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Hold it in, or take a chance? Confused with my emotions
Well, to start I'm a guy, 17 years old, and just got out of a year and 2 month long relationship two months ago. Well about a month ago one of my best friends and I decided to hang out at the lake after dark. We were just talking (she had just gotten out of a very similar relationship) and we were just there for each other. Well we went back to her car and were still talking when she started saying she was un comfortable. So I offered to cuddle, and we did. Well on the way home we were holding hands, and asking each other why we hadn't seen/felt this before. Then in my driveway we kissed, and she kissed my neck to just mess w/ me. It felt right in all honesty. Well we texted til 3 in the morning, and resumed the net day. We decided to hang out again same place same time. Well she bought me a bear whom she affectionately named olie. Anyways that night, More talking, huging, and alot of kissing. We were both sexualy charged, but she had to be home so nothing happened there. We texted for a little bit and then she said that she was still in love with her ex. Next day they were together again, and still are to this day. Unfortunately the damage was done, and she grew on me. Well it was her grad party on the 4th of july, and I went knowing that her man would be there. But he wasn't because I was there, and he din't wanna be in the same room as another guy who liked her. The whole time she was giving me looks with wide eyes and i could tell something was running through her head. Well at the end of the night she hugged me tight, and told me she was sorry, and all i could say is that she desered better than a guy who wouldn't show up at her grad party. I was frowning and shaking my head (which she interpreted as me being pissy at her, when it was actualy to her man not being there on her day when i was). So now i'm lost, i don't really know what to do, or say. Thank you in advance
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Hello,
It sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants. She wants her boyfriend back, but she also wants you to be there in case she can't work things out with her boyfriend. That's not fair to you, even if she's doing it unintentionally.
As hard as it seems, I would try to move on. Even though she may not feel like her boyfriend is good enough for her now, tomorrow she might be back in love with him and leave you behind. You don't want to be stuck in a situation like that, it's not worth it.
Good luck.
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Hmm...my friend was in a similar situation actually about 2 weeks ago.She was with a guy for 1 year and some months and broke up,and the same sistuation happened with the guy she was interested in.They were friends while they were both in relationships and ended up hanging out and were just getting with each other yet my friend was still talking to her ex because she still loved him.Long story short,she ended up getting back with her boyfriend after breaking up with him about a week ago.I would say move on,she might have been like that with you because you were there to comfort her when she needed you.If she's still in love with him there's nothing you can do about it.You don't want a girl messing with your emotions like that.There's plenty of other fish in the sea :D
♥ danielle
i know women never know what they want lol you sound like a decent guy,it's her loss ;)
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