about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

Hi, MFS here again...

This is not really a question, but a request...

Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.

I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!

Let's give it a rest.

Yeah, I agree. It's great if you rate people...but you don't need to announce it. It's showing up everywhere and pretty soon all questions will be saying " I rate." Thanks for bringing that up! -Mandee

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Anyone alive????

Yeah I'm alive!!! Love ya! -Mandee

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hey can u plz give me good advice givers? i saw sum but cnau give me more and plz dont only name ur self

I really like Selectopaque's advice. She is so honest! I looked at her column before, she is very impressive. She is really honest and tells it to your straight out! =) Love you! -Mandee

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hey man, i just decided to make a new column because i think that people think im an adult or something because of my username, its just a joke. im 15 and i dont want to make a new column, is it possible to change your user name or do i have no choice

Well if I remember correctly I heard soem news on this site about it being an option to change your username. A lot of people posted it on the moderator discussion but I don't think they did anything about it. As for now, it looks like you will just have to stick to the username you signed up with, but maybe later in time you'll be able to change your username. Hope this helps, because this all I know of for right now. Love you! -Mandee

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my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that.

Either way you need to tell her, or else you'll be upset about it a lot. Do this for yourself. Starting off by saying " I know you like my exboyfriend, but you know how sometimes..you still miss your relationships from awhile ago? I still do. I really still miss him and I like him. Maybe if you just stepped back a little, I understand you want him but I am still trying to recover from the break up, I may need some more time to get used to this." If you friend is a sweetheart she will understand and do as you ask. Because if she's been broken up with a guy before she will probably understand where yuo're comming from. But yeah it is a good idea to tell her this. You just don't want to spend years and years faking your happy about something when you aren't. Speak up and let her know how you feel about it! Good luck sweetie! Love you! -Mandee

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my mom and dad are getting a divorce...well its my cousins bday and she likes my toher cousins more (thats my age) so she chose her to sing at the wedding and made me not even be part of it i was really hurt..my mom got defensive..and like now my whole family hates her for divorving my dad and for bitching about it..and i feel like most of its my fault..i just feel like everything always is cuz my cousin thats gonna be in the wedding is perfect..and ive just always been a bad name to the family..i feel so guilty..i just need some advice..

First of all I am so sorry about the divorce!! And babe, no no no this is not your fault at all!!!! What makes you feel like you've been a bad name to the family? Hunnie, I am sure your family loves you! Even if they don't show it all of the time, but they do. You shouldn't feel guilty. No one is perfect, trust me your cousin is not perfect, maybe your mom is more connected with her than you. And that hurts. You need to calmly talk to your mom about the wedding again. She can either be there for you and try to be supportive and understanding or she will just blow you off. If she does, she is obviously having some issues right now...maybe you guys aren't that close and that is why she is so distant from your feelings. Whatever it may be you want to at least try to be there for her, and maybe she'll be there for you. Best of luck to you hun! Love you! -Mandee

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i need to know where to get cute shade colors 4 away messages! like i get the link codes but idk what todo with them! some1 plz help me and i will rate 5 4 helpin me! THX SO MUCH!

Well...I don't know codes..but I do know a font program you could try. It provides a ton of new colors - a lot!! And best of all it's free. It's called Applesauce..just go to Google.com and type in Applesauce aim font program. And that should give you links. There is another program I know, and I use it all of the time. AIMutation ( www.aimutation.com) It is an awesome aim program that has so many new and interesting features and so many different colors. It's difficult to download. So if you need the help I'm here..only for an hour though because I have to do a preformance. But anyway just ask me on my column if you'd like and I will get backt o you if this is something you are interested in. It's free too. One of the best things of AIM anyone can get haha. Anyways just let me know! Bye bye! Love you! -Mandee

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Hi um i have always had alot of friends and really great ones too but this past school year i have entered the 7th grade and i am going into the 8th and i feel lyk my friends do not lyk to do stuff with me! They have meet some new friends but i have too but not as great as them and i feel really bad when i hear about them going places when i was not invited!!
What is wrong with me and what should i do to fix this problem?

