
how to deal with her when she is drunk ....
please help im so scared i was crying .
its affected my whole life and my dad
died from it so just please give me adivce on
what to do ....
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you poor girl,im so sorry to hear about your fathers loss.It's awful too see your mother going through the same thing.I found a site that has a ton of children who have alcoholic parents talk about their experiences and help out one another.http://www.coap.co.uk/.I also found a website with information about this subject with many questions you might have http://www.camh.net/About_Addiction_Mental_Health/Drug_and_Addiction_Information/when_parent_drinks.html.In that website there is a phone number if you need to talk to someone or feel liek you have no one to turn too 1-800-668-6868 that's the number right there.Hang in there girl,don't feel like your alone you have a ton of people who love and care about you :D
♥ danielle
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Q: for the people who live in the north east, in new york. What is with the rain EVERY single day for the past month? im getting sick of this, what is going on with our weather?
this is really making me upset because i hate thunderstorms, and im always home alone during the week days from 645 am to about 7 in the evening or a little earlier, it depends. but what really upsets me is that i cant enjoy my summer outdoors tanning, i have to stay inside and watch TV. And i cant even go for a walk because i know at any second with this stupid retarded weather it can pour any second.
what the hell is going on!?
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I don't live in New York but i live in Pennsylvania and the weather has been pretty sucky lately as well,it's been raining practically everyday in the last week.I thing the cause of this is that there's a major hurricane called Bertha is coming up the coast which gives us alot of rain.Try looking at your weather stations forcast on the tv or the internet and see when it's going to clear up :)
♥ danielle
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Q: my girlfriend has recently been spending alot more time with someone who is a friend both of us.she spends the night every saturday night and alot of the week with her.it wouldn't be a problem accept that she used to be lesbian and might be bisexual.she has made jokes about having sex with this friend but saw it upset me so she got really upset and started crying when i said something.we are both very intimate and to this day kiss,makeout,touch,etc. in front of this friend.she notices thigs like her underwear are showing,and if her breasts are unalighned.it really worries me,and i honestly have no idea what to think anymore.
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I would just ask your girlfriend if anything is going on between her and her friend.And if she gets mad tell her that you've noticed things like with her spending so much time with the friend.Honestly,she should'nt get mad at you if you ask what's up,but if she does get mad it could be a key sign that she might be cheating on you.But whatever you do DO NOT SNOOP! the easiest way to go is to just talk to her.Good luck :)
♥ danielle
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Q: He is always busy and takes me for granted?
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Talk to him.Tell him that you feel like he dosen't respect you enough,and that you wish you too spend some more time together.Talking about things bother you will only make your relationship stronger ;)
♥ danielle
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Q: i have a friend that is belimuc and aneriox, i dont kno wat to do so i am asking for help...
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You should'nt keep thsi ti yourself,even if your friend told you to not tell anyone if she keeps doing what she's doing she could end up in the hospital or even worse.I would tell your friends mother about it.If your friend is too scared to tell her mom alone,tell her you'll sit with her,and her mom if she needs you for support.Your friend might be mad at first,but she'll realize that your actually saving her life.
♥ danielle
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Q: so my bestfriend is Bi, i don't know how to act around her anymore.. write back
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I was in a similar situation,i was weird around my friend when she told me something about herself because it was something that i did'nt believe in.But i got over it and moved on.See,it probably took your friend alot of courage to tell you and she did'nt want you to think any less of her.If she did'nt tell you she was bi,you'd still see her as your best friend right? So just act how you normally were with her before she told you because she's still the same person you like being around.Just tell her you love her and your always gonna be there for her when she needs you.
♥ danielle
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Q: There are voices inside my head. What can i do?
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i read an article about it,i was pretty surprised that it's actually pretty common for people to hear voices inside their head so i don't think it's anything to be worried about.
http://news.softpedia.com/news/Is-it-Normal-to-Hear-Voices-in-Your-Head-35953.shtml
if you need more information,i'd be happy to give it to you :)
♥ danielle
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Q: I want to get the menstral period chat
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hmm...how the menstrual cycle works i think is your question..so ill give you a link that explains all you need to know about it.
http://www.babycenter.ca/preconception/menstrualcycle/
http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/menstru.htm
if you need anymore information about it try asking your mother or sister,but i think your pretty much covered :)
♥ danielle
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Q: im 17 and a male and im a junior in high school, im actually really good looking but i rarely open my heart to girls, a few weeks a go i started going out with a freshmen, it just kinda happened but once it did i REALLY liked her and she supposedly liked me a lot too, i never had a girlfriend before, she was my first one and we gave hugs and walked around school and gave a few kisses here and there, i was starting to move a little deeper and once we were going out for a month i was going to hang out with her and tell her how much i really "loved" her, i already told her how much i liked her and stuff. one day we were talking on phone and randomly she says " i need to talk to you" so im like ok what and shes like " i dont really want a boyfriend right now" and she told me how she didnt want me to be mad and she still wanted to be friends...and i dont understand why she didnt want a boyfriend cause i was perfect for her, her friends liked me and her mom liked me and i didnt do anything wrong i always asked her to go places with me and we had a lot of fun together and i didnt drag her away from her friends i always told her to do what she wanted with them and that she didnt have to be with me all the time unless she wanted to..and then she just ended it and i dont know why, i think there is more to it then "i dont really want a boyfriend right now" but im not sure and it really hurts me cause i thought she really liked me and thats what everyone told me. and im just sad :( does anyone have any ideas why she did this to me?
