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my mom and dad are getting a divorce...well its my cousins bday and she likes my toher cousins more (thats my age) so she chose her to sing at the wedding and made me not even be part of it i was really hurt..my mom got defensive..and like now my whole family hates her for divorving my dad and for bitching about it..and i feel like most of its my fault..i just feel like everything always is cuz my cousin thats gonna be in the wedding is perfect..and ive just always been a bad name to the family..i feel so guilty..i just need some advice..
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i'm sure you're an awesomely brilliant, smart, beautiful, talented person. don't feel so bad. it's natural to be kinda down after stuff like that, but don't let depression get the best of you. it'll get better, i promise. it might not seem like it now, but it will. no worries. good luck! :x
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First of all I am so sorry about the divorce!! And babe, no no no this is not your fault at all!!!! What makes you feel like you've been a bad name to the family? Hunnie, I am sure your family loves you! Even if they don't show it all of the time, but they do. You shouldn't feel guilty. No one is perfect, trust me your cousin is not perfect, maybe your mom is more connected with her than you. And that hurts. You need to calmly talk to your mom about the wedding again. She can either be there for you and try to be supportive and understanding or she will just blow you off. If she does, she is obviously having some issues right now...maybe you guys aren't that close and that is why she is so distant from your feelings. Whatever it may be you want to at least try to be there for her, and maybe she'll be there for you. Best of luck to you hun! Love you! -Mandee
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you shouldnt feel guilty. you have nothing to do with the divorce. that is grown up stuff. stop feeling so sorry for yourself. you did nothing wrong. and fuck your cousin who thinks she is so perfect. you need to feel highly about yourself.
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ok w. the divorce..my parents r divorced 2 n its not that bad! its hella lot better then when they were married i can tell u tht much haha! n nothin tht happens in ur family tht is this kind of issue is ur fault. its not ur fault ur parents r gettin divorced, n whatever happened in the past is over so they shouldnt thrive on it. jus try 2 have a good name in ur fam, show them u love them even when it can be hard to do tht. tlel urcuz how u fell but dont make her feel pressured or cornered. u seem like a sweet girl..n the diff. between u n some other ppl is u actually care..n tht says somethin! good luck hun n i hope everything works out
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