The most common thing about highschool is that, yes, a lot of times tension with all your friends will occur. You'll find that some friends are worth staying close with while others never were there in the first place. But definitely explain how you feel to your friends...let them know. Maybe they just need space. When you get a lot of new friends you sort of want to know them one on one. But if you're the only one who doesn't get invited you really need to talk to yoru friends about it and ask why. If they start to get mean...maybe they changed social groups. For example..your friends start to change because they are still trying to find out who they are and sometimes they'll ditch you and hang out with other people. So you could take a break from them if that happens and start hanging out with people you really like. That way you won't feel so alone and you woun't feel as left out as before. Good luck!! Love you! -Mandee

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hay ok well i put music on my advice column and it wont play! is it the site im useing or is it im doing it wrong??? plezz help me give me more sites and walk me thru the steps plez ill rate!

No, this isn't your fault or that you are doing anything wrong. The Advicenator_admin has decided to ban all music and I think chatterboxes too. The reason why they did this was because music got annoying on the columns...it was pretty much like everyone had them. Visit Moderator Discussion to see it all. But I don't know, I still disagree with it...all you have to do is turn down the volume if you don't like it. I tried to say something about it because I really loved music and I worked hard on my column, but it was their decision so I resepect that. There's only so much you can do anyway. I tried. lol But if music is ever allowed back I'll let you know how to do it. Just ask me sometime! Sorry I couldn't help you much. lol Love you! -Mandee

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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

You are very right, it is none of their buisness. But it's typical for that to happen because people are judgemental. In fact everyone has a little bit of judgement in them. But yeah, a lot of times it goes way too far. The only thing that matters hun is if you're happy with this change. It's your body and not theirs, so don't keep trying to please people. Be who you want to be. If you know those people well tell them you are not a whore, slut or hoe. You do things with your boyfriend...so what? Many people do, believe me. lol Just make them realize you are not what they think you are. If you don't know them very well then chances are they don't know you well. So right from the start they don't even know who and what you are and they are just spreading rumors trying to bring you down. Don't let them do that to you ever! If you are happy with yourself never be afraid to show it, and don't let people tell you what you are, because only you know what and who you are! Good luck with everything babe! Take care! Love you! -Mandee

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Hey Everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and this summer my mom and I planned a trip to Tennessee. So she said I could invite a friend, so I did. Today we went out with that friend and another one, later at dinner my mom said she was re thinking bringing her with because she was a lil out of control. She said I should take my other friend that was out with us today. I don't want to lie to the one I already invited and take another one instead. I asked if I could take both, my mom said she'll think about it. So should I go to take both? Because I really want both of them to go! I rate. :)

Why not?! Hehe. If you think that both of them there would be more enjoyable for your trip then take them!! It would probably be fun too! When I go away I invite a bunch of friends, and we have the best time! And if taking both of them is what you want, go for it! As for your mom... Maybe a good idea is to talk to your mom about the friend who she claims is out of control. If she is a bit out of control talk to your friend and tell her that you love her but she needs to calm down a bit for your mom. And you can tell you mom if she just gets a chance to know the friend who is out of control better before the trip, she could make her decision that way. Have an awesome trip!! Love you! -Mandee

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Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing

