well i like my best friend and i dont know what to do. i only like him a little but the thing is i really want him to like me. but i dont know if he even sees me as a possibility. what should i do? and how do i flirt with him but not make things weird because i dont want to make things weird between us and what if he doesnt like me? please help!! and what signs would give off if he was interested in me or at least saw me as a possibility? i will take all the advice i can get or any of these questions!! please help!!!!! :)
These are ALWAYS sticky situations to be in – never any fun.
I think the best plan would be to try and get onto the subject. Personally, I’d rather someone is upfront about it, but I know that it is an extremely hard thing to do, so let’s be realistic here. Get on to the conversation about whom each of you “like”. Then try and talk about the possibility of you liking each other. If you sense a negative vibe from it all, then it is probably a no. Use your discretion. If you are sensing a mutual feeling, then you are just going to have to take the plunge and put yourself out there to get things moving. The worst feeling is that of wondering and waiting – don’t get caught up with beating around the bush! Just remember that once you commit to a relationship with a friend, it is often hard to get back that same friendship once your relationship has diminished.
Good luck darl! =]
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jealousyxo answered Monday July 7 2008, 11:54 pm: The best thing to do is too just ask him :),just say (since i dont know his name i'll call him best friend lol) best friend we've been friends for awhile now and i feel like i can tell you anything,do you feel like we could take our relationship to the next level? you don't have to say it directly like that though you can put it in your own words.
Ways to tell if a guy likes you:
look at you alot
Try to impress you
Touches your arm,hair,or hugs you any excuse to touch you really
shows interest in things you say
how he treats you
smile
he's nervous
his friends might tease him about you when your around
tries to copy you
calls you all the time
you catch him looking at you all the time
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