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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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ok well you know for the abercrombie kids some of the shirts say Est. 1892 ? well does that mean that they had abercrombie in 1892? lol please help, i'm really confused!

I used to be confused about that too until I looked it up one day lol.
Well Est. is established, so the brand name 'Abercrombie' was established in 1892 selling hunting clothes, gear, etc. That is why the logo is a moose.
But I have no clue how hunting stuff turned into what it is selling these days lol.

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can you have or get a genital wart if your not sexually active?

No.
But sexually active means a lot of different things and not just sex. The only way you can get it is through genital contact.

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Okay well I have a hickey and I was wondering if anyone knows how to get rid of it or make it so nobody can see it? Reply Back Pleasee! Thankss :]

Concealer.
Keep applying it on JUST the hickey until it is covered and hidden ;]

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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.

thankss

Wow that was long lol.
Anyway Im not sure where to begin or even how to answer this. Im sure you dont want me to say this but it is really up to you. You have to really think if YOU want to and stop asking other people. Personally when I thought if that was me in your position I wouldnt go back out with him. I mean look at what he has down to you in the past, acted like a jerk on PURPOSE, didnt hangout cause what you were wearing, then a day later starts making out with you. What happens if he just loses interests again? Its probably going to hurt you even more than last time or just as much.
Im not sure of what else to say so goodluck!

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On Myspace, is it possible to make your display name an image? Thanks

Actually you can.
Im sorry I dont remember the site name but you could probably find it after you searched it awhile.
It has a thing that gives you a code to make your name an image or a color.
Sorry that I dont remember but I just thought I would let you know!

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i have blonde hair..
would that hairstyle go good???
if not or is there anyway you can suggest any other haircuts??because i have longish hair right now liek its 4-5 inches below my shoulder. and my friends say that i look better with short hair. so can you help me? should i get side bangs or??

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my hair is like wavy and sometimes it can be poofy. so i have no iea what to look for.


but i still need to be able to pull it back into a pony tail. a high pony tail.






ok so heres one i like but i dont know if like it would look good on me..

http://cache.eonline.com/Features/Features/Sizzlin2004/Girls/Images/pic.Simpson.jpg


heres my face..

http://img474.imageshack.us/img474/5329/92200653et1.png

and

http://img380.imageshack.us/img380/5656/1000276kq0.jpg


i have blonde hair..
would that hairstyle go good???
if not or is there anyway you can suggest any other haircuts??because i have longish hair right now liek its 4-5 inches below my shoulder. and my friends say that i look better with short hair. so can you help me? should i get side bangs or??

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my hair is like wavy and sometimes it can be poofy. so i have no iea what to look for.


but i still need to be able to pull it back into a pony tail. a high pony tail.

Well you have a round face and there really is no "one perfect hairstyle" for a round shaped face. Alot of things factor into choosing your hairstyle. The length of your hair, the texture, your age and lifestyle requirements all play a part in the best style.

There are good general guidelines that you can follow but the best solution is to find a style that works best for you and all your beauty needs.

1. Layered bangs rather than straight or heavy bangs.

2. Short styles which give height.

3. Styles that add length.

4. Styles that keep the sides of your hair short or close to the face.

5. Curls around the crown, but never near the cheeks, to create height. Keep the sides of your hair short with a curly style.

6. Longer to very long styles with bangs and a graduated shag or layers so that the face and the neck are given a slenderizing shape.

After you read all that you should be able to find a good hairstyle but if you still need more help then just leave one in my inbox.

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well my friends two year anniversary with her boyfriend is soon. so do you have any ideas on what she should get him. cause she has no clue.

and if it helps he's 18 and so is she.

thanks in advance.

She should stay away from..
-Money.
-Giftcards.
Big main things.

As for some ideas.
How about tickets attached to something little so when he opens or gets the little thing he sees tickets for his favorite basketball or football etc. team. She should get too so they could go together and they could spend time together yet he still gets to do his guy sports thing.

Oh and if that doesnt work for her then she should just try to be creative. Nothing boring and unoriginal. How about something to do with where they met or how they met? Something to do with where they had their first kiss?

Tell her goodluck!

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Is there any other advice sites like advicenators, where you can get free advice? I'm just wondering, I love advicenators though.

Theres actually a lot of message board type sites.
All you have to do is google it.
If you need me to search for some then just let me know.

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I need to know a great idea on where to have a date celebrating me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary. Please help me.

Wherever you had your first date.
Wherever you had your first kiss.
Wherever you had your first something.
Be creative and romantic with it =]
(But I suggest the first idea the most)

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okay well i like thisguys and i know that one of them likes me but i have never talked to him before i like him also.

Are you asking how to talk to him or what to do?
Im confused.
You can tell me in feedback or on my column and Ill try to answer as best as I can.

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im 13 years old, and i have braces. the teeth around my braces arent completely white, but not yellow either. just sorta regular. i realllly want my teeth to be whiter, tho, so is it ok to brush your teeth wit baking soda, evn tho i have braces? will it damage the braces?