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You should ask her what happened.Tell her she did'nt really explain herself as to why she wanted to break up with you.Maybe she dosen't want anything to serious right now.Since it's also the summertime,she might just want to have fun and not have anything serious.But it could be another reason that you or i don't know about.The best bet would be to just ask her.Tell me how everything works out for you :)
♥ danielle
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Q: I've been thinking about getting a pet — something extremely low maintenance. Already dead would be ideal. Where should I look?
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hmm i think either a fish,bird,or cat for you would be ideal.For fish,all you have to do is clean the fish tank when it gets dirty,and give it like 2 or 3 flakes of fish food a day and that's it.For a bird,you would have to clean it's cage when it gets really dirty,and just put in a few toys or treats in it's cage to keep it preoccupied,and of course feed it also.As for a cat,their really dependent on themselves they clean themselves,their pretty lazy animals.All they would need you to do is have a litterbox for them to go to the bathroom in and just feed them.If those animals seemed like too much of a hassle for you,i heard pet rocks were pretty easy to take care of ;) lol
♥ danielle
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Q: my boyfriend and i were not sure about goin out however we got into a relationship that i thought he was happy with he dumped me last night and im trying not to be upset but im gonna see him at school all the time this will make it harder for me what shall i do
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First i want to say im sorry about the break up.Breaking up is not fun,no one should go through it but unfortunately we all go through it.I was just in a recent break up myself.Try doing things to get your mind off of the break up like take up a hobby that you've always wants to do,cooking,hanging out with your friends,seeing a funny movie,taking a road trip,or working.Just don't sit in the house thinking about him and cry.Guys aren't worth crying over trust me.Since it's the summertime now who knows? you could meet a great guy when you least expect it :)
♥ danielle
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Q: i just got bright red highlights in my hair and i dont like it at all. would it be okay to dye over it with like a dark brown?
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You should read the box the dye comes in to see if it says anything on dying it with highlights in your hair.I would say it's fine since the high lights are a red color and not a blonde color because blonde highlights can sometimes ruin hair if their dyed over.I would maybe suggest going to get your hair professionally done at a hair salon to see what the hairdresser thinks you should do.
♥ danielle
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Q: So i went out with this boy who was a good friend befor we went out for like 2 years. i broke up with him because everyone was on my back about how we never kissed or went on dates. this had of been the biggest mistake of my life! a few months ago i asked if i could have a second chance that i had make a huge mistake and he said no. we are closer friends then ever now but i want more then that. and two weeks after i asked him out again he went out with another girl 2 years older then him and never told me they were going out! what should i do? ireally want him back.
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aww i hate when that happens :(
The ball is in the guys court now.If he wants to be with you again,he'll come back to you.The thing is if he wants you back you don't know when that time will come so you dont want to wait forever.But since he's with another girl maybe he wants to move on and you have to except that.There's alot of fish in the sea so dont stress over this one guy,there will be many more trust me ;)
♥ danielle
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Q: Since it's summer and losing weight is pretty high on my priority list before I start college, I'm going to start running more often. Problem is, I never have any motivation. Sure, when I went out and bought new tennis shoes to run it, that was motivating. But most of the time, songs get me pumped up too. So, I need some help here! Anything that really gets you in a kick-a mood, like Fort Minor's "Remember the Name", Sean Paul's "We Be Burnin'", and Jay-Z's "99 Problems". It can be mostly anything except like, metal or trashy rap songs that talk about nasty stuff :P
Please and thanks!
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"hey ya" by outkast
"since you been gone" kelly clarkson
"fight for your right" beastie boys
"love shack" B52's
"feel good inc" Gorillaz
"one more time" Daftfunk
"Numb" Linkin Park
"Le disko" Shiney Toy Guns
"Hung up" Madonna
"Jerk it out" The Casears
"Loose Control" Missy Elliot
"I like to move it" Reel To Real
"Everything Is Alright" Motion City Soundtrack
"Spice up your life" Spice Girls
"Pump up the jam" Technotronic
"Lose Yourself" Eminem
"Lala" Ashlee Simpson
"Here it goes again" OK GO
"Are you gonna be my girl" The Jets
"Chinese Chicken" Barenaked ladies
"Gettin jiggy with it" Will Smith
"Fergalicious" Fergie
"Switch" Will Smith
And pretty much anything by Blink182 i love them :)
♥ danielle
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Byes guys im done on advicenators it was a good 6 year run :)
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Gender: Female Member Since: September 27, 2005 Answers: 795 Last Update: August 7, 2009 Visitors: 62412
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