You know what, I would have to disagree on what you said. "Running away from the problem"..now I know that it may seem that way to you, but he could be actually making you think about what you've done. I've been known to think that putting someone in a place where they must decide between something involving a break up is quite harsh and not right. However, sometimes it is necessary if the person is doing it out of concern or trying to help. I may be wrong, but I think this guy loves you if he means what he says "I don't want to risk losing someone I really love". Maybe he cares about you so much and thinks that if you love him yuo would stop cutting to stay with him. He could be doing this to help you. Or it could be the other way around and he could turn out ot be a complete jerk about it. I would talk to him about this one day, just so you have knowledge of what's going on. There may be a chance that what you said scared him...seeing someone you love cut is really scary it might have freaked him out. Just explain to him...everyone has there way to cope with things, and this may be harsh but it is the way you cope. Your way is more intense. You both need to solves things...get everything together and work things out. Really talk to him and give him all the details. I'm not going to lecture you on how to stop cutting becaus eyou did not ask for that. But if I can just say one thing it's that maybe if you at least think about getting help, not only will that help you out with cutting but also improve your relationships. By the way, congrats on the 3 month you have been together with him. Bets of luck to you all!! Love you! -Mandee

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Lately I feel that I am addicted to trust. Almost as if I need someone to trust rather than myself sometimes. Or just need a second or third or fourth opinion possibly fifth!
What do I do in that situation? How do I know who to trust or who is worth my trust. Because honestly not a lot of people are 100% trustworthy Bribery and such goes a long way in the world today. To me that isn’t a good sign!

Well, no one really knows who to trust. Because people are...what they make of themselves and you got to just get to know people well. I agree with you, sometimes you never know who to trust, and that is very true. This may sound weird but people only know who they are. For instance, you could get to know some guy well and you gain trust with that person and then you find out he wasn't what you thought he was and all trust is broken. Part of being in this world is learning new things and when someone you can't trust anymore isn't there at least you have some knowledge of what to expect at later times. This is all part of growing up...you get your heart broken and there are many times when things don't go the right way. It may seem like your life falls apart. But there may be a reason as to why we all go through this. But that's besides the point. All I can really tell you is, you never know what to expect...things can change, people can change. But if you think that there are some people worth your trust..try to trust them anyway, if they are true to you they would stick by your side through everything. I personally think I should open up to people and trust them. If someone I thought I could trust suddenly gives me a reason not to, I learn from that. It's only natural. True, people are not 100% trustworthy but you learn from mistakes you make as well as mistakes other people make. I hope this helped you out. I don't know too much when it comes to trusting people, but I know that I can learn from things like this! Take care!!! Love you! -Mandee

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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help!

Having this kid is totally up to you and what you want to do. You can keep it, put it through abortion if you believe in that, or put it in adoption. Take some time and think about this a lot. Because after all you are the mother of this kid and it's your baby... do what you feel is right. If you think that your friend should know what happened with you and her boyfriend, let her know. Don't just do this for her, do it for yourself. Be honest with her, she deserves the truth. And I'm sure if you didn't know about it..you would want to find out. You probably already know that she will either stay friends with your or she might have a fight about this. But if you are going to tell her you need to be open about it and be honest and let her have a say in it too. Also tell her that you had no idea about it when you had sex with him. If you want to, you can get her boyfriend involved..because he was part of this too. I hope that everything turns out okay for you! And remember this whole thing is up to you! Love ya! -Mandee

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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?

Oh of course not sweetie!! I know people who are my age ( 18 ) and haven't kissed yet. It does not mean that you are a loser. Just do it whenever you are ready and feel like it!! No rush! Hehe. Love you! -Mandee

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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita

Awww...yeah this definitely makes it harder on you. Many people have different views on love..what I believe is that love can happen at any age it's just the matter of what person you are with and that he is the right guy for you. Maybe you agree with that or something like it but your parents don't. Many people who are in love can't help but go out of their way just to see the person. And I think that's what you are doing, even if it means going behind your parents back. It sounds like you love him...but it is probably time to tell your parents. Saying things such as...I know you guys told me I can't have a boyfriend until after I finish school...but I really do believe I am in love. I had a boyfriend for two years and within those two years they have been the best years of my life. I know that you think it's wrong but I think he is the right guy for me..all I am asking is that you approve of him...and that I can see him. It's hard to know that I can't have my parents support of one the best decisions of my life, and I really need your support. Just make sure they are understanding where you are comming from. They know what it's like to be in love. lol Or at least I hope so. If they still won't allow you tell your boyfriend. And you will still have your ways of contacting each other. He will wait for you if he loves you, or you guys could still see each other at times. If you know you are in love don't let anything stop you. Good luck with everything! Love you! -Mandee-

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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????