Id just wait till you get your braces off.
You dont want your teeth that is not covered by braces to get whiter. So if you wait till you get them off you can color all of your teeth.
But if you still want to then no I dont think it damages your braces.

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how can i keep my side bangs in place without using a ton of hairspray?

When you are blow drying your hair take a big round brush and use that on your bangs. Then take a straightener and straighten them however you want them to stay. But stay away from water. That should keep them in place but if it still doesnt then use a TINY bit of hairspray but not to the point where your hair gets crunchy.

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hows this for a break up letter??



Hey Tyler,

Okay, this is really hard for me but like I like you and stuff but I just feel we should just be friends. There are a few reasons; my parents just randomly decided I can't go out with anyone. It also kind of changed how we acted around each other and it was awkward (for me at least). And I hate awkwardness; and to me, you were being a little too clingy but that's not a bad thing to all people...it’s just something that's just not my type. But that is just my opinion, and it might just be different for me because past boyfriends I have had didn’t really hang around me that much because they weren’t in the same classes as me. I also feel like I don’t really know you well enough to go out with you, you know? I really don't mean to be mean but really, I just see you more as a friend and we had a lot more fun then too. I don’t know if this meant anything either but I saw you hugging another girl in the hall but again, I don’t know if you guys were just friends or what. I know these might just sound like lame excuses but I just really don’t want a boyfriend right now so it isn’t really you as much as it is me. I’m sorry. I hope we can just be friends?

~~Jenna

Honestly that sounds a little mean.
I mean if your planning on breaking up with him over email or instant message or whatever then dont make the letter mean.
I think you should forget this letter and just sit down with him and say it straight out.
If you say stuff like 'my parents randomly said i cant go out with anyone' or 'your being to clingy' etc. then it might sound like your making excuses.
But if you really dont want to say it in person then do it on the phone but just stay away from email, myspace, or IM.


EDIT- Im sorry you had to rate me a 3 but I think its cause I said what you didnt wanna hear. Dont take anything I wrote personally, I was just trying to help you out.

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we got our school pictures back today. and i have no idea what to write on the back. what are some cute things to write. by the way im a girl and in 10th grade.

Make it personal and different for each person.
Write inside jokes, fun times, nicknames etc.
Be creative :)

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Where can I get some jeans without pockets on the butt? haha.

I love those but I dont know where to go to get them.

Anchor Blue.

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hey im going shopping and i'd like to know what stores are like wet seal with really cute clothes,also where to find really tight low rise jeans (aeros dont fit me,pac sun does but im getting bored of pacsun) also,would angels fit me? i need to find something that makes my butt look bigger...no pocket pants make you look bigger right? or is it the opposite..?

Charlotte Russe is the closest thing to Forever 21 that I can think of. I love their clothes and they have that sort of glamorous look/girlish type clothes. So try it out. If you truely need anymore stores I could find some but I hoped this helped a little.

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so, does being sexually active, in a doctor's opinion (like they ask you when you go), specially mean HAVING SEX, or does it mean having any kind of sex (ex. manual or oral)?

Sexually Active means ANY TYPE of sexual behavior so yes those qualify.
♥Ashley

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My friend went on the Depo shot sometime around the middle of March and lost her virginity (unprotected) maybe a couple weeks after that. Thing is, she hasn't started her period yet. It's now nearly 7 weeks later and she's scared. The only time she's bled on the shot is after having sex. She has only had PROTECTED sex once of twice but has had unprotected sex many times. She says she's not going to worry about it but I can tell she is and I don't know what to tell her. Is it normal for her not to spot or start her period or is this something she should see her doctor about or take a test for? Please help, I rate high! Thank you.

Well the truth is, most likely she's pregnant. If she's had unprotected sex MANY times then yes there is a high chance she's pregnant. What she could do is go to Planned Parenthood, see a doctor to know for sure, or get a pregnancy test from a drugstore. Hope it all works out!
♥Ashley

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Okay, so last Friday, this guy I liked, who is also one of my good friends, totally scarred my heart by asking my other really good friend out when he knew I liked him. Most of my friends told me to not jump into any relationships just to get over him and I know they are right. I've seen the effects of a reboudn relationship.

Anywayz, today this guy who I used to like and even went out with for like a few months (not a super long relationship, but not too short for middle school) was totally flirting with me and making it wicked noticeable. I had like so many people come up to me and tell me. Well, the truth is, I thik my feelings for him might be coming back.

Am I just rushing into things? Should I act on my feelings? Talk to him about it?

First off, I think you should forget about the first guy. I mean he asked out your good friend when he knew YOU liked him. For the second guy, I think you should definately go for it. Even if it is a rebound relationship there are still feelings and you need to bounce back sooner or later so why not sooner? Hope I helped!
♥Ashley

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ok.. so i know this isnt good. but the other day i had a really low self-esteme and i took painkillers.. how many would like really harm me because im worried..

Any more then two can hurt you. If you took them the other day and you fine right now then your lucky and nothing happened but next time limit yourself to only 1 or two at the most. Hope I helped!
Ashley♥

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