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Why did my girlfriend Break up with me?
im 17 and a male and im a junior in high school, im actually really good looking but i rarely open my heart to girls, a few weeks a go i started going out with a freshmen, it just kinda happened but once it did i REALLY liked her and she supposedly liked me a lot too, i never had a girlfriend before, she was my first one and we gave hugs and walked around school and gave a few kisses here and there, i was starting to move a little deeper and once we were going out for a month i was going to hang out with her and tell her how much i really "loved" her, i already told her how much i liked her and stuff. one day we were talking on phone and randomly she says " i need to talk to you" so im like ok what and shes like " i dont really want a boyfriend right now" and she told me how she didnt want me to be mad and she still wanted to be friends...and i dont understand why she didnt want a boyfriend cause i was perfect for her, her friends liked me and her mom liked me and i didnt do anything wrong i always asked her to go places with me and we had a lot of fun together and i didnt drag her away from her friends i always told her to do what she wanted with them and that she didnt have to be with me all the time unless she wanted to..and then she just ended it and i dont know why, i think there is more to it then "i dont really want a boyfriend right now" but im not sure and it really hurts me cause i thought she really liked me and thats what everyone told me. and im just sad :( does anyone have any ideas why she did this to me?
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We're not her, so we can't tell you the exact reason why she broke up with you, but I can spitball some ideas?
- She likes somebody else.
- She's too busy for a boyfriend.
- She felt like the 2 of you got too serious.
- She honestly, just doesn't want a boyfriend.
But don't worry, you have your entire life ahead of you for relationships. They really aren't even all that great 80 percent of the time. And the first break up is always the hardest, but don't worry, it'll get better with time.
-Laura. (16-f)
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she might have just said that because she is covering up a different reason and did not want to hurt you to much. or maybe she is going through a hard time with her family. Dont get me wrong, the way you discribe yourself the reason is moslt likely not you. dont be hard on yourself. maybe in a month she will come around and ask you out again.
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You should ask her what happened.Tell her she did'nt really explain herself as to why she wanted to break up with you.Maybe she dosen't want anything to serious right now.Since it's also the summertime,she might just want to have fun and not have anything serious.But it could be another reason that you or i don't know about.The best bet would be to just ask her.Tell me how everything works out for you :)
♥ danielle
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