-X- Caitlin -X-

Trust is such an important thing in a relationship. Hunnie, I'm not going to tell you what to do because only you know what he is like and how much trust you have in him. But I will give you some ideas and maybe you can try them if you wanted to! I have a boyfriend right now and we will be together for three years starting in Sept. but there were times this year when he was traveling because he's in a band, and I would be in a different state worrying myself about if he found some other girl. But I told myself if we have been together for almost three years now and he has never did anything wrong why would he start now? Basically if the guy you are with right now loves you, you need to take his word on that. If he says he would never cheat on you, you got to take that into consideration that he never will. And I know sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Guys will say they won't ever cheat on you but they do and that does give you something to worry about. Before he leaves or if he already has call him and talk to him about it. Listen to him and what he says. Tell him how sometimes you don't know if you really can trust him but you want to. Make him give you an honest answer if he is or not. If he says it in a way where you know you can trust his answer then trust him on what he says. As I said before sometimes trust gets broken. If you feel like this will happen talk to him about it. Talking to him about things you're unsure about will help you decide where to go from there. Good luck with your relationship! Love you! *-* Mandee *-*

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my mom has been really mean to me and my brothers lately and i think it is because her and my dad who are divorced are having arguements because she wants to move to a different state, what do i do!

This is the time when she needs you the most even though she won't say it or show it. You know what it's like to get dumped by your boyfriend right? It's something like that. She is just very upset and maybe she needs sometime to herself. Your mom probably does everything and gives everything she can for you. So just tell her you love her and that if she wants to talk you're here for her, but also let her know that you and your brother shouldn't get involved in this. Support her and try to help her out as much as you can. I know it's hard to have her being mean to you, but have you ever felt that sometimes you just want to be left alone? Maybe that's just how she feels. But talk to her about this. I'm sure she wants to here that you will be there for her through all of this! Love you! -Mandee

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ok well me and this girl briana are like best friends we go sumwhere together everyday and hang out...but lately she is getting annoying and i dont really wanna hang out with her anymore...do u think we hang out to much and im just gettin sick of her or what!? plez help me!

Yeah, sometimes a break is what you need once in awhile. I wouldn't stop the friendship completely but I would just kindly let her know you just need to have some time with other people for maybe like a day. Tell her you just need to spend some time with other people for a little while. Take care! Love you! -Mandee

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ok when i go out to eat with my sister and her boyfriend he boyfriend always makes my sis pay shouldnt he pay now my sis has like no money so what should she do or i do?

It's a good thing you are concerned for her! You could talk to her about this if you wanted to. But I think what she should do is talk to her boyfriend. It would be good to say to him how she doesn't have a lot of money, and maybe when they go out to eat they can take turns or if he could help her out a little bit just until she gets some more money. He wouldn't know how she feels about paying unless she speaks up. So if you are going to tell her about this, tell her to speak up and let him know she can't pay right now. And if you notice she seems afraid of her boyfriend there is a problem. If her boyfriend is a nice guy he would probably understand this and give in a little more. Or they could stop going out to eat for awhile. You can tell your sister's boyfriend about this too. That's only if you wanted to, sometimes it would feel uncomfortable if you didn't know him well. Just by telling him how much you notice your sister is paying for everything should get the message across. But one of you needs to speak up. If she has already told him about this tell her try it again and if he still doesn't do anything about it maybe it's time for a new boyfriend. If she spends the rest of her life like this paying for everything, where will she end up? Hopefully things will turn out okay! Good luck to both of you! Love you! -Mandee

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