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i don't know if my possibly bisexual girlfriend is cheating one me.
my girlfriend has recently been spending alot more time with someone who is a friend both of us.she spends the night every saturday night and alot of the week with her.it wouldn't be a problem accept that she used to be lesbian and might be bisexual.she has made jokes about having sex with this friend but saw it upset me so she got really upset and started crying when i said something.we are both very intimate and to this day kiss,makeout,touch,etc. in front of this friend.she notices thigs like her underwear are showing,and if her breasts are unalighned.it really worries me,and i honestly have no idea what to think anymore.
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besides worrying yourself to death, I think the best thing for you to do would be to ask her. The most important thing in a relationship is honesty, and trust, and if you don't have that then it isn't worth moving on. Talk to her about it, and just see what she says.
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If you have a healthy, honest relationship with this girl...then I don't think you really have anything to worry about.
If there was something going on, then she would probably tell you.
And also, if she WAS cheating on you...that would take two people to do it. Is her friend a lesbian/bisexual? And you said that her friend is also friends with you. If she was truly your friend then she wouldn't do anything with your girlfriend just because she's with you.
And about her noticing things about her friends appearance...most girls do that, bisexual or not. Guys may notice and not say anything, but girls do just because the person their saying it to would want to know, and I'm sure they'd rather hear it from a friend than have some little kid behind them going "I see london, I see france...", haha. I don't think it's something to worry about.
My advice is just wait it out and see what happens. If you're really worried about how much time their spending together, then try to make plans with your girlfriend when you think she might otherwise be hanging out with her friend. And be really sweet and caring and subtly remind her how lucky she is to have you. I wouldn't go so far as to tell her to not hang out with her friend as much, though. Because if it's simply that her and her friend are getting closer (as friends, I mean) then it's a good thing for your girlfriend and you don't want to mess that up for her.
Good luck in whatever you decide, and if you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask.
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I would just ask your girlfriend if anything is going on between her and her friend.And if she gets mad tell her that you've noticed things like with her spending so much time with the friend.Honestly,she should'nt get mad at you if you ask what's up,but if she does get mad it could be a key sign that she might be cheating on you.But whatever you do DO NOT SNOOP! the easiest way to go is to just talk to her.Good luck :)
♥ danielle
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