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my best friend is going after my ex!
my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that.
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You need to suck it up and talk to her about it. She's supposed to be your best friend, and if you really care about your friendship, you'll open your mouth and tell her how you feel.
If she's really your friend, she'll understand and will lay off until you're completely over him. If she hears you out but then still tries to go for him, she's not really your friend and you can find someone else.
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Like I've said many times before....
True friends don't betray their friends.
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I was in the EXACT situation. You need to tell her before things start to get worse. I tried to act like nothing was wrong when I was in your situation then they started going out and it was just a big mess. I had to tell her when I was high because that was the only time I knew I would be able to tell her. I don't recommend doing that tho. You should just be straight forward about things. She's not being a good best friend if she's going after your ex. Hope all goes well
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You need to tell her that going after your ex is
hurting your feelings seeing as you still like him
don't be afraid to tell her she won't know it's bothering you unless you speak up & tell her it isn't ok if it's affecting you but seeing as it is
then no it's not ok if it wasn't affecting you then
it would be ok tell her even though the two of you
are broken up you'd like it if she stopped going after your ex seeing as it's affecting you what she's doing(:
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just tell her how you feel..call her up or have her go over your house and tell her that you still like him and your not comfortable with her going out with him or anything like that...good luck! xOx
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*The only way is tell her to give you time to get over him*
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Either way you need to tell her, or else you'll be upset about it a lot. Do this for yourself. Starting off by saying " I know you like my exboyfriend, but you know how sometimes..you still miss your relationships from awhile ago? I still do. I really still miss him and I like him. Maybe if you just stepped back a little, I understand you want him but I am still trying to recover from the break up, I may need some more time to get used to this." If you friend is a sweetheart she will understand and do as you ask. Because if she's been broken up with a guy before she will probably understand where yuo're comming from. But yeah it is a good idea to tell her this. You just don't want to spend years and years faking your happy about something when you aren't. Speak up and let her know how you feel about it! Good luck sweetie! Love you! -Mandee
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THE ONLY WAY IS TO BE TRUTHFUL! TELL HER THAT IT MAKES YOU A LITTLE UNCOMFORTABLE THINKING ABOUT THEM TOGETHER AND THAT YOU ARE OVER HIM QIUET YET!! ASK HER IF SHE WOULD MIND GIVING YOU TIME TO RECOOP!! GOOD LOCK GURLIE!!
J.J.
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Tell her what you just said.
If she's a real friend she'd understand, and wouldn't go for him.
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tell her to stay away from him. friends dont do that to eachother. what does she want your left overs for?
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the best thing to do is to tell your friend whats going on with it all!!! i mean you have to realize that your friends not doing it to hurt you.. but she prolly doesnt know it is hurting you.. so just talk it out.. and come to a good understanding!! well i hope it works out!! x0x0 hope i helped
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jus sit her down n b like..ayte look im tlkn 2 u friend 2 friend right here...so plz dont get mad..but i still have feelins for [name] n it bothers me tht my best friend is goin after him. i kno u didnt kno i liked him but idk..i just had 2 say something. n hopefully she'll be a good friend n understand tht she should back off a bit! x0